The Taking back Vow track

OK this thread stems from another thread... Just wanted to see what you guys opinions where.

I agree with you Shaun. I don't think it will have much impact and as I written in the other threat I'm not even sure the cv's will make anything out of it as they don't really tie there lose ends anyway. However they also could decide to make a big deal out of it, if they are missing ideas for a few epi's

Also she took back her vows but they never actually divorced in court, I'm not sure in India when you go and get married by an official punditji does he register the marriage? If it's registered then they would have to go to court to get a divorce decree. But in this serial Gopi took back her vows and no divorce decree was signed by either party. But I still think that a renewal of vows is necessary, and I also explained in the other thread that Kokila must have them remarried or for the Suhag Raat to happen Kokila needs to give them the green light, so she needs to tell them about grandchildren and then Aham will be given the go ahead to touch Gopi intimately.

First of all, very nice post.

Maybe the cvs forgot about the vows

You are correct in saying that the vows are sacred and done before God cannot be taken back , ahem who is a traditional gentlemen knows its was wrong to get gopi to do that so therefore he would want to recitify all the hurt he caused her in the last year , before having their SR. He considers gopi is wife and she considers him her husband so the taking back of vows had no effect on their status or they would neva have celebrated their anniversary and taken blessing as married couple.when you love somebody you put aside ur wants and needs and think abt the other person , he knows gopi was devastated when she had to take back the vows , therefore before SR which will be the start of their lives together he wants to erase bad memories by giving her good ones . Every woman holds their marriage vows as sacred and pure commitment to her husband so for gopi who is highly traditional it was rejection of the worst kind when she was asked to do that , her love for Ahem was such that she withstood the humilation and hurt to satisfy him , therefore he should do the same for her .

Originally posted by: _Precious_

First of all, very nice post.

Though Gopi took back their wedding vows, she doesn't stick to that except keeping her pallu on her head when Ahem is around. She is taking care of his needs, she loves him and expects him to love her back, she is doing everything a normal wife does for her husband and expects the same from him. So taking the vows was just name sake which everybody at the house is aware of. But, even though taking back the vows just like that (which was originally taken sacredly in front of the God) does not make any significance in technical terms, it has made a wound in Gopi's heart. So, just to give reassurance and emotional support to Gopi, it will be good if both of them renew their vows. They need not do it in front of others, but can do it in private. This way Ahem can respect Gopi's hurt feelings and give the reassurance to her that no matter what happens later, he will be with her forever.

@bold I really love that part. It is a beautiful idea for them to take their vows again in private. Just between them because it is about them and not anyone else. Great idea!!!😃

I am not sure how it would be from a religious perspective but I feel that something needs to be done where the vows are reinstated, maybe a renewal ceremony or something. For me I would like this done in front of everyone, after all Gopi was made to suffer the embarassment and hurt of having to break the vows in front of the whole family. It is only right that Ahem asks for this issue to be resolved in front of the whole family before the SR takes place.

I have a feeling that the taking Vows will be between just the couple...the moment Ahem realises that he cannot get Gopi to stay as she will say that she has taken back her Vows thats when he will jump & get the Vows done...I have a feeling if Anita's track is coming back then the Vows will come back then...because thats when Gopi will want to leave her Ahemji with his lover Anita & Ahemji will not want anyother lover than his Gopiji 😉

you are right. but still i remember that during the track of nani, koki made aham promise that he will give gopi the respect of a wife or something like that, so the CVs might feel that the vows were given back.