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Aashna26

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Posted: 14 years ago

Is it me or is it true... Gopi seems to have lost her sparkle and will to be in Modi Mansion and just seems to be dragging along... She looks very upset and sad!! I noticed it in the last 2 episodes.... She indeed looked lovely and herself with Panna!!

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jandira

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Posted: 14 years ago

i tottally agree with you,when aham shouted at her yesterday she had no reaction its like shes emottionally runed out,theres nothing left she just looks so empty.i feel so sory for her

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Aashna26

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: jandira
i tottally agree with you,when aham shouted at her yesterday she had no reaction its like shes emottionally runed out,theres nothing left she just looks so empty.i feel so sory for her

So True!! it seems she is dragging herself!! it's like emotional hatyachar...and feels like she is going to go down in Depresssion!!😭

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-Nafisa-

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Posted: 14 years ago

I think she was so happy to return to the MM when Aham came for her at her Pihar she was really disappointed when at the door of the MM she saw Naani and she gave Aham a side long look and just knew how Kokila and everyone was shocked to see her, Gopi's expression changed from happiness to sadness at that point, realising her husband was not bringing her back for no other reason but for Naani. Aham then confirmed to her this upstairs and now she will do what he requires of her, as his her husband and she must obey him in everything, but she is not happy doing any of it, she is resigned that her god wants her to leave the MM and just wants this part of staying at the house over and done with.

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Aashna26

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Posted: 14 years ago

Very True Nafisa... but how much can someone tolerate.. I know this is just a show on screen.. but can you imagine those guys out there who are forced into arranged marriages... seeing this.. how they will mis-treat their wives off-screen... it is mental torture in some unknown manner... I know I tend to get very emotional, but just think.. if this happened to someone close to you in real -off-screen life... how wud that make one feel? Ahem please set a good example and a positive message to all your fans!!

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-Nafisa-

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Radhika27
Very True Nafisa... but how much can someone tolerate.. I know this is just a show on screen.. but can you imagine those guys out there who are forced into arranged marriages... seeing this.. how they will mis-treat their wives off-screen... it is mental torture in some unknown manner... I know I tend to get very emotional, but just think.. if this happened to someone close to you in real -off-screen life... how wud that make one feel? Ahem please set a good example and a positive message to all your fans!!

I agree it's an abusive relationship, Aham makes her feel unwanted, worthless, he makes her feel ugly (he says he doesn't want to see her face in todays episode). If it was real life you would hope a man who doesn't match well with his wife, would go see a lawyer and arrange a divorce (his an adult isn't he) then arrange for her to be set up in a house, or as they have not been intimate to arrange a divorce and ask for his mother who arranged the wedding between them to find another man to marry her to. But Aham is going about this very immaturely, his a coward for marrying a woman with no intention of honoring those vows to her, a coward to use her now, instead of explaining to Naani the reason why Gopi is at her Pihar, and you will find that most abusers are cowards, to outsiders they like to show all is hunkey dorey (noting is out of the ordinary) but in the home they are aggressive and loose their temper often.

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sara

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Posted: 14 years ago

I think Gopi's breaking point is coming soon....she is soo quiet like its quiet before a storm. She will question Aham very soon...And it will be epic. She should be like what is her fault in all this, his mom choose her, and when he wanted her to leave she did, then he called her back. She should say that she is not a toy that he can keep and play with and then throw away, she is a person with a heart and feelings. She feels pain too. It will sound great when she is crying saying all of this and its in hindi.

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loveanime

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: WintersBloom

I agree it's an abusive relationship, Aham makes her feel unwanted, worthless, he makes her feel ugly (he says he doesn't want to see her face in todays episode). If it was real life you would hope a man who doesn't match well with his wife, would go see a lawyer and arrange a divorce (his an adult isn't he) then arrange for her to be set up in a house, or as they have not been intimate to arrange a divorce and ask for his mother who arranged the wedding between them to find another man to marry her to. But Aham is going about this very immaturely, his a coward for marrying a woman with no intention of honoring those vows to her, a coward to use her now, instead of explaining to Naani the reason why Gopi is at her Pihar, and you will find that most abusers are cowards, to outsiders they like to show all is hunkey dorey (noting is out of the ordinary) but in the home they are aggressive and loose their temper often.

i know someone in my life who is exactly like that. that is why i can't stand aham because he reminds me of this person. this person doesn't want the rest of the family to know how cruel and abusive they are, just the hint that we might be talking this person loses it and asks us not to interfere and pretends like everything is alright and everyone is happy. when in reality this person is cruel, manipulative, not capable of understanding anyone else feelings, too much self importance as if the whole world revolves around them. that is why SNS is so depressing you want to watch shows to get away from your own life not to be reminded of problems in your own life.

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-Nafisa-

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Fsgtsarakhan
I think Gopi's breaking point is coming soon....she is soo quiet like its quiet before a storm. She will question Aham very soon...And it will be epic. She should be like what is her fault in all this, his mom choose her, and when he wanted her to leave she did, then he called her back. She should say that she is not a toy that he can keep and play with and then throw away, she is a person with a heart and feelings. She feels pain too. It will sound great when she is crying saying all of this and its in hindi.

It would be great if it did happen, but that's not her personality, today she's like (to Naani) weren't you scared to carry this trunk with valuables, Naani's says Kokila is a Lion and what do you expect I'm I, I'm her mother right. Gopi is not brave her way is to keep quiet and cry. Aham frightens her and she will never answer back to him.

Gopi will leave when Naani leaves, hopefully she won't return to Urmila's house and will go to leave in Panna's hostel. Where no Modi will find her to use her for a long time.She will use dandiya cash that Ketki gave her as a gift for winning the competition, to pay her way, until she finds work.

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Aashna26

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Posted: 14 years ago

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i know, it makes my heart not cry but bleed when such torture is viewed/screened...!Really, hope Ahem hears Gopi talk and sob... I have my doubts that she will talk to Ahem but she may confide to either Hetal or Mani and if not them .. to her Kanaji... who ever she talks her heart out.. hope Ahem hears word for word..

if whilist she is talking to Hetal in the kitchen Ahem enters and stands still to listen and signals Hetalkaki not to mention that he is listening... poor Gopi..

if this happens...

Ahem will listen to all and again have a bash at Gopi.. that y r u talking behind ny back...it seems it will be a no win situation!