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Originally posted by: set_raj

i understand wat u say shali, but my simple question is...if a member doesnt knw abt the updating, cant he or she ask first tht wether can i post the update?..this is sign of arrogancy and rude behaviour, which i totally dislike. Just post it without informing or asking anyone and if something happens, jus say sorry.very simple.Top of tht i got the funny reply, tht i was sittin idle, dint had any work so i jus posted it.Now wat u call this Shali?

raj.....

I agree totally what you are saying dear.....

I just want you back as a updater.... because you are doing a wonderful job 👏in making us smile😃....

the person who didn't consider the fact that you are doing a big favour to us and taking the time to do that even sick... is wrong to post without asking....

to tell you the truth... I dont know who the person is but try too look also at her side.... she was willing to do that and also took the time to write also.... yes...without permission but maybe she didn't think about it.... and didn't wanted to hurt you....therefor explaining it in a funny reply....

just saying maybe she or he was a bit hurt when you contacted her/him....and felt hurt with the PM..... because she or he didn't know about the rules....everybody is allowed to make a mistake.... so is she or he....

raksha has already informed everybody with a new topic..... and everybody has to agree with the rule and respect it........

I am not taking her side but just trying to cool things down and try to find a way out..... because I will miss your updates.....

hi raj...
your updates were the best...
u always made us laugh...and made the dullest
episodes good and exciting to read...
sorry 2 hear ur leave. 😭 ...hoping u wil
reconsider and come bak 2 updating..
we all loved ur updates 👏 and u and ur updates
will b dearly missed...
Glad 2 hear u r feeling better now... 😊

Asha

Originally posted by: shali

raj.....

I agree totally what you are saying dear.....

I just want you back as a updater.... because you are doing a wonderful job 👏in making us smile😃....

the person who didn't consider the fact that you are doing a big favour to us and taking the time to do that even sick... is wrong to post without asking....

to tell you the truth... I dont know who the person is but try too look also at her side.... she was willing to do that and also took the time to write also.... yes...without permission but maybe she didn't think about it.... and didn't wanted to hurt you....therefor explaining it in a funny reply....

just saying maybe she or he was a bit hurt when you contacted her/him....and felt hurt with the PM..... because she or he didn't know about the rules....everybody is allowed to make a mistake.... so is she or he....

raksha has already informed everybody with a new topic..... and everybody has to agree with the rule and respect it........

I am not taking her side but just trying to cool things down and try to find a way out..... because I will miss your updates.....

Raj, I really hope u wud reconsider, ppl do make mistakes sometimes... I hope u forgive that person and continue with ur updates. But if you strongly feel otherwise, then its completely ur choice and we understand.

I agree with u shali, I'm sure that person didn't mean to be rude or anything. Maybe she panicked and replied to u like that... I just want u to be the sweet person u r and forgive that person. I'm sure she/he must be feeling terrible right now.

I'm glad to hear ur health is improving, take care🤗

Hey Raj,
i totally understand your position right now. but mistakes happen, and we learn to forgive and forget. but if u feel stongly about wat has happened, it's totally up to u. no one will force you to update, as we all know how long it takes. but i must say, you were an awesome updater, and i'll always miss your updates. glad to hear that you're feeling better. 😊

hi raj
i'm sorry (i know you don't really like this word at the moment but i'm not using it haphazardly ... i really mean it 😳) to hear that you had to go through this ... i'm not going to blame the other person completely since i too have made silly mistakes like this when i was new to the forum and hence have no right to say anything ... but now that i understand the rules of the forum more i can understand how you feel ... i completely understand that you spent a lot of time and energy on your wonderful updates (which we will truly miss) and that you feel that the time and energy spent was wasted (especially with your health ... which i do btw hope you are in the pink of soon 😳) ... i hope that you will be able to come back (i know that right now you're not keen on that but we can hope, can't we) ... please take care and hopefully these mistakes will not be repeated again
hoping to see you back in high spirits soon
tasha 😳



(to the person who committed the error: i don't know who you are but please don't take my words personally ... use them as a lesson to learn and to help others not commit the same mistake you have made ... that's what i've done and am trying to do as i still do err)

Originally posted by: shali

raj.....

I agree totally what you are saying dear.....

I just want you back as a updater.... because you are doing a wonderful job 👏in making us smile😃....

the person who didn't consider the fact that you are doing a big favour to us and taking the time to do that even sick... is wrong to post without asking....

to tell you the truth... I dont know who the person is but try too look also at her side.... she was willing to do that and also took the time to write also.... yes...without permission but maybe she didn't think about it.... and didn't wanted to hurt you....therefor explaining it in a funny reply....

just saying maybe she or he was a bit hurt when you contacted her/him....and felt hurt with the PM..... because she or he didn't know about the rules....everybody is allowed to make a mistake.... so is she or he....

raksha has already informed everybody with a new topic..... and everybody has to agree with the rule and respect it........

I am not taking her side but just trying to cool things down and try to find a way out..... because I will miss your updates.....

Well u can chk on friday's updates u will come to knw who the person is.simple. Regarding she was willing to do then she shud have informed in advance tht she wants to do the updates.Doesnt she has courtesy to ask?is she was hurt with my pm then its not my mistake, its her, cos she was wrong, so ther was no point of feeling hurt. You have given me a gud idea, i will also post the updates in any forum and jus say im sorry, i dint knw the rules, even i will do in SP also.😊Dear Shali from ur post it clearly shows tht u siding her..''ek toh galti hui hai, aur usper parda daalna''..then why she did tht if she is hurt? She said tht she is sitting idle doing nothing much, so she podted the update,😕 thts not a reason to give, thts wat irritated me.Jus chk of friday's updates, abt the person. Raksha had posted abt who is doing the updates, u must have read it, she dint read it or saw it?if she says tht she was not aware of it.😕 If she wants to do thn do in a right way. She has holiday thts why she did it?What abt wen she will be busy?who will do thn?she dint thought abt tht?Some ppl think abt the present only, not abt the future. If they think abt the future and take the right decisions, thn there wont be problems for them and for others also.😊

Originally posted by: NaVy1985

hi raj
i'm sorry (i know you don't really like this word at the moment but i'm not using it haphazardly ... i really mean it 😳) to hear that you had to go through this ... i'm not going to blame the other person completely since i too have made silly mistakes like this when i was new to the forum and hence have no right to say anything ... but now that i understand the rules of the forum more i can understand how you feel ... i completely understand that you spent a lot of time and energy on your wonderful updates (which we will truly miss) and that you feel that the time and energy spent was wasted (especially with your health ... which i do btw hope you are in the pink of soon 😳) ... i hope that you will be able to come back (i know that right now you're not keen on that but we can hope, can't we) ... please take care and hopefully these mistakes will not be repeated again
hoping to see you back in high spirits soon
tasha 😳



(to the person who committed the error: i don't know who you are but please don't take my words personally ... use them as a lesson to learn and to help others not commit the same mistake you have made ... that's what i've done and am trying to do as i still do err)

Thanks navy 1985...for agreeing with me. god bless you.She wants to do it, let her do, im not against anyone, i will be happy, if more ppl will come forward. But my request is tht watever you are doing, do it thru proper channels and ways. Dont try to hurt someone's feelings, think abt others before doing something, if it has got concern with others.Dont do just because one feel so like doing. Thanks again dear.😊

hey raj...
im a big fan of ur updates... you make em fun...
i do repect ur decision but i hope u reconsider it...
and come back...
i'll miss ur updates...
😭

Originally posted by: set_raj

Well u can chk on friday's updates u will come to knw who the person is.simple. Regarding she was willing to do then she shud have informed in advance tht she wants to do the updates.Doesnt she has courtesy to ask?is she was hurt with my pm then its not my mistake, its her, cos she was wrong, so ther was no point of feeling hurt. You have given me a gud idea, i will also post the updates in any forum and jus say im sorry, i dint knw the rules, even i will do in SP also.😊Dear Shali from ur post it clearly shows tht u siding her..''ek toh galti hui hai, aur usper parda daalna''..then why she did tht if she is hurt? She said tht she is sitting idle doing nothing much, so she podted the update,😕 thts not a reason to give, thts wat irritated me.Jus chk of friday's updates, abt the person. Raksha had posted abt who is doing the updates, u must have read it, she dint read it or saw it?if she says tht she was not aware of it.😕 If she wants to do thn do in a right way. She has holiday thts why she did it?What abt wen she will be busy?who will do thn?she dint thought abt tht?Some ppl think abt the present only, not abt the future. If they think abt the future and take the right decisions, thn there wont be problems for them and for others also.😊

hey Raj, i just read this post and wish you would rethink, but if you wouldn't then its ok, its your choice. But we all loved your updates. Don't get me wrong, Raj. I am not siding the other member. And i don't think shali was either. She was just trying to look at the situation from different angles. I think the other member was only trying to help and she made a mistake in doing so, and maybe she apologised in a wrong way too. But i think she must have realised her mistake by now. I don't like when people are mad at each other. She is probably a younger member and made a mistake, it is us older members who should set the example of forgiveness. I wish you would do that and forget this whole thing ever happened.

hey raj im glad ur feeling better!!! first of all i would like to say dont stop writing updates! we all love ur updates! but its up to u!! the person who ever updated i dont know her and i dont know if she knew u were going to update or not. i know it mite be her fault some where that she didnt ask before updating but look at it this way she just try to help. and if i was in ur shoes i would be also bummed out about it but y dont u put urself in her shoes and think how must she be feeling right now. maybe she is feeling bad too and cant say that she is feeling less bad then u or not. i think maybe she should understand ur feelings also. i dont know who is right or wrong but everyone is just trying to end this. i bet shali isnt taking her place but just trying to help. u prob think that why are we telling u this and not her cuz maybe u understand more then that person does. now that the rules are clear no one will do that at least lets hope not. it was just a mistake and after all we are all humans. humans make mistakes all of us arent perfect. so i wish u come back and update. and im sorry if i hurt u in any way with my words!!!
hope u reconsider ur decision but up to u!!