Now that Jiji thing is over ....

Now that the Jiji ting is over I feel like saying something about Saloni .

She has proved she is some extra superwoman kinda bahu who thinks and thinks of family's welfare . But wat about the fact that she endangered her own baby , and her own marraige with Nahar ?She lived in dangerous conditions , had an accident , tumbled . ran on roads like PT USha to inform the family members that Jiji knows everything ....wat if she had lost her child ? Didnt she have duty to her own child ? Wat if it is born damaged , or retarded with all the olympian feats she has done and the mental stress she has endured when she was supposed to eat well , rest , be happy .....all this is for the child u know , more than the mom ! Is Saloni allowed to put the child at risk too for the sake of her family ? She can do whatever she wants with her own life and marraige if she gives it secondary importance ....but she cannot take this decision on an unborn childs behalf who cannot even ta;lk for its defence ! Just see how much Tara was concerned about her child .....Saloni is concerned about family , not the child ! She treated her pregnancy very casually !It shocked me that no one felt this way .....or did they , and did I miss it ?

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Now that the Jiji ting is over I feel like saying something about Saloni .

She has proved she is some extra superwoman kinda bahu who thinks and thinks of family's welfare . But wat about the fact that she endangered her own baby , and her own marraige with Nahar ?She lived in dangerous conditions , had an accident , tumbled . ran on roads like PT USha to inform the family members that Jiji knows everything ....wat if she had lost her child ? Didnt she have duty to her own child ? Wat if it is born damaged , or retarded with all the olympian feats she has done and the mental stress she has endured when she was supposed to eat well , rest , be happy .....all this is for the child u know , more than the mom ! Is Saloni allowed to put the child at risk too for the sake of her family ? She can do whatever she wants with her own life and marraige if she gives it secondary importance ....but she cannot take this decision on an unborn childs behalf who cannot even ta;lk for its defence ! Just see how much Tara was concerned about her child .....Saloni is concerned about family , not the child ! She treated her pregnancy very casually !It shocked me that no one felt this way .....or did they , and did I miss it ?

i totally agree with you... i was also thinking the same... i mean the family can still protect themselves even without u cuz they are mature adults... but the unborn child needs YOU... theres no way it would survive/ be healthy if u continue to do what u are doing... ATLEAST for a few months think about the baby and tell the family to grow up and take care of themselves 🤢

I think she can may be careless with her life and the child by taking these risks but why isn't some-one taking care of her.

I find Nahar and his family are the ones to be thinking about this. Nahar let the poor woman go alone to follow Jiji.

^ well we know how the family is (well i do)... they dont know how to thinkkk... they were worried about jiji taking the property and TARA'S baby that they forgot about saloni's... so its only up to saloni to step up and take charge of the baby's health... cuz we know she is the only one with common sense (which she is not using at the moment though)

then again its a indian tv serial... like they use any logic in their stories

manny....its downright stupid when u think of it . The child is unborn and totally dependent on Saloni for being born normally and safely . Did u see the scene where she ran on the road ? When jiji told her I know about u ! In becoming mahaan ....neglecting ur own marraige , ur own baby .....isnt it selfish ? Cant she keep aside her adventures during her pregnancy ? The serial is titled Saat phere....the saat phere r primarily for HUSBAND ....Saloni seems to be under the idea that marraige is one endless road of sacrifice to be done for husbands family and that it is okay to sacrifice even ur child for husbands family ! Sorry if i offend anyone ok but i felt very iirritated with her . I mean everyone is important .....Taras baby , Taras suffering , Kakasa's health ....but not the baby's health ??? Just think and see how ridiculous it sounds !

^well thats basically what i said/ meant...and its also a waste for her to sacrifice so much for that family... i mean in a few episodes they will all gang up on her again for like the hunderth time and throw her out of the house, forgetting all she's done for them

i agree manny and its really very insulting to a woman to be treated time and again this way . I for one feel very irrititated with SAloni for treating her own pregnancy so casually . Doing duty for sasural does NOT mean giving less importance to ur own baby and husband . This concept itself is wrong . wat r they trying to show to us ....that hey , love ur sasural so much that run like PT usha on the road while ur pregnant and be prepared for early labour ....its noble ???? It sounds so infuriating . I wonder why no one has picked on this.