When did Ahem actual change towards Gopi

Well one question I have been thinking...When did Ahem actually change or fall in love? What could have been the trigger points...he has been the same even on the day of results...so what is it that has him all knotted for Gopi now...If he has actually started to care for Gopi...I do not see regret on how he had treated her in the past...Where love is ...care & concern is part of it...& u always regret in someway on how if u have treated ur love badly in the past...will we get to see any of it ????

But for the kalakaris Aham would have been in love with Gopi ages ago. They have ensured that he gains a negative impression of her.

he's caring for her...but I think he has yet to realize his feelings for her!

But there should have been a trigger somewhere for Ahem to start feeling for Gopi to take it to the next level...

I don't think they want to or need to show a trigger as such. As mentioned before we have been seeing gradual changes of behaviour since day 1 however each time it felt like something positive was going to happen either Kinjal's or Urshi's kalakaries got in the way.

I agree... no one incident has shown this change... small incidents have been happening... which made him realise that atleast Gopi is not a cheat. I think it really started after his mother's confrontation of leaving Gopi alone and Koki telling him how much he hurt her. I think he had started to develop a soft corner for Gopi after that, but incidents like Gopi briniging mud in his car and Mani's incident reminded him of her illetracy. I still remeber the scene of his leaving for work without having breakfast the next morning after Mani's incident and he stopping for a second to look back at Gopi to find her in tears in the Kitchen. The cold hearted Ahem that has been shown to us since the beginning wouldnt have stopped to look at Gopi had he not had a soft corner, But I think the turning point was Gopi speaking out her heart the first time after the cheating incident. Bec his wors to the principal that I know Gopi, would never do something like that had said it all. Though he had never spoken, his heart knew about her goodness. That is the first time he went against his mother to stand up for Gopi, which was out of question till now. I really want to see him softing up even more towards Gopi...but also to realise his treatment towards her. I want him to repent. I want something to happen, so that Gopi starts ignoring him, in the sense that she still does what he asks her to do...but does not dream about him... only then will Ahem realise how cruel has he been to her. Sorry for using harsh words, guys...but at times it just felt like that.

I was wondering about this too.

I think like the fourm member queenyuks pointed out, it is in switzerland i think.

Kokila pointed out that Gopi cannot talk for her self and gets used by Rashi while Ahem was listening. Also Kokila made Ahem feel guilty that because of him gopi is lost in switzerland. and then Gopi's clean heart and haeart felt words made them win the contract.

I guess it is the switzerland trip.

I had opened a poll with a similar topic.

Well, I think it started with Nani's track. Ahem had to accomodate her in his room and pretend as good couple to please Nani. So unknowingly, he was accepting her though he was never loving to her in private. During the Swiss track also he felt guilty when Gopi was lost, even though he didnt tell anybody. Again, he felt proud of her when she brought the contract for them even if he was not ready to accept in front of others. But he has been gradually changing since when Kokila made him realise about the importance of Gopi and he was shown bit softened to her, helping her plucking mangoes. He realised her virtues listening to her conversation with Stanely at temple. During Bhoot track also, he was shown considerate towards Gopi and we got rain scene on terrace and he was talking nicely with her after that. He even started noticing her beauty in the saree shop, bought her saree though not as a token of love. I feel had there been no kalakaries during these whole time, he would have fallen for her very early.

It was the education track that made him appreciate her virtues and qualities and he started kind of feelings for her. The more he came to know about her the more he became attracted towards her. Thus, he supported her education even by going against his dearest mother, he allowed her massage his back with heat bag and we got a long heated eye lock, he became concerned when she was missing during Janmashtami, helping her climbing the steps(how he rushed to hold her when she was about to fall), admiring her when she was describing the theif incident to the children. The next day, her birtday says a lot about his feelings for her. Though we were unable to decipher his inner feelings at that time, now I guess, he started real feelings for her at that time. At the end of the education track we got to see his intense feelings for when she was applying ointment above his lips. And how concerned he became about her eye problem, hand injury and he came to the exam hall to support her mentally. Thus, the whole education track was thus very important for changing Ahem's attitude towards Gopi.

Now during the Navarathri festival, their relationship reach to the next level which is smoothed by lack of Rashi's Kalakaries on Gopi.