Gopi is wrong in hiding Rattie/Jigar story

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MARHABAA

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Posted: 13 years ago

Considering Kokila doesnt really care that much for Rattie shes not going to be heart broken if the marriage doesn't patch up .For Ahem to then justify this as a reason ie his mother will get upset if they are unsuccessful is irrelevant.

Gopi is 100% wrong from hiding the plan from Kokila who has treated her with love and care in the best way she knows how.Kokila always uphold Gopi in her meri Gopi Bahu speeches!

Gopi alreasy knows the consequences of hiding things in relation to Rattie from Kokila and therefore her continuing to do so is absurd.

She should have taken Kokila into her confidence and explained whats happening ,maybe both her and Ahem should have told her together but hiding it from her is wrong .

No doubt once discovered no doubt she will sob her mujhe maaf kardiya maa jii 😡 does Gopi not learn anything from her mistakes !!

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Posted: 13 years ago

gopi is becoming liar...sorry she is already a liar... she wont listen to koki...rashi ============gopi

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: MARHABAA
Considering Kokila doesnt really care that much for Rattie shes not going to be heart broken if the marriage doesn't patch up .For Ahem to then justify this as a reason ie his mother will get upset if they are unsuccessful is irrelevant.

I do not think this is correct. Kokila does care for Rashi at least because she is a Modi Bahu. She may dislike her because of her actions but she still would be happy if Jigar is happy with Rashi. She is not a villain against their relation. She just wants Rashi to be like say her Gopi vahu.. Responsible and honest.

Gopi is 100% wrong from hiding the plan from Kokila who has treated her with love and care in the best way she knows how.Kokila always uphold Gopi in her meri Gopi Bahu speeches!
Gopi alreasy knows the consequences of hiding things in relation to Rattie from Kokila and therefore her continuing to do so is absurd.
She should have taken Kokila into her confidence and explained whats happening ,maybe both her and Ahem should have told her together but hiding it from her is wrong .
No doubt once discovered no doubt she will sob her mujhe maaf kardiya maa jii 😡 does Gopi not learn anything from her mistakes !!

I cannot blame Gopi for this. She did what her husband asked her to do. For Gopi Ahem comes before everyone else.. Even Kokila.. So she is bound to listen to Ahem without arguement irrespective of him being right or wrong.
I agree totally that Kokila will be angry when she knows the truth. But that cannot be helped and Gopi has Ahem to side her this time (it will worsen the situation but knowing Kokila she will be angry at Ahem more than Gopi.)
The only mistake of Gopi's is to not have reasoned with Ahem when he told her not to tell his mom. But as I said, she does not question Ahem at all..