My perspective,don't kill me! -Koki :@ thread - Page 6

Originally posted by: sweetsugar

@poshah : i do agree with ur prespective as well ,some people do tend to have feeling of insecurity , it indeed is a matter of time , though for Koki i feel the insecurity is not cause Ahem is growing closer to gopi but because of things tat happen without her knowledge , all this while she has been used to the 'Ahem' who took care to inform her abt his early meeting next day and now he reaches to the mandir during working hour without her knowledge ...

OMG wat am i saying do i evn make sense😵

Originally posted by: CHIKA784

I understand that but Koki is not a computer,she does NOT need to know everything,come on,not everyone esp her bahu and son have to tell her everything,every small,little thing,give them some space! -___________-

yeah tats right too , dont know i myself am confused with wat this KOKILA is !

koki being duffold..and as sometimes gujjus say, dabbu no dha che..is definitely the best dialogue.

@maddy, tame shant thai jao 😃

Originally posted by: poshah

koki being duffold..and as sometimes gujjus say, dabbu no dha che..is definitely the best dialogue.

@maddy, tame shant thai jao 😃

Originally posted by: CHIKA784

I think everyones gussa (anger) has become tanda (cold) after posting on this thread😆

I feel so much calmer!😃

Chika, awesome post...Really, very entertaing thread...🤣 had my full quota of laughter here.

Originally posted by: 5cents

Chika, awesome post...Really, very entertaing thread...🤣 had my full quota of laughter here.

This forum seriously makes me so happy! Every time I feel like I am obsessing too much over something to do with Saathiya, I come here and breathe a sigh of relief to know that there are so many others who feel the same way! I was literally seething over Kokila after watching the ME, but reading this post and all the comments that followed have made me relatively calmer! Glad to know I wasn't the only one who found Kokila the Queen of everything that was annoying and beyond today! She seriously needs to sort herself out and learn that there is something called privacy and space that she desperate needs to give her son and DIL!

Originally posted by: Allbut1

This forum seriously makes me so happy! Every time I feel like I am obsessing too much over something to do with Saathiya, I come here and breathe a sigh of relief to know that there are so many others who feel the same way! I was literally seething over Kokila after watching the ME, but reading this post and all the comments that followed have made me relatively calmer! Glad to know I wasn't the only one who found Kokila the Queen of everything that was annoying and beyond today! She seriously needs to sort herself out and learn that there is something called privacy and space that she desperate needs to give her son and DIL!

Okay people I am tired and pissed off to put it lightly😆 so better be warned about what is coming now!!!!!

i just disagree with you guys, sorry to say but I don't see your point or better you don't see the point as i see it (find out what that means and then come and complain to me😛) Koki is not against Gohem and the reason she has been starring and being cranky with them is not because they want to do something together but because she feels there is something fishy going on, Rashi being involved and all. Don't forget what this trip was really about for Gopi at least. It wasn't about romanzing with Ahem and I still have to be convinced that this was Ahem's main goal either, he might had this in the back of his mind but not more!!! So what is it what pisses you people of so much, that Koki ruined the plan to force Jigar to take Rashi back properly? Are you serious all what will come out of such an action is a forced relationship, which will break again and this time finally, when Rashi's other kalakari's are going to be revealed. Nothing more. It might improve the situation for a short while but not more. So Am not getting what you are saying!!

Also why shouldn't Koki ask, why this decision was made so suddenly? Am I wrong or are family trips not planned at least one day ahead or at the breakfast table? Especially if you are such a big family as the Modi's are. If you are just three, like in my family most of the times, then it isn't a big issue but if you have to think about 9 people having the time a litte head start would have been nice. Also Ahem asked for ALL to come to the pictures, which includes Koki and she didn't want to come but was forced to, so don't blame her for things she isn't responsible for, please.

So you found it really hard to understand that Koki a sensable woman deceided that it would be best that two people, sitting four seats apart, trying to converse in a cinema should sit together? Especially knowing that Jigar was more then unhappy sitting next to Rashi? Koki is not blind and she can see that Jigar does not want to spent time with Rashi in the moment and she seems the only one determind to give him the right to handle this himself. Everyone else be it the parents, brother or SIL are hell bent to make him dance to their wishes. Jigar will come around, when he is ready and Rashi deserves it, which she does not yet and will not if other people don't take their noses out of her and Jigar's business.

The chewing gum part. Seriously? You got a problem with that? She didn't shout at her not made her feel overly bad and to be honest, if someone would sit next to me munching like this on a gum, if I had the power to asked him to stop it I would. (am really sensetive about chewing noises. Gives me the creeps it does. I know its silly but what can I do?) So agree it was a useless scene but I can't see the big fault in it.

Then her looking where GoHem are. Well naturelly she is worried for them. Firstly as was pointed out already Gopi is still ill and had some major and minor incidents not long ago, so a loving mother as Koki will want to keep an eye on her, especially since she was against the whole trip because she was worried for her from the outset. To this comes the fact that Koki knows that this might be something quite new to Gopi so extra reason to be worried. Adding to this comes the fact that Koki didn't know that they would sit somewhere else. If she would have known than she wouldn't have looked for them all the time, because she know that they are really in the cinema. Giving her the chance to just take a quick look from time to time checking that her Gopi vahu's condition is holding up.

Lastly to her going to GoHem at the end. Well she couldn't really see what Ahem was really doing and because he was pointing his arm in her direction she thought maybe he calls me, something might be up with Gopi vahu. So as the worried and responsible mother she went and checked on them. It is not her fault that GoHem always look guilty when she sees them together, even though we now that they didn't even yet have had a proper hug, let alone other things, which would result in this new toy for Koki, we were disgussing. Lastly about her offering to sit with Gopi vahu well it wasn't that long ago in SNS time that Ahem would jump at every oportunity to get away from Gopi and also she knows that they have gotten closer but still not for the right reason. Also she might have just wanted to spent time with her vahu in the moment. Go on and blame for it if you want but I find that quiete harsh

Okay now really lastly for the serious part of this post before Koki starts being a real hellish nightmare towards Gopi trying to make her life diffucult and unhappy, you cannot be serious calling her a bad MIL!! She loves Gopi like a mother and tries to protect her from any harm and the realisation that Ahem did all that caring just out of duty (as he still believes) will surely break her heart in millions of tiny pieces

okay now on to less serious matters. People if you don't want me to read this thread get the thread maker to stop pointing out this thread to me through PMs and adding the word Koki in the title!!! I mean otherwise I would have missed the thread quiet likely😆

But hey I am not pissed anymore after writting it all down and I aprreciate all opinions but I do not share them in this thread to be frank so be free to not share my opinion here as well😃

Originally posted by: d-luna88

Okay people I am tired and pissed off to put it lightly😆 so better be warned about what is coming now!!!!!

i just disagree with you guys, sorry to say but I don't see your point or better you don't see the point as i see it (find out what that means and then come and complain to me😛) Koki is not against Gohem and the reason she has been starring and being cranky with them is not because they want to do something together but because she feels there is something fishy going on, Rashi being involved and all. Don't forget what this trip was really about for Gopi at least. It wasn't about romanzing with Ahem and I still have to be convinced that this was Ahem's main goal either, he might had this in the back of his mind but not more!!! So what is it what pisses you people of so much, that Koki ruined the plan to force Jigar to take Rashi back properly? Are you serious all what will come out of such an action is a forced relationship, which will break again and this time finally, when Rashi's other kalakari's are going to be revealed. Nothing more. It might improve the situation for a short while but not more. So Am not getting what you are saying!!

Also why shouldn't Koki ask, why this decision was made so suddenly? Am I wrong or are family trips not planned at least one day ahead or at the breakfast table? Especially if you are such a big family as the Modi's are. If you are just three, like in my family most of the times, then it isn't a big issue but if you have to think about 9 people having the time a litte head start would have been nice. Also Ahem asked for ALL to come to the pictures, which includes Koki and she didn't want to come but was forced to, so don't blame her for things she isn't responsible for, please.

So you found it really hard to understand that Koki a sensable woman deceided that it would be best that two people, sitting four seats apart, trying to converse in a cinema should sit together? Especially knowing that Jigar was more then unhappy sitting next to Rashi? Koki is not blind and she can see that Jigar does not want to spent time with Rashi in the moment and she seems the only one determind to give him the right to handle this himself. Everyone else be it the parents, brother or SIL are hell bent to make him dance to their wishes. Jigar will come around, when he is ready and Rashi deserves it, which she does not yet and will not if other people don't take their noses out of her and Jigar's business.

The chewing gum part. Seriously? You got a problem with that? She didn't shout at her not made her feel overly bad and to be honest, if someone would sit next to me munching like this on a gum, if I had the power to asked him to stop it I would. (am really sensetive about chewing noises. Gives me the creeps it does. I know its silly but what can I do?) So agree it was a useless scene but I can't see the big fault in it.

Then her looking where GoHem are. Well naturelly she is worried for them. Firstly as was pointed out already Gopi is still ill and had some major and minor incidents not long ago, so a loving mother as Koki will want to keep an eye on her, especially since she was against the whole trip because she was worried for her from the outset. To this comes the fact that Koki knows that this might be something quite new to Gopi so extra reason to be worried. Adding to this comes the fact that Koki didn't know that they would sit somewhere else. If she would have known than she wouldn't have looked for them all the time, because she know that they are really in the cinema. Giving her the chance to just take a quick look from time to time checking that her Gopi vahu's condition is holding up.

Lastly to her going to GoHem at the end. Well she couldn't really see what Ahem was really doing and because he was pointing his arm in her direction she thought maybe he calls me, something might be up with Gopi vahu. So as the worried and responsible mother she went and checked on them. It is not her fault that GoHem always look guilty when she sees them together, even though we now that they didn't even yet have had a proper hug, let alone other things, which would result in this new toy for Koki, we were disgussing. Lastly about her offering to sit with Gopi vahu well it wasn't that long ago in SNS time that Ahem would jump at every oportunity to get away from Gopi and also she knows that they have gotten closer but still not for the right reason. Also she might have just wanted to spent time with her vahu in the moment. Go on and blame for it if you want but I find that quiete harsh

Okay now really lastly for the serious part of this post before Koki starts being a real hellish nightmare towards Gopi trying to make her life diffucult and unhappy, you cannot be serious calling her a bad MIL!! She loves Gopi like a mother and tries to protect her from any harm and the realisation that Ahem did all that caring just out of duty (as he still believes) will surely break her heart in millions of tiny pieces

okay now on to less serious matters. People if you don't want me to read this thread get the thread maker to stop pointing out this thread to me through PMs and adding the word Koki in the title!!! I mean otherwise I would have missed the thread quiet likely😆

But hey I am not pissed anymore after writting it all down and I aprreciate all opinions but I do not share them in this thread to be frank so be free to not share my opinion here as well😃

Hope you feel better now after defending Koki😆