Reason behind Ahems Attitude!!

Bechara, nobody is trusting him. and we know how men behave when they are not trusted. Nobody at home think that he would be able to handle his wife. Not even his mom. from the time he came home along with his wife, he is faced with only questions!! bechara, he is trying to mend his ways with wife and everybody is stamping feet on his confidence and making him think that he is not worthy of taking care of his wife. he needs to reassure to everybody. obviously this is making him go bonkers.

The boy has taken charge of Gopi's health so he feels like he has to be hands on (figuratively even though I would like to make him literally hands on).

Please give Ahem a break. I think he is reacting the exact way his character is supposed to react. He takes charge of his wife's health but finds that he is a clutz. 😊. People are questioning him all around at home and are trying to read into his actions when he himself is unsure of them.

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Please give Ahem a break. I think he is reacting the exact way his character is supposed to react. He takes charge of his wife's health but finds that he is a clutz. 😊. People are questioning him all around at home and are trying to read into his actions when he himself is unsure of them.

Ahem was never the emotionally open type. He is still shy and can get embarrassed quickly. Well it was obvious because everytime Gopi looks at him with her big eyes with wonder he cannot meet her eyes.

To top it all, his employees will not work without him and his wife wants him to go to office when he does not. It is all new and confusing and Ahem is reacting naturally the way he should to it.

Shout at employees and tell his wife to just stay put. 😆

dont blame ahem he has 2 act like that

nice post ...
the reason for all his frustration/annoyance seems to be his confusion regarding his feelings for her...
once his confusions are cleared... he will be the good golden boy...

and he is not liking all the questions being shot to him by mom, dad and gopi... and some serious meetings at work which he is not able to attend... all this causing the frustration and annoyance in him...

i think it's high time Kokila interferes and sets him straight

Great post, you got me thinking ... I don't think he is referring to Gopi when he says: there is a problem at home... I think he means that the problem at home is that his mother in partcular and his family to are not letting him take care of his wife as he would like and neither are they letting him spend time with her and as he isn't going to tell them he needs his space to be with his wife he is left frustrated by the whole situation ..

Originally posted by: NazmaJ

The boy has taken charge of Gopi's health so he feels like he has to be hands on (figuratively even though I would like to make him literally hands on).

I think the aftershock of what happened is still affecting him.

I agree that I don't think the word problem is that problematic, people do use that expression a lot. However Gopi and Koki have realised that he instead of working on what seems like an important thing he is spending time at home.

Even though Koki wants Ahem and Gopi to become closer, she still doesn't want him to neglect his work, which is all well and good!!

Originally posted by: uamaz

Great post, you got me thinking ... I don't think he is referring to Gopi when he says: there is a problem at home... I think he means that the problem at home is that his mother in partcular and his family to are not letting him take care of his wife as he would like and neither are they letting him spend time with her and as he isn't going to tell them he needs his space to be with his wife he is left frustrated by the whole situation ..

I too hope Koki intervenues and we get a separation of some kidn which leads to his realisation of his feelings for Gopi 😆

Yeah.. I would like to see Ahem trying to call home to inquire about Gopi and try getting Gopi on phone. Well she does not have a cell phone and hence he will have to try the landline. Gopi is sure not to attend the call because she is an invalid laying upstairs. And Ahem will have to go thro' somebody else. I will like to see him squirm trying to get hold of Gopi😆
This would be a nice next step.. Is it too soon for that?