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Posted: 13 years ago
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Awe..Tina Thanks so much.🤗 You don't how much your words has helped me. I have always loved Koki and I was almost afraid to watch today. I finally watched it when it aired here, and I must say she has completely lost it.

I wish she would just tell him why she is really angry with him instead of going in the round about way, but this is good too, he needs to create some distance from his mom, so he can be ready to truly accept Gopi as his other half.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sbp1971

Awe..Tina Thanks so much.🤗 You don't how much your words has helped me. I have always loved Koki and I was almost afraid to watch today. I finally watched it when it aired here, and I must say she has completely lost it.

I wish she would just tell him why she is really angry with him instead of going in the round about way, but this is good too, he needs to create some distance from his mom, so he can be ready to truly accept Gopi as his other half.




@Bold.. Exactly what I wanted today to be.. A logical, taunting dialogue about how Ahem is forgetting what is important in his life... But no.. The CVs needed to make it into another illogical drama..
But Shilpa your last point brings another drop of hope just like Tina.. Maybe that is how it will pan out..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1



@Bold.. Exactly what I wanted today to be.. A logical, taunting dialogue about how Ahem is forgetting what is important in his life... But no.. The CVs needed to make it into another illogical drama..
But Shilpa your last point brings another drop of hope just like Tina.. Maybe that is how it will pan out..


Hi, I think Koki is not thinking abt Gopi at all. You guys are not getting it😕. She is whopping mad as Ahem is helping Jigar. Koki has always differentiated b/w Ahem & Jigar & has always wanted Ahem to be like his kaka & Jiggy to be like her hubby😛. So what she said was true that by spending time at home he'll become a ladies-man from business-man . He does not need to distance himself from his mom but Ahem has to address Koki's insecurities by being Gopi Pati... If this is handled well by CV, then we can be have a wonderful track.

According to Koki Ahem has fallen for Gopi hook line & sinker...she has seen him massaging her foot, getting slapped by her, giving her hair wash, he gifting her a cell phone, together kite flying, trip to Mandir, sitting together in the movie, today went out on a date so Ahem is too much Gopi's now...there is no doubt in Koki's head abt that. 😉😆

I'll copy & paste from my older post...
Koki's insecurity...

She has an oversize ego. And an oversize ego is fundamentally driven by insecurity. And we all know the reasons for her insecurity. If you are secure then your ego has nothing to prove. Looking @ Parag we sure can guess that she did not get best kind of emotional & financial support from her Parag ji. That is why she keeps the shovel ready & ready to legally bulldoze him with no hesitation ( we audience have this...expression... Don't'ohh ...Please don't'ohh.) All this has made her very ego driven control freak and territorial. 🤢

She does not understand the territory of love as she has not shared it with a wonderful man in her life. That's why she cannot appreciate her son & DIL's relationship. She is abs not able to fathom that why a relationship should be based on equality, mutual respect and why Ahem does anything & everything to make Gopi happy! But here she has made Ahem a complete take charge kind of guy. '.whatever he does, he does it with conviction & might. According to him things done by halves are never done right. When he hated Gopi he hated her with intensity now that he is falling for her... he is loving her with even more intensity...can we blame him😳( we are all ready to smother him with affection now)😃

She is from the era of Pati Parameshwar but in her relationship Parag become a JKJ so she is scared if Ahem has his dad's genes then he'll surely become a JKG. But I fail to understand, that Chirag, who Koki considers such a successful businessman had a wonderful relationship with his wife. Has told Ahem & Jigar that he always used to take Hetal whenever he went on business trips. So all this would have happened under Kokila 's nose''why did she not take a notice of that. Maybe she was too busy shaping & educating Ahem & spanking Parag😆


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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ Tina
spanking Parag 🤣 I can picture it,,,,
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: 5cents


Hi, I think Koki is not thinking abt Gopi at all. You guys are not getting it😕. She is whopping mad as Ahem is helping Jigar. Koki has always differentiated b/w Ahem & Jigar & has always wanted Ahem to be like his kaka & Jiggy to be like her hubby😛. So what she said was true that by spending time at home he'll become a ladies-man from business-man . He does not need to distance himself from his mom but Ahem has to address Koki's insecurities by being Gopi Pati... If this is handled well by CV, then we can be have a wonderful track.

According to Koki Ahem has fallen for Gopi hook line & sinker...she has seen him massaging her foot, getting slapped by her, giving her hair wash, he gifting her a cell phone, together kite flying, trip to Mandir, sitting together in the movie, today went out on a date so Ahem is too much Gopi's now...there is no doubt in Koki's head abt that. 😉😆

I'll copy & paste from my older post...
Koki's insecurity...

She has an oversize ego. And an oversize ego is fundamentally driven by insecurity. And we all know the reasons for her insecurity. If you are secure then your ego has nothing to prove. Looking @ Parag we sure can guess that she did not get best kind of emotional & financial support from her Parag ji. That is why she keeps the shovel ready & ready to legally bulldoze him with no hesitation ( we audience have this...expression... Don't'ohh ...Please don't'ohh.) All this has made her very ego driven control freak and territorial. 🤢

She does not understand the territory of love as she has not shared it with a wonderful man in her life. That's why she cannot appreciate her son & DIL's relationship. She is abs not able to fathom that why a relationship should be based on equality, mutual respect and why Ahem does anything & everything to make Gopi happy! But here she has made Ahem a complete take charge kind of guy. '.whatever he does, he does it with conviction & might. According to him things done by halves are never done right. When he hated Gopi he hated her with intensity now that he is falling for her... he is loving her with even more intensity...can we blame him😳( we are all ready to smother him with affection now)😃

She is from the era of Pati Parameshwar but in her relationship Parag become a JKJ so she is scared if Ahem has his dad's genes then he'll surely become a JKG. But I fail to understand, that Chirag, who Koki considers such a successful businessman had a wonderful relationship with his wife. Has told Ahem & Jigar that he always used to take Hetal whenever he went on business trips. So all this would have happened under Kokila 's nose''why did she not take a notice of that. Maybe she was too busy shaping & educating Ahem & spanking Parag😆




Hmm..I do see your point Tina. And yes she does not have this relationship with, come to think of it her resentment of Chirag stems from this also, and in the past for Jigar when he was always so chummy to Rashi. This is also the reason she purposely chose Gopi for Ahem.

I do feel sorry for her, for going thru life without experiencing this kind of love.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sbp1971

We thought the twist would be done tastefully not like this where Ahem is treated like a five year old child. And Koki is a controlling and overbearing mother.

What happened to the Koki who lovingly told Gopi that she is lucky for the whole Modi Family? The Koki who said to Ahem she trusts him completely?

This would be a twist if there was a purpose for Koki to make Ahem stay home but no she is being petty and acting childish. She is punishing him because he did something against her wishes.

So if Ahem does stay home per her orders at least one or two things can happen. One he get to spend time with Gopi. And the first would happen if Gopi can carve out time for him in between all her duties and Rashi's duties.

E even this is an advantage, Ahem can see with his own eyes how Rashi manipulates the situation where Gopi ends up doing all her work too. And how Gopi runs after Rashi when she has free time instead of him.

So this is my positives in this whole crappy track. What's yours?

Oh I forgot, Rashi will no longer be on the phone with Urmi she will now be lovey dovey wifey talking to her gullible husband or texting him every few seconds while Gopi does all her work and Rashi can get praised by her happy bunny mother in law Hetal.

👏 Well done CVs this is what we wanted to see.

Just one more thing, if we think we will get more Gohem scens please don't start dreaming yet. We may get a few seconds everyday like we did today, and move forward one inch at a time.

Will add more as I come up with more.

Thank you for reading my rant.


Shilpa, I just wanna tell you one thing. Koki was always like this. Its only that everything, everything was going just according to her wish. I have never liked her shortcomings whatever they were but didnt express it at all to not hurt Koki fans as i also liked some of her qualities like being impartial! But it doesnt mean that she could do whatever she liked, sometimes i find her too rude and overpowering others! Kinjal did wrong i know but getting her married to a low income household forcefully just to teach her was not not right according to me! And accepting Gopi only seeing that she never ever replies was also not correct! I would never ever like to have such a mil. One should take it easy in life which she never does. So much Gopi went thro' just coz of her...and now Ahem has just given a gift to Rashi and she's making this big biggg fuss over it. She has always been like this but was never tested before...now comes her true test and what she'll do to get thro' it is yet to to be seen. But to be true, I am simply loving it as Koki has taken everyone's test, never spared anyone even her husband so now is she strong enough to think logically now? Please do reply Shilpa, I wanna know your thoughts on this one. Thank you.😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tangam

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spanking Parag 🤣 I can picture it,,,,

Tangram, I meant it figuratively 😳 lol 😆But you'll agree that Koki has many times, with her eyes & words scared the living daylight out of Poet Parag
Now she is behind our dear Ahem...she is ready to beat the stuffing out of him ...poor boy😳

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Tina.. I think Koki never saw that side of Chirag.. Hetal and Chirag are close but they are not overtly affectionate in public. You can see it when Chirag looks at Hetal and the way he wishes her.. When Koki is not able to read Ahem's love, she would have had no time for reading between lines when Hetal and Parag were a young couple..😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Tina.. I think Koki never saw that side of Chirag.. Hetal and Chirag are close but they are not overtly affectionate in public. You can see it when Chirag looks at Hetal and the way he wishes her.. When Koki is not able to read Ahem's love, she would have had no time for reading between lines when Hetal and Parag were a young couple..😆



harini what is this 😕😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: munnihyderabad



harini what is this 😕😆



My thread is about to get contaminated.


One wonders how she managed to produce two children.

Hey wait I got it, first time was accidental SR as we thing Gohem will one just like. And may be second time she was drunk on Bhang Ladoo, is this why she doesn't like celebrating Holi, because it reminds her of her loss of control?😆

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