So Koki for a change apologized to Gopi..but Aham

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Posted: 13 years ago
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well i wasn't expecting to see this..but somehow Koki clarifies why she shouted at Gopi when she had done no fault...n says that she was worried/angry about Kinjal n took her anger out on Gopi..Gopi says it is ok n doesn't need any clarification..

but i thought this was really a good thing that happened cz when Gopi was sitting down earlier to study she was crying thinking of Koki's harsh words..n anyway we all know Gopi's self blaming attitude..n she was feeling pretty low..so somehow this pacifying by Koki will go a long way for calming down Gopi cz she has a habit of thnking about Koki's angry words while she is giving the test..so at least that won't happen..

so at least Koki redeemed herself...
while i can hardly say this about Aham..he was so rude with her een today when she was crying thinking about what he said about her not passing at this rate...he really was a jerk today😡

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Posted: 13 years ago
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She tried squeezing a few tears in his presence, he asked her twice what was wrong but told her to carry on studying...no apology forthcoming from him, close but no cigar...😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i agree he was a jerk today its a shame he did not explain to gopi what the true reason was, at least she deserves this. yes he is supporting her but whats the point after gopi said mahji hasnt eaten he should not have shouted at her instead sat with her n told her it wasnt about her it was about kinjal
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Posted: 13 years ago
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he really was a jerk today too !! he was like 'now what happened? y r u crying!' as if he doesn't remember everything he n his mom told her just a few hrs before!
i so wanted him to say at least 'forget about what happened n concentrate on studies' if his ego doesn't let him bend enough to apologize!
but no! he just commands her to study as usual as if its her fault she is hurting n crying!...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I too wasn't expecting an apology from Kokila but I am pleased she recognised that she was wrong for shouting at Gopi. As for Ahem - what a jerk! 😡
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: princessunara

he really was a jerk today too !! he was like 'now what happened? y r u crying!' as if he doesn't remember everything he n his mom told her just a few hrs before!
i so wanted him to say at least 'forget about what happened n concentrate on studies' if his ego doesn't let him bend enough to apologize!
but no! he just commands her to study as usual as if its her fault she is hurting n crying!...




Yes princesssunara - I hated ahem like hell today . He is asking gopi why she is sad , then why she is crying as if he doesn't know.😡😡 Earlier today another forum member had pointed out his short term memory problem. He goes on telling the same sentence again and again - dont find out excuses to escape from studies by presuming or acting like sad and bringing tears on eyes. He could have at least said he scolded earlier because he was out of his mind because of kinjal's behavior . He could have at least comforted her by telling to forget what he said and to continue with her studies positively .

And one another thing kokila and ahem are behaving as if ahem was teaching some 12th std maths, physics and chemistry problems to make pass some big entrance test . Ahem keeps on telling " yahan main hoon jo tumhe itni mehnet se pada rahan hoon " 😡and koki says " ahem ne tumhe padane ke liye bohut mehnet ki " . Does it require that much " mehnet " to teach 1st std topics . I mean A, B , C, D and some hindi words . Only kanhaji knows
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ahem was never going to explain his actions to Gopi he's just not he type. There were parts of his behaviour that were encouraging the way he was looking at her in certain parts was nice. I think he was shouting at her because of his growing feelings for her and the only way he can deal with them is by shouting at her.
Also he really needs her to pass her test because that's a reflection on him so I think he really is worried that she might fail if she is distracted and by shouting at her he will ensure that she listens to him and completes her studies.
It was nice to see Kokila apolgose and speak nicely to Gopi maybe soon Ahem will follow his mum's lead.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I can understand the frustration here. I am happy koki almost apologized and explained.

But I thought ahem was right today. Its OK for Gopi to feel bad, but why do it with books on hand. Ahem said why have the books open if you are not studying . When She did a good thing talking to Koki and Ahem even asked her " udaasi kyon?".

Has anyone kept count of the number of times gopi has books in her hand and is lost in other thoughts or is crying. Its like the books are a prop

Ahem is serious about her studies , But she doesn't look like she takes it all seriously. She wanted to study and since she got admission. After all the difficulties koki had to get her admission and Ahem begging principal to give another chance , gopi takes it easy until Koki and Ahem tell her. Very contradictory behavior

Really the threadwork or the kheer take priority over study and Ahem's instructions. I know this is a serial...but these things can be done after exam. Can't she think that atleast once

Its looks disrespectful to studies and in India books are like saraswathi.

Ahem is and looks the successful businessman because he knows how to deal with challenges. Crying does not solve anything. It is an outlet sure. But if we only cried then problems don't resolve themselves and crying would look like an excuse.

She has one day left for exam and gopi knows how much it matters to Ahem and Koki. So if her intent is to make them happy then she really should study...

Gopi wasting study time + rashis evil designs= lack of preparation and more crying ..mmm

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I do think that Gopi has been brought up with certain values when it comes to housework and what her duties are in the house. Also we know Urmila used to beat on her when she thought Gopi hadn't done the housework the way she wanted so it's instinctive for her to make sure that what she perceives to be her duty is done.
Gopi is learning to put her studies first it's just taking her a very long time to imprint that lesson onto her subconcious. Maybe after she passes her exam and sees how happy Ahem and Kokila she will realise that the way to happiness is to ensure her priorities are right.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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In Gopis situation... study is a luxury... If Ahem loses interest in her studies ... then her learning is as good as OVER...

The writers would have done better to show her taking every chance to study and beating rashi's plans by sheer focus and hardwork.

For Gopi desire to Study has to come instinctively ... if she has to first learn to focus and then learn to study then she wont have anyone left to support her




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