Originally posted by: soapbubble
No man! what is this? 😲
Gopi may be soft but she's not weak exactly - in fact she's got such a rock solid personality that people invariably have to succumb to her. Whether it is her bhakti, or her simple beliefs, or her ability to love and give - it is not influenced by anybody. Nobody can sway her basic character, make her behave in a way they like. She is soft, willing but she is resilient. Can Ahem make her hate him? Can Koki make her angry? No.
I don't mean Urshi's kalakaris - she's not sharp when it comes to self preservation - but look at the the fact that she becomes a presence even without wanting to be. See how popular she is in MM! See how everyone in the colony and the society know her. See how she slowly makes people love her - all except people who are intensely jealous of her.
Tell me, why should Rashi who has everytihng be jealous of Gopi who has nothing? It is because of the person she is. It is because people tend to love Gopi with a pure heart.
Gopi may not be assertive when it comes to raising her kids but they cannot remain uninfluenced by her. Ahem and Koki may discipline them and and teach them arrogance but Gopi will surely teach them softness, to give, to be generous, to be playful, joyful.
It's an interesting question!
Bubble
i am not saying gopi is not strong..Yes, she is mentally very strong to take all crap from others and never utter a word..it needs strength of mind and a loving heart. Because only if u truly care for someone or love someone ,u can take their faults on your's no matter what they are. Wat i meant to say by weakness is that, gopi's behaviour is not good upon children. Watever others do, take their blame and get on with it. its not a childs preferred way actually. And also i like your point that slowly gopi is getting loved by all people.That's another fact but if children are always seeing their mum taking kalakariyaas from others, is no good..I want a fully matured woman to be seen in gopi ,in complete sense. But this doesn't mean that gopi should try to give it back, because it can spoil child. I want gopi to atleast understand about rashi, wat's her sister then only she can really brought up her children.If she is not aware of what's happening in her own house, then that's a bad quality...I want her to jaago re jaagore jaago re...(open her eyes and see the realworld..)