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Nazma

@NazmaJ

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Posted: 13 years ago

The emotional quotient of the episode has taken its toll on me today!! I feel absolutely terrible!! Honestly I feel like I'm going to be sick!!! The stomach is very unsettled and I feel an ache in my heart!! It wasn't here before I started watching!!

I really don't know if I can cope with this horribleness!! Not even gorgeous Ahem has been enough to get me out of the doldrums!! And he was lovely today!!

Gosh I didn't know I could dislike Kokila so much!! What is it going to take to make her understand that Ahem needs more than work and his mother's pallu?

And to make it doubly worse for me I then see RaJi talking to each other ina quite nice way. OK so Jigar hasn't completely forgiven her but it's obvious that Rashi is going to keep at him and soon enough they'll be back to normal.

Poor Gopi and poor Ahem!! Just as they were getting comfortable with each other Koki had to throw a spanner in the works!! It's so frustrating to watch! And we know Gopi - she's going to stick to her vow!! And Ahem isn't going to go against his mother either so until Kokila realises what she is doing is harming the two people that she loves most, then I can't envisage this situation changing!!

If there is some ulterior motive in what Kokila is doing then I'm stumped. I can honestly say that it is beyond my limited brain power to work out what it is that she'd be hoping to achieve.

It makes no sense to me and has just served to leave me with a mammoth headache today!!

On the plus side, Ahem's concern for Gopi was heartwarming to see. And I love how the pair of them are so concerned with the well being of the other - especially Gopi. She is doing her best to ensure that she is helping everyone with no thought to her own life - she's completely invested her happiness in the happiness of her MIL and husband, which would be good if Kokila was normal and let her son and vau be together and happy.

I don't think Kokila is going to realise the impact of her actions until Hetal is a great grandma and Kokila just has her Ahem working away in Modi Industries and Gopi is there tending to Kokila's every demand!!

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varshu27

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Posted: 13 years ago

nazma today was an emotional epi...this is for u🤗...koki and her wierd punishments are hard to take i agree...but look at it this way...if in this process ahem realises his love for gopi and sets some boundaries for koki...would that not be wonderful...atleast im hoping thats how its going to be...its going to get worse before it gets better...and both gopi and ahem are going to come out of this with new respect and happiness...

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maddy311

@maddy311

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Posted: 13 years ago

Nice post nazma.
Today was again horrible episode.
I can try to be positive with everything but what was that tea incident. I can't get over it. She herself is creating distance between them and trying to create a place for herself.
If she has some hidden motives then as you said I am stumped as well but her looks today didn't look to me like she was a concerned mother.
Rashi on other hand has cleverly started to make her place back in jigar's life. I can see both of them normal soon

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pair12356

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hey sorry to say bt gopi s stupid why she s hurting HERSELF? WHY? N 4 who? Ahem who doesnt love her it has been long time that they r 2gether bt still n.thing happened that we feel ahem loves gopi

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Nazma

@NazmaJ

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: varshu27
nazma today was an emotional epi...this is for u🤗...koki and her wierd punishments are hard to take i agree...but look at it this way...if in this process ahem realises his love for gopi and sets some boundaries for koki...would that not be wonderful...atleast im hoping thats how its going to be...its going to get worse before it gets better...and both gopi and ahem are going to come out of this with new respect and happiness...

Aww thankyou!!!🤗

I really do want Ahem to make a stand and show everyone that he is a grown man who can handle his business and personal life without interference from his mom!!!

I hope that Gopi and Ahem come out of this track with a much closer realtionship and much more respect and love for each other!!!

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Rachna

@Chaccha

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Posted: 13 years ago

Nazma,

Be brave!! Even I hated the way Gopi cried silently by the dinner table and then, later when she was pretending to sleep, but I think that there are brighter days ahead. Ahem will soon (by tomorrow hopefully) realize she's avoiding him and then, he'll try to fix it and hopefully, Koki sees it herself that she's hurting them too. 😵

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Munni

@munnihyderabad

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Posted: 13 years ago

Nazma dear... hope u r doing better with the accident injuries ,,,and hope ur pain is subsided...

coming to the post ... yeah lovely analysis...always love to see your views...

-indeed a very emotional episode... just after u made this post i went and watched the episode..

now i am really confused and wish koki really really has a great reason up her sleeve to make these two people go through the pain...

-..loved the way he asked her for tea...completely like a normal husband and wife...felt so nice...but had to be ruined... Gopi... poor girl cannot even give him the tea...is giving tea to you hubby = diverting him from work😕 .

-OMG couldn't see the girl ...she is in a devastated state...she just has started her relation with her hubby on the basis of friendship...she made place for herself...started talking without stuttering,...but again went back to shell...u could see it on her face as how difficult it was for her to keep away from himself...

-when he offered to help..she rejected...which is not normal as per gopi...

when he asked for the blue file...she just said it's near the laptop...which is not normal again...otherwise she would be running on her toes and getting him the file from the table...

- she was concerned that he did not eat properly...he was concerned about her health...to check fever on her...in all this she did not have her dinner i guess...they were just setting the table for dinner...no one worried for her or asked her to eat...😕

never once she looked into his eyes...

skipped watching raji and urmi...

nazma this for u dear 🤗 hope u feel better

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Nazma

@NazmaJ

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: maddy311
Nice post nazma.
Today was again horrible episode.
I can try to be positive with everything but what was that tea incident. I can't get over it. She herself is creating distance between them and trying to create a place for herself.
If she has some hidden motives then as you said I am stumped as well but her looks today didn't look to me like she was a concerned mother.
Rashi on other hand has cleverly started to make her place back in jigar's life. I can see both of them normal soon

Thanks Maddy!!!

It was indeed a horrible episode!!

It's like when they were first married and Gopi tried to do stuff for Ahem and Koki would come between them!! The more the CVs show Kokila's current behaviour the more I think that they have just decided to change Kokila's character back to what she was initially.

I hate Rashi at the moment and it's not because of anything she's done. She's making her place with Jigar but I hate that the CVs are once again showing Rashi and Jigar getting close while the distances between Gopi and Ahem are just getting bigger and bogger!!

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-JollyJabeen-

@-JollyJabeen-

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Posted: 13 years ago

Today was horrible!

I wanted to cry, I literally had to bite back my tears!😭

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Nazma

@NazmaJ

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: pair12356
Hey sorry to say bt gopi s stupid why she s hurting HERSELF? WHY? N 4 who? Ahem who doesnt love her it has been long time that they r 2gether bt still n.thing happened that we feel ahem loves gopi

Gopi is an adharsh bahu who is putting her MIL's happiness above her own - it's very in keeping with her character.

Relationships take time and recently there was improvement and advancement in the way both Gopi and Ahem were regarding each other. We've suffered through the times when Ahem hated Gopi and before the accident there were rays of hope bursting through!!

Unfortunately the CVs decided to mess up what was a good thing.

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