Overly sensitive members

first of all @marhaba we welcome u to this forum.
member express thier view to just know each other point .
for critizing someone there is a permission but there is a limit and everyone have to follow the limit.
if the member r critisizing someone they r critizing in a limits they r not crossing the limits. i hope u will understand

Originally posted by: shobi12500

first of wlcom @marhaba we welcome u to this forum.
member express thier view to just know each other point .
for critizing someone there is a permission but there is a limit and everyone have to follow the limit.
if the member r critisizing someone they r critizing in a limits they r not crossing the limits. i hope u will understand

Since I have been on the forum....I have always noticed ...the SNS forum welcomes everyone n their comments whole heartedly.......but there are ethics ,code of conduct etc.. that everyone individual has to follow.........Like u mentioned if someone is rude about the cast or not ready for an open debate....there is a stage were members like to withdraw n look for another interesting topics.......n if ur approach is rude from the start irrespective of the topic....isn't it the general human nature not to confront the individual...not a single thread started goes unanswered at the forum....but sometime we run out of materials to discuss too.Everyone has positive n negative comments for a particular thread...😊

Before i touch upon the issue, let me welcome you to the forum again, as i believe you used to post here once in a while sometime back... and your name is Natashaa... right😉

I am not sure how you got this idea hun😲, but believe me we have not shunned anyone for saying that an actor's acting is bad😊… if anyone is talking about acting fine, but if someone starts personal attacks on actors for their physical appearance or their personal life or using bad, provocative and rude language… then it's not acceptable😊… like if someone says "hey Giaa is so short, she doesn't look good with Ahem"… then this becomes a personal opinion about physical attributes of height not their skills as actor... even in those scenarios we politely inform the person about the rules and proceed forward…

also, like if you put an opinion and I try to argue with you and shout at you just to show that my argument is powerful… then what I am doing is a big no-no😊… everyone is entitled to their opinion, but being civil in speech is what is anticipated anywhere…

there is discussion and then there is argument, separated by a thin line... discussion we are open to but argument, I don't think many of us would like to enter... everyone has their own set of problems and we see this as a serial, which is not a big media of social awareness😊… if we are talking about social awareness and are arguing here, its meaningless as no one is benefiting, we are only rising our BPs… but if someone can be civil and atleast acknowledge (if not accept) a different opinion then too any kind of discussion is enjoyable…😃

me and sADhli(-tellyaddict-) go after Ahem and Nazim all the time... sADhli is gaga over Ahem and Nazim and I literally blast him at every turn... and no one slammed me… ask sADhli if you don't believe me... that was because, I never touched the topic of his physical appearance in a demeaning way… I have argued on Nazim's lack of acting skills many times...

Tell me how you would feel if one day you come across some post or message somewhere, where people are calling you ugly or something... I would go ballistic and I won't like it😃... so basically the only ground rule here is "Don't do something to others, which you won't appreciate when done to you" 😊we need to appreciate that actors are also humans and we need to respect them as human being if not anything else

sorry for the long post guys... just wanted to put things in a clearer perspective so Natashaa doesn't feel her concerns are not being addressed...

if that was so, i apologize on behalf of whoever said it... i for myself might have missed the thread, since i never saw such posts floating around😔

@MARHABAA - Just adding my two cents...I completely agree to what you said. But I would like to say something about the post by the Newbie about Ahem's acting not being so great...Many of us here think that Nazim needs to improve his acting skills, we have also discussed a lot about this in the past. The member who replied to this post might be stating his own POV and what he THINKS is the other ppl's POV. I think it's unfair to judge the entire forum based on one member's comments.

Originally posted by: upasana.diya

if that was so, i apologize on behalf of whoever said it... i for myself might have missed the thread, since i never saw such posts floating around😔

Originally posted by: upasana.diya

if that was so, i apologize on behalf of whoever said it... i for myself might have missed the thread, since i never saw such posts floating around😔