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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: MARHABAA



no need for apology hun its not an issue no worries ,i choose not to leave comments on that other topic as then it would just give rise to conflict which is not my scene
stay happy 😉


@Natzzz.... i am glad hun that you didn't feel unwelcome
its always good to avoid conflicts😉

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Posted: 14 years ago
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diya i saw what this person wrote. it wasn't on a thread on its own, it was on another topic so it is not obvious for people to find. i personally felt they stated their point in decent manner. not sure why this is an issue as it was just some back and forth and everyone politely agreed to disagree that is all.



hmmm, may be thats why i never noticed it.. its good to agree to disagree😉

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hi am fairly new to this forum membership even though have been following the forum for about a year..
Unfortunately have often noticed as soon as someone makes a comment with regards to an actors/actresses acting a very negative approach is taken by other users.

Its a forum ...surely people can express whether they like an actor or not ! Isnt that the whole point to give your own perspective on the drama and characters portrayed in it?
Agreed dont be overtly rude about a individual but this is a commentary on a TV drama serial therefore surely acting comes into the equation.
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u hit the nail on the hid, expressing negative issues abt someone's acting is not allowed as ppl jump dwn ur throat but at the end of the day we have joined to criticizes and talk about these soaps whether they r good or bad
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Posted: 14 years ago
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May I add my two cents?

I'm sure that all of the actors on the show do what they do because they love it. It's their passion. Are they all great actors? No. However, they get up every morning and do their best. More often than not, the directors are asking them to make sense out of a ridiculous script. It can't be easy. I gotta believe that the actors know this is a poorly written show, but what can they do?

Please keep in mind that they are human and have feelings too. We don't know that they don't frequent this forum. We don't know that their family and friends don't frequent this forum. I would hope that whatever is said about an actor on a personal level is said in such a way that it is not cruel or demeaning.

As a mother who has read many things written about her child on a forum, it can be very hurtful. As a mother who has watched her other children read about their sibling, it is beyond painful. Please just keep in mind the way you say things about the actors on a personal level.

Am I overly sensitive? Maybe. But I am intimately acquainted with this topic.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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..if you would like people NOT to make any sort of remarks with regards to any actor male or female maybe rename the forum to a appreciation board not a forum😛

Critical analysis is part of the acting fraternity is it not? To think a actor in whichever aspect will never be criticized ,appreciated ,commented on during the whole duration of their acting careers can surely not be a practical approach. So are we now to trend on eggshells just on the off chance some serial fraternity affiliated person might read a forum?


NOBODY is instigating or supportive or encouraging just being mean about someone so dont know why its being taken in that context !!

There is ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with constructive criticism in the correct context



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Posted: 14 years ago
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welcome to the forum marhabaa.
some may be sensitive. most of us agree that aham needs to improve his acting skills. boy he was given so less screen space till the debacle of kinjal's track was shown. once there, he showed lots of improvement.
we in the forum, discussion and debate on mostly everything. but there should be some limits in the words used. i m here for nearly an year. wont you feel bad when you come across some foul words discrbing others, particularly the acters u like. commenting is something but using unethical words is not good. me personally avoid such topics.
other wise this fourm is like a virtual family were u can relax after a days work. infact as i always tell the show is only half an hour but the forum takes the rest of our time and no one grudges it.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthi2010

welcome to the forum marhabaa.
some may be sensitive. most of us agree that aham needs to improve his acting skills. boy he was given so less screen space till the debacle of kinjal's track was shown. once there, he showed lots of improvement.
we in the forum, discussion and debate on mostly everything. but there should be some limits in the words used. i m here for nearly an year. wont you feel bad when you come across some foul words discrbing others, particularly the acters u like. commenting is something but using unethical words is not good. me personally avoid such topics.
other wise this fourm is like a virtual family were u can relax after a days work. infact as i always tell the show is only half an hour but the forum takes the rest of our time and no one grudges it.


Thanks for the welcome appreciated

BTW where did I actually state that users should be demeaning etc to anyone? Like I have stated a number of times on this topic ..noone is stating say whatever you want .I totally advocate being constructive not destructive of a character .

HOWEVER what is wrong is when members are not allowed to state a personal non detrimental opinion on a member of the cast - PLEASE NOTE i said non detrimental opinion.
Its ironic that I have actually nevr made personal remarks about an actors acting or persona out of the context of their role and actions within a serial yet lots of you have presumed as such.😉


Just like some off you dont like ur stars being talked down too = in the same way I dont like other individuals on this forum being talked down to ..really dont see what why thats a big deal and rather surprising that others dont take the same opinion !

Why is it so difficult to take the position of let people air their position if presented in the correct manner rather than dont let them make any expression of it ?



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Posted: 14 years ago
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Natasha,
it would be gr8 if u give me the link of the post that u are talking abt through out this post so that i cn try to understand wt was the issue that made u think in this way abt the forum.

Second thing, this forum is almost 10 months old and every one here very well aware of acting capability of each n every actor in the show.

There strong sides n weak sides as well. So i dont think no one here would want to demoralize an actor. As no one can be perfect even if they are considered to be the best there is always a scope for improvement.
And here we admire nazim nt just for his acting capability or looks bt for the improvement in his Acting, Voice tone, Diction, body language and much more.

And i got ur point that its a forum and every one has rights to put their views irrespective of wt others think, bt again it depends on how those views were put up in words and no one is forced to support any such views if they dont find them appealing.

Again i cnt comment more b4 knowing the exact thread.

Also if u hav any such concern regarding any post where an individual puting any member down, then best option is to report it or let me know abt it rather than accusing whole forum just for a single reply by a single member.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Natasha,
it would be gr8 if u give me the link of the post that u are talking abt through out this post so that i cn try to understand wt was the issue that made u think in this way abt the forum.

Second thing, this forum is almost 10 months old and every one here very well aware of acting capability of each n every actor in the show.

There strong sides n weak sides as well. So i dont think no one here would want to demoralize an actor. As no one can be perfect even if they are considered to be the best there is always a scope for improvement.
And here we admire nazim nt just for his acting capability or looks bt for the improvement in his Acting, Voice tone, Diction, body language and much more.

And i got ur point that its a forum and every one has rights to put their views irrespective of wt others think, bt again it depends on how those views were put up in words and no one is forced to support any such views if they dont find them appealing.

Again i cnt comment more b4 knowing the exact thread.

Also if u hav any such concern regarding any post where an individual puting any member down, then best option is to report it or let me know abt it rather than accusing whole forum just for a single reply by a single member.[/QUOTE


Lol had I wanted to give rise to that particular individual comment I would have commented on that and not created a general post😉 ..its not like its the only such remark made on this forum for the first time... However if you think its a singular isolated completely random occurrence and normally members can express their NON OFFENSIVE REMARKS without judgement then so be it.

Thanks for the advice on reporting the issue however I really don't find the need to as would rather air my simple grievances than go about reporting stuff.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Lol....we are innocent unless proved guilty. I beg you to point individual posts/topics which you found intolerent. If you are talking about some particular members whose posts this forum generally does not like, pls mention it. We have good reasons to do so.😊

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