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Posted: 13 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: soapbubble



No man! what is this? 😲

Gopi may be soft but she's not weak exactly - in fact she's got such a rock solid personality that people invariably have to succumb to her. Whether it is her bhakti, or her simple beliefs, or her ability to love and give - it is not influenced by anybody. Nobody can sway her basic character, make her behave in a way they like. She is soft, willing but she is resilient. Can Ahem make her hate him? Can Koki make her angry? No.

I don't mean Urshi's kalakaris - she's not sharp when it comes to self preservation - but look at the the fact that she becomes a presence even without wanting to be. See how popular she is in MM! See how everyone in the colony and the society know her. See how she slowly makes people love her - all except people who are intensely jealous of her.

Tell me, why should Rashi who has everytihng be jealous of Gopi who has nothing? It is because of the person she is. It is because people tend to love Gopi with a pure heart.

Gopi may not be assertive when it comes to raising her kids but they cannot remain uninfluenced by her. Ahem and Koki may discipline them and and teach them arrogance but Gopi will surely teach them softness, to give, to be generous, to be playful, joyful.

It's an interesting question!
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i am not saying gopi is not strong..Yes, she is mentally very strong to take all crap from others and never utter a word..it needs strength of mind and a loving heart. Because only if u truly care for someone or love someone ,u can take their faults on your's no matter what they are. Wat i meant to say by weakness is that, gopi's behaviour is not good upon children. Watever others do, take their blame and get on with it. its not a childs preferred way actually. And also i like your point that slowly gopi is getting loved by all people.That's another fact but if children are always seeing their mum taking kalakariyaas from others, is no good..I want a fully matured woman to be seen in gopi ,in complete sense. But this doesn't mean that gopi should try to give it back, because it can spoil child. I want gopi to atleast understand about rashi, wat's her sister then only she can really brought up her children.If she is not aware of what's happening in her own house, then that's a bad quality...I want her to jaago re jaagore jaago re...(open her eyes and see the realworld..)
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Posted: 13 years ago
#12
the re will be one gun of father and one from mother
it may be a girl or a boy

1)i think the baby will like its mom a lot!!!!!!!!
as its ahems baby

2)the baby will like kanaji alot!!!!!!!!

🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: sbp1971

Being a mother is whole different experience, until you have that first child you don't know how you will act or react. But once that child in placed into your arms, your natural instincts kick in. Gopi is not weak nor stupid, and when she has a child of her own, she will be completely different. Ahem will fall for her the way she is, so I don't see him taking over raising the child, the child will have both the mother and fathers characteristics. While Gopi will bring softness and her natural goodness to the child, Ahem will bring his strong personality and discipline into the child, the child won't be harsh or mean to others, but at the same time he won't take crap from people either.


Now this post surely needs a 👍🏼
I was only thinking about current gopi and were planning about her future. As a mother, yes she will have some changes as every woman has. Also by that time our ahem will be her side..but will she be able to see the real rashi?? A mother in true sense is a highest power of woman and its a blessing but i really want to know if a person cannot see what's hapening really or in the real world, what pranks are being played by rashi, will she be able to be a gud mother?? Am not questioning her womanhood but seriously a child doesn't need super educated parents but parents surely must have some reality check, right?? or am i wrong??
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Posted: 13 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: -Vrinda-

the re will be one gun of father and one from mother
it may be a girl or a boy

1)i think the baby will like its mom a lot!!!!!!!!
as its ahems baby

2)the baby will like kanaji alot!!!!!!!!

🤣



2nd option- didn't understand..😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
#15

Originally posted by: gohem123



2nd option- didn't understand..😕

i said that baby will like kanaji(lord krishna a lot)asgopi loves kanaji
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Posted: 13 years ago
#16
Hopefully by the time we get around to having GoHem babies Ahem will have been mellowed down by his love for Gopi and Gopi will have more self confidence brought on by her education and the love of her family and especially her husband thererfore able to stand up for herself. This way the children might possibly grow up as normal human beings.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#17

hhhmmm

guess

guess
guess
Gopi should have a boy baby who is just like his papa, Aham Modi,
a beloved son, Should love our Gopi more than his life...
the same way as Aham loves his mother...
imagine our Aham position at that...son wont love his father...ignored.🤣
😆
If she have the girl baby means it should not be like Kinjal or Kokila, it should not even be like her also... it should also be same like Aham only, but in looks it should be like our pyaari pyaari Gopi lol😍
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Posted: 13 years ago
#18
Fingers crossed on Gopi changing and becoming more self confident in her ideas and putting them forth and arguing them out, and also fingers crossed that Kokila as time goes does mellow and Aham also plays supportive in the wife's parenting and only talks when the kid is not listening, but as things are right now I explained how it will be in my first post...she will be another Parag and her kid will not respect her or listen to her as the kid will see Kokila and Aham overruling her all the time.

So I am sayiny all three parties need to change, Kokila, Aham and Gopi and meet in the middle.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nafisa_blossoms

Fingers crossed on Gopi changing and becoming more self confident in her ideas and putting them forth and arguing them out, and also fingers crossed that Kokila as time goes does mellow and Aham also plays supportive in the wife's parenting and only talks when the kid is not listening, but as things are right now I explained how it will be in my first post...she will be another Parag and her kid will not respect her or listen to her as the kid will see Kokila and Aham overruling her all the time.


So I am sayiny all three parties need to change, Kokila, Aham and Gopi and meet in the middle.

Yeah agree completely!!
It's way too soon to be thinking of babies now. We need to see the characters develop more and have more stable relationships with each other. It wouldn't be nice to see Gopi get shoputed at by Ahem and Kokila when she has children there to witness this.
When a mother is weak it often breeds disgust against the weak parent and then the children copy the actions of other people inn the family to their parent.
So before we even think of kids lets have a really strong and stable GoHem relationship and a stable Koki-Gopi relationship.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: gohem123


Now this post surely needs a 👍🏼
I was only thinking about current gopi and were planning about her future. As a mother, yes she will have some changes as every woman has. Also by that time our ahem will be her side..but will she be able to see the real rashi?? A mother in true sense is a highest power of woman and its a blessing but i really want to know if a person cannot see what's hapening really or in the real world, what pranks are being played by rashi, will she be able to be a gud mother?? Am not questioning her womanhood but seriously a child doesn't need super educated parents but parents surely must have some reality check, right?? or am i wrong??



That's just it, I am saying it is mother's instincts. You noticed how she reacted when she thought Anita's ghost was harming Ahem, If in Ahem's place it was her child the protecting instincts will by stronger, because a child is made from our own flesh and blood, even animals have this protective instincts for their child, so yes I think Gopi will be more aware when it comes to her child, just like she was when it came to her husband. And remember eventually Rashi's truth will be placed in front of her, so she may forgive Rashi, because that's just the way she is, but she will be more aware in the future.

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