I totally agree with all your comments except the one above -- "wife is like Tara....just at home" What are you trying to imply that ladies who stay at home are worthless. Have no brains to use. Contribute nothing to the family just 'coz they're not making money?
Well let me tell you being a home maker is not a 9-5 job but a full 24 x 7 one. A lady works more hard than any man on this earth. Life is tough if you work, but it's more tougher for a stay at home mom.
Dips....
When i said ' especially like Tara , just at home ' ......I meant it exculsively regarding Tara's character . . Is Tara doing a job ....does she know how things work outside ? Is tara helping Brijesh in his business ? Is Tara Brijesh's legal consultant ? For that matter ....does Tara work very hard at home and is she accustomed to running a home efficiently singlehandedly all by herself .......forget the business , her own home , without the help of Bhabho , Saloni , and the many servants ? It is a known fact that Saloni is capable of managing the household matters , Saloni , although she is staying at home currently , has worked outside and knows the outside world . When Saloni is in the role of a home maker she has the capability to manage a home thoroughly ,....will u call Saloni a pretty decked up business man's wife who plays with her diamonds ? No way ! Even if Saloni lives at home , she has substance due to her hard work and the knowledge she gains from it . Does tara have this ? See the judgement she showed in backing up Brijesh . There r thousands of educated , postgraduate wives like our ramas who r home makers who run a house efficiently like a business......if the husband is one wheel of the chariot , such wives r the second wheel and without them the chariot will collapse . These ladies drive , manage financial affairs , run the house , bring up the children almost single handedly as their husbands r immersed in business , and when their husbands fall sick , step in and manage the business too , consulting him and the legal advisors as over the years , they imbibe everything about their husbands work and automatically reach the level where the husbands actually start asking their opinions on certain matters although final decisions r theirs . I salute these wives coz frankly speaking , if such wives were not there , the husbands would be nothing . The amount of sacrifice , efforts they put in is endless ......these jobs r endless , thankless jobs in which they induce beauty thru their love ......and they r the true devis , more than the ones with trishuls they show in serials . Whats more they dont charge for these jobs or they will mint money compared to a lady as an executive in a company.
In the US 1000 dollars per child for day care is the rate.....this is merely a glimpse of what these homemakers r worth , as bringing up a child is not the only thing they do . Forget this , I have seen my grandmother who was uneducated , working at home and my mom , who was a home maker with 5 children . I have grown up in that atmosphere , and the amount of work they did , till their bodies collapsed in old age ......that too I have seen . today whenever i see homes being run by us i realise that the quality of work that they did differs . We cannot measure upto even a fraction of that quality .....their cooking was superior , their cleaning was superior , we cannot manage one child but they brought us up efficiently .....joint family so many children....they were the type who even made masalas and papads at home .
I dont have an objection to u wondering what my remark meant but I do object to u assuming that I don't know what home making means or regarding home makers in low esteem . Please do not assume things before pouncing on others.....rather , ask others to clarify . Ramas , thanks for understanding my statement in correct perspective .
