how can u misunderstand the same person!!

again and again and again....

i have been watching saath phere on and off ever since it started and have never posted here before the current storyline has me confused beyond limits and i wanted to know your opinion

how can you misunderstand the same person over and over again...everytime something goes wrong the entire family starts blaming saloni..dont these people remember what that lady went through for them in the past years:

saloni risked the life of her own child to get tara her baby. she has been humiliated by various people and she took to save the reputation of this prestigious family. and tara shud be thankful to saloni for ever for getting her son. still tara would rather listent to that kalika who has just become a part of their family over saloni...either they have selective memory or they just chose to ignore the facts under the given circumstances. tara can see how kalika drank poison for brijesh but she cannot remember how saloni decided to give tara her OWN child when they learned that tara cannot have any children

it is also annoying to see the way shubra is being treated...her in laws keep blaming her for what happened to kalika and even they have forgotten that it was shubra who cleared the misunderstandings between GP and his family and brought him back in the house and she is being treated like this.

now again everybody will blame saloni and nahar will stand by her and they will be asked to leave the house and then the truth will come out and this brijesh and tara will come running back to saloni for her help and winning over kalika. this is just too much

i know i am ranting but i just had to get it all out...arey after making a couple of mistakes even a child learns what is right and what is wrong but the singh paravaar will never learn

I completely agree.

You took the words right out of my mouth.

And another thing that kind of made me mad was that when Tara kept on taunting Saloni, nobody told her to stop or anything, poor Sal just had to take it.

shurti sweetie...

this hole storyline is rubish...

A couple of things - Tara has never acknowledge what Saloni did for her - only Nahar, Brijesh and Bhaboo understood what Saloni did. Tara only wanted the child and she has equate her getting back the child with KJT. I found it strange that KJT was given the honour of naming the child while It should have been Saloni's right. Saloni was 2nd choice when KJT showed up drunk.

Secondly, the family had a child that had no mother - Eshaan when Aditi died - for all Tara wanted to be a mother the duty of mother fell to Vindra - while Tara wallowed in self-pity. In fact VIndra married Dheer to provide a mother for Eshaan - again why Tara didn't provide that motherly love and affection. Thirdly for all the years that Eshaan lived in the house Tara was never his favourite aunt it was Saloni..So again where's that so call motherly love

At this time Tara does not need Saloni - what's Saloni use - Can she save Brijesh? No, Kalika is a Lawyer and she has a use that's why she has bounded with Kalika. Sad to say but Tara is a user...

So true!
When Tara needs something, she takes the side of whoever is capable of helping her! she has never once acknowledged the fact that Saloni has helped her soooo much!
And, when Tara is taunting Saloni and saying w/e rubbish that is coming out of her head, no one steps in and stops Tara! IF i was Nahar i would slap her for talking to my wife that way! 😡

Originally posted by: Angad luver#1

So true!
When Tara needs something, she takes the side of whoever is capable of helping her! she has never once acknowledged the fact that Saloni has helped her soooo much!
And, when Tara is taunting Saloni and saying w/e rubbish that is coming out of her head, no one steps in and stops Tara! IF i was Nahar i would slap her for talking to my wife that way! 😡

As much as I like Nahar's character - I agree he let Saloni take that malicious tirade of Tara. It was so unjust - no one force Kalika to drink the poison - such grand-standing. To add insult to injury he wants Saloni to turn the other cheek. I have always thought that Tara is always protected by that family. When Tara constantly insults Saloni - Bhaboo and Nahar wants Saloni to turn the other cheek...

Originally posted by: judyp

As much as I like Nahar's character - I agree he let Saloni take that malicious tirade of Tara. It was so unjust - no one force Kalika to drink the poison - such grand-standing. To add insult to injury he wants Saloni to turn the other cheek. I have always thought that Tara is always protected by that family. When Tara constantly insults Saloni - Bhaboo and Nahar wants Saloni to turn the other cheek...

True...

i mean, after all how much can saloni take from Tara? She cant keep turning the other cheek...thats like hitting yourself!

Time after Time, saloni is blamed for all of the Family's problems! either it be one person or the whole family...but it is SALONI who is blamed.! how fair is that? After everything that has happened, how can tara blame Saloni??

Saloni is also at blame though....when Tara told her not to go to the hospital or whatever, why did saloni go? she knew that Tara would be upset, did she not?

Originally posted by: Angad luver#1

True...

i mean, after all how much can saloni take from Tara? She cant keep turning the other cheek...thats like hitting yourself!

Time after Time, saloni is blamed for all of the Family's problems! either it be one person or the whole family...but it is SALONI who is blamed.! how fair is that? After everything that has happened, how can tara blame Saloni??

Saloni is also at blame though....when Tara told her not to go to the hospital or whatever, why did saloni go? she knew that Tara would be upset, did she not?

Agreed Saloni did a thoughtless act , noble but thoughtless however with her husband's permission. But what about mercy, charity and forgiveness. Tara's doesn't know those qualities. But even if she didn't did Tara have to constantly harp and insult the woman. At the Pooja, in the hospital and in the ambulance. To me that was taking it to far.

What about Nahar why is he blameless?

I guess despite everything Saloni is still an outsider and it easy to blame her, she accepts it without a fuss.

^^yep...To tara i guess Saloni will always be an outsider😔

Reminds me of Piya ka ghar they kept doing that in there too with naryanis character only thing that makes this show slightly better is that whether its brijesh, her parents or nahar someone does seem to support her even if they do not show us straight away but it stupid to see her suffering.