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AamiraWilson

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Posted: 13 years ago

I think what Ahem did today was perfectly normal. In the evening he saw how Urmi brushed off Gopi like yesterday's dandruff. He also noticed since Janamastami and even before that Rashi's attitude towards Gopi. He KNEW what gopi wanted to say about Rashi.

He knows Gopi well enough that she is a jackass who will go running behind her RashiBen no matter how much Rashi hates her. So, if gopi wants to say something about Rashi he naturally presumed she will say," Rashi ben is so upset with today's singing fiasco, I feel so sorry for her,blah,blah." Well, u get the idea. Ahem wants to know about Gopi, what is concerning Her, not the Rat. That is Koki's department.😉 Ahem doesn't like Rashi at all. Why would he care to listen to Rashi's problem? He asked Gopi what was bothering her ,right? Its not his fault and it is certainly not the end of the love track.

We always wanted Jigar to find out Urshi's true color, so now here it is. Gohem might get sidelined for a few days. We should have possess our soul in patience. Even though I'm dying.🤢 I think any husband in beginning of a relationship will get turned off if this sort of situation occurs. Just enjoy the mountain of unhappiness about to fall on Rashi.

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Posted: 13 years ago

copy and paste from my previous post:

i bet he is angry because Gopi gives more attention to Rashi...Ahem is such a jealous guy😆 but i guess that soon he will be concerned with this problem too when it relates to his brother, Jigar. He will feel regret for not discussing the matter with Gopi when Gopi announced that Jigar was upset in the morning and is missing from home. It's a good going.

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ll-Shilpa-ll

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Madvoot
I think what Ahem did today was perfectly normal. In the evening he saw how Urmi brushed off Gopi like yesterday's dandruff. He also noticed since Janamastami and even before that Rashi's attitude towards Gopi. He KNEW what gopi wanted to say about Rashi.

He knows Gopi well enough that she is a jackass who will go running behind her RashiBen no matter how much Rashi hates her. So, if gopi wants to say something about Rashi he naturally presumed she will say," Rashi ben is so upset with today's singing fiasco, I feel so sorry for her,blah,blah." Well, u get the idea. Ahem wants to know about Gopi, what is concerning Her, not the Rat. That is Koki's department.😉 Ahem doesn't like Rashi at all. Why would he care to listen to Rashi's problem? He asked Gopi what was bothering her ,right? Its not his fault and it is certainly not the end of the love track.

We always wanted Jigar to find out Urshi's true color, so now here it is. Gohem might get sidelined for a few days. We should have possess our soul in patience. Even though I'm dying.🤢 I think any husband in beginning of a relationship will get turned off if this sort of situation occurs. Just enjoy the mountain of unhappiness about to fall on Rashi.

Thank you so much for your wonderful insight, I couldn't get past the scene. My expectation for today's episode after watching the whole week were too high. I wanted Ahem to say to her how proud he was of her for once again saving Modi Parivar reputation, but instead he turned the lights off and went to sleep. But you are right he was very concerned seeing her worried, and he thought it was about her, but when he heard Rashi's name he backed off, he even said he didn't want to come between the two sister. Thank you so much, I feel so much better.

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shruthi2010

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Posted: 13 years ago

it is normal of him. still after all the drooling he could have thanked her for saving their families pride.

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AamiraWilson

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: sbp1971

Thank you so much for your wonderful insight, I couldn't get past the scene. My expectation for today's episode after watching the whole week were too high. I wanted Ahem to say to her how proud he was of her for once again saving Modi Parivar reputation, but instead he turned the lights off and went to sleep. But you are right he was very concerned seeing her worried, and he thought it was about her, but when he heard Rashi's name he backed off, he even said he didn't want to come between the two sister. Thank you so much, I feel so much better.

Pleasure mine!😆 I watched it again. Ahem was confused because Gopi didn't give him her beautiful appreciative smile and didn't look at him with her eyes filled with love. He was indeed disappointed. I think he was polite in the way he refused to listen to her. He never used to be this polite. Everyone thinks that Raji is a perfect happy couple in love with each other including Ahem. So he thought it is uncouth to interfere in RaJi relationship. Jigar haven't told him anything. He probably thought it nothing serious, just little fights that couples usually have. If Rashi shares her problem with Gopi it means that she doesn't want anyone else to know. Ahem was respecting the sisters' privacy and confidence in each other.

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Nazma

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Posted: 13 years ago

I agree.

I saw positive things in Ahem's behaviour today.

He didn't shout at Gopi for keeping her pillow on his bed. He was patient when trying to get her attention. He touched her shoulder with only the tiniest hesitation. And if Gopi hadn't mentioned the one thing that was guaranteed to turn Ahem off then I'm sure he would have patiently listened to Gopi. He did seem worried about her at first.

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Sonia

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Posted: 13 years ago

Thank you Madvoot, your post is really encouraging.

Indeed some members here are making a molehill out of nothing.

I'm sure Gohem are meant to be, either sooner or later (:

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shaina

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Posted: 13 years ago

guys u are seeing it wrong.

AHem is a decent person and mostly a reserved person.

Often these type of person are slow in progres in opening themselves and also feels that they should not force themselves on others.

They take time and also gives time for the other person to come close to them.

what ahem did today was totally expected because his and gopi relation is not a level to share the private sorrows.

morover its about rashi and as ahem said it , it might be personal for rashi and she may get upset to know that ahem knows her matte which is not good in their relation

And even gopi seemed to hesitate at first which wil register in ahem's mind that she may not want to tell him so he laid her back giving her some privacy space.

we all knwo rashi atttitude but according to ahem point of view its a personla matter of two sisters and his wife how is not yet comfortable with him to share deep personal problems.