Why no FB for ahemji about dark days? - Page 2

Originally posted by: gohem_forever

Ok... had enough of gohem drooling over todays episode. Back from la la la land, now time for discussion...

ahemji has found his barbie doll (Thanks to shaina for coining the term) .. and started his duty business with gopi..touching her... staring at her...giving a shy smile and all that ... all in the name of insaaniyath and duty.. loving it.. 😉. no complaints as long as i get my gohem daily.

But dont you think it is time for ahem to think about his behavior towards gopi in the dark days? When he care so much about her now, Not even for a second he think about the times when he was downright rude and abusive towards her? Not even once? I know the situation was such that gopi was shown in bad light. But still, there are instances when ahem was angry even without any reason.

Why why why on earth he is not thinking about it? Thats not realistic at all. Any human being will think about past wrong deeds, if he is feeling guilty about it. Is he not feeling guilty for his past deeds yet? Very bad ahemji, i expected a bit more sensitivity from you... Or are you waiting for someone to remind you the past deeds..

Ya... koki might do it, with the current track.. to get back her gopi doll, she may hurt ahem saying.."Where were you in the past when my bahu needed you? You were not there , only i was there for her" And may remind him about the past and marriage vows .. god knows... Ahemji...repent fast ..or else i will change my signature

yes u r right ..its high time..i wish koki loses her temper with ahem behaving as mr.know it all and gives right back to him...only then he will realize...i wish this happens...pls pls cv's do this for us..

Originally posted by: vibz88

i know but wat goes around comes back does nt it? A slap for a slap!! Tat was enough for me. Gopi s kanhaji will help her!

For somebody to repent their actions, they first need to realize that their actions were wrong. Yes. Ahem is now taking care of Gopi and we can see he sees her in a different light. But I do not think he thinks he is doing anything different. He is not at that thinking stage yet.
For him, atleast for now, the concern he has for Gopi is because it is his 'duty'. He has not yet delved into the questions as to why even 'Duty' for a girl he considered not even worthy of his hate.

The day he starts questioning himself and faces those uncomfortable answers, he will realize what changed him and then we will have the flashbacks we are so looking forward to..

Also remember, the only flashbacks he has had till now is of events when he was 'there' for Gopi. The Janmashtami scene, the first day at school. He was angry at himself for not being there for her during the accident. So Ahem is still only scratched the tip.
It will either take his mother or his own self, discovering Raashi's new kalaakari to even consider and ponder on why he likes Gopi now... In Saathiya time it could be 2013 same time 😆

Originally posted by: gohem_forever

Ok... had enough of gohem drooling over todays episode. Back from la la la land, now time for discussion...

ahemji has found his barbie doll (Thanks to shaina for coining the term) .. and started his duty business with gopi..touching her... staring at her...giving a shy smile and all that ... all in the name of insaaniyath and duty.. loving it.. 😉. no complaints as long as i get my gohem daily.

But dont you think it is time for ahem to think about his behavior towards gopi in the dark days? When he care so much about her now, Not even for a second he think about the times when he was downright rude and abusive towards her? Not even once? I know the situation was such that gopi was shown in bad light. But still, there are instances when ahem was angry even without any reason.

Why why why on earth he is not thinking about it? Thats not realistic at all. Any human being will think about past wrong deeds, if he is feeling guilty about it. Is he not feeling guilty for his past deeds yet? Very bad ahemji, i expected a bit more sensitivity from you... Or are you waiting for someone to remind you the past deeds..

Ya... koki might do it, with the current track.. to get back her gopi doll, she may hurt ahem saying.."Where were you in the past when my bahu needed you? You were not there , only i was there for her" And may remind him about the past and marriage vows .. god knows... Ahemji...repent fast ..or else i will change my signature

I think that if the track changes then Ahem will definitely remember those dark days. As we can already see Koki is not happy with current events and, as many members have said will send Gopi away for a while, or the kalakaari of the letter will be revealed to Gopi only. Ahem will see her upset and will find out about the letter and will want to tell her but she won't listen and distances herself. And while he is alone he will remember everything and regret what he put her through.

May be a truly frustrated Koki is going to point out a few home truths to the now confused dutiful hubby/mommas boy

Amen sister!

Originally posted by: Xarina

I think that if the track changes then Ahem will definitely remember those dark days. As we can already see Koki is not happy with current events and, as many members have said will send Gopi away for a while, or the kalakaari of the letter will be revealed to Gopi only. Ahem will see her upset and will find out about the letter and will want to tell her but she won't listen and distances herself. And while he is alone he will remember everything and regret what he put her through.

Originally posted by: tangam

May be a truly frustrated Koki is going to point out a few home truths to the now confused dutiful hubby/mommas boy

Originally posted by: RachP

Amen sister!

I still cringe when I see the videos of when he mistreated her as if she were just a lowly human being. I know he remembers it because he doesn't forget anything, but she is still owed a huge apology from him. Gopi might never ask him for it--in fact, I'm almost sure that she has forgotten and forgiven him already--, but he still needs to do his part.

Maybe when he tells her about his feelings, he'll apologize for everything and then, start a new chapter of their lives.

yeah gohem_forever you have voiced my thoughts in every sense i had been thinking...as much as i had loved watching gohem love scenes over the past few days, i had been thinking that Ahem need to taste the bitter pill of separation before he wins gopi's love...while watching the past videos, one just shudders at Ahem's behaviour...he's not even realized the pain he had caused gopi as said by many...he shouldn't get all of it too easily...i dont want gopi sitting at his disposal, i want her to show some kind of repulsion if not ignorance towards Ahem,...at least she should be lil uncomfortable when Ahem tries to approach her n tries to express his love n care...he should realize how it feels to not being loved in return or not get the same kinda response...