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Posted: 18 years ago
hey, it's me again. How much older do you guys think jiji is than tara? What's the age difference? I'm the oldest in my fly and I know that the oldest is always usually more responsible than the younger child. (my sister?, responsible?, not so much) Anyway, I think what i'm trying to get to here is that jiji was overloaded with responsibilities. Remember jiji said that her dad considered her the "boy" of the house. In India that would mean pampering, responsibility, etc. I think jij was overpampered but at the same time never got growing up time. She became adult minded when she was really little. I don't think she ever was (if she was not for long) a carefree child. Eventually because of her efforts probably, Tara got a better, longer childhood and could marry by choice, etc. Jiji got green (jealous) and had a touch (lot more than touch, more like storm) of sibling rivalry. Her arranged marriage failed (probably because of her, maybe sasu, who knows?) and she decided to get back at Tara for all those years where jiji had to "suffer" (or so in her mind) for tara. Being the eldest is hard and it can back-breaking sometimes. The stress, pressure, and jealousy probably got to jiji and caused this. You know how kakisa was jealous because she never got part of her husband's business. (he gave everything to nahar and brijesh) something of that sort here except maybe instead of the main focus being money i think the main focus for jiji is revenge. I'm probably completely wrong but that's all I can formulate at this point with this much info. What do you guys think?
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Posted: 18 years ago

Originally posted by: 12234

hey, it's me again. How much older do you guys think jiji is than tara? What's the age difference? I'm the oldest in my fly and I know that the oldest is always usually more responsible than the younger child. (my sister?, responsible?, not so much) Anyway, I think what i'm trying to get to here is that jiji was overloaded with responsibilities. Remember jiji said that her dad considered her the "boy" of the house. In India that would mean pampering, responsibility, etc. I think jij was overpampered but at the same time never got growing up time. She became adult minded when she was really little. I don't think she ever was (if she was not for long) a carefree child. Eventually because of her efforts probably, Tara got a better, longer childhood and could marry by choice, etc. Jiji got green (jealous) and had a touch (lot more than touch, more like storm) of sibling rivalry. Her arranged marriage failed (probably because of her, maybe sasu, who knows?) and she decided to get back at Tara for all those years where jiji had to "suffer" (or so in her mind) for tara. Being the eldest is hard and it can back-breaking sometimes. The stress, pressure, and jealousy probably got to jiji and caused this. You know how kakisa was jealous because she never got part of her husband's business. (he gave everything to nahar and brijesh) something of that sort here except maybe instead of the main focus being money i think the main focus for jiji is revenge. I'm probably completely wrong but that's all I can formulate at this point with this much info. What do you guys think?

Wow, thats very possible Nita. I know how it is to be the oldest

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Posted: 18 years ago

Originally posted by: 12234

hey, it's me again. How much older do you guys think jiji is than tara? What's the age difference? I'm the oldest in my fly and I know that the oldest is always usually more responsible than the younger child. (my sister?, responsible?, not so much) Anyway, I think what i'm trying to get to here is that jiji was overloaded with responsibilities. Remember jiji said that her dad considered her the "boy" of the house. In India that would mean pampering, responsibility, etc. I think jij was overpampered but at the same time never got growing up time. She became adult minded when she was really little. I don't think she ever was (if she was not for long) a carefree child. Eventually because of her efforts probably, Tara got a better, longer childhood and could marry by choice, etc. Jiji got green (jealous) and had a touch (lot more than touch, more like storm) of sibling rivalry. Her arranged marriage failed (probably because of her, maybe sasu, who knows?) and she decided to get back at Tara for all those years where jiji had to "suffer" (or so in her mind) for tara. Being the eldest is hard and it can back-breaking sometimes. The stress, pressure, and jealousy probably got to jiji and caused this. You know how kakisa was jealous because she never got part of her husband's business. (he gave everything to nahar and brijesh) something of that sort here except maybe instead of the main focus being money i think the main focus for jiji is revenge. I'm probably completely wrong but that's all I can formulate at this point with this much info. What do you guys think?

Nita it does not matter. yes older gets more responsibilities and I was in jiji's shoes. Actually I am old on both sides. I too had lots of responsibility. My mother grew up without mom. She never understood her responsilbity and So had to mother my bro's and sister. My dad was in politics and business. So he never had any time for us. i too helped my dad with his business and he too called me his beta.So I had to grow up way early and take care of my siblings. But I love them dearly and will wish always good for them and will do anything for them. My husband is same way older of his family and has taken care of all the fiinancial responsibilty of his 4 sis and bro. He too will do anything for his siblings.So I think jiji is exceptional and sick minded. No sister will wish bad and want to snatch her husband.

She is very sick minded to poison her own sister and kill her.Problem with 2 brothers understandable because when they marry they change. But problem like this with sister it is probabely rare in our society.

Edited by ramas - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
HI...read about ur views..i think Jiji was in love with brijesh(one sided u can say)..Tara was married with Brijesh, since she told her father tht i look after ur business...so she was married at much older age thn tara and tht also against her wish...one more thing is tht since she was pampered child..like i said in my previous posts tht she gets wat she wants attitude..so she had killed someone and her father must be the witness of it...knwing her destructive nature and tht she married with brijesh now..jee sa surely got tensed abt Tara..and he called to reveal the history of jiji..she can go to any level to get something...cos of her nature, she must have tortured her husband rajshekhar and her kids..thts the reason kids are not with her..split personality..dimaagi paagal..chudail hai. 😆
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Posted: 18 years ago
Mamis welcome back...good morning...its 1015am here in bombay now.
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Posted: 18 years ago
Hi raj good morning. I said the same thing in my earlier post that she is screzophenic.
Edited by ramas - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago

Originally posted by: set_raj

HI...read about ur views..i think Jiji was in love with brijesh(one sided u can say)..Tara was married with Brijesh, since she told her father tht i look after ur business...so she was married at much older age thn tara and tht also against her wish...one more thing is tht since she was pampered child..like i said in my previous posts tht she gets wat she wants attitude..so she had killed someone and her father must be the witness of it...knwing her destructive nature and tht she married with brijesh now..jee sa surely got tensed abt Tara..and he called to reveal the history of jiji..she can go to any level to get something...cos of her nature, she must have tortured her husband rajshekhar and her kids..thts the reason kids are not with her..split personality..dimaagi paagal..chudail hai. 😆

thats exactly what i was saying a few pages ago, this is what i had written:

in the written update, it said that when jiji walked into the room and ushered tara out, she confronted her father," How could you do this to me, after everything I have done for you. I even married the boy of your choice" now this means that she was not fully content with marrying Rajshekhar. Maybe she was obsessed with Brijesh a long time ago and never came out with it. And maybe this would be the cause for her break-up with Rajshekhar.

If you recall, on the day before she married brijesh, she called up Rajshekhar and told him "You won't believe whom i'm going to marry" and when she told, brijesh singh....he was zapped and asked her, "how did you do this?!!"

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Posted: 18 years ago

Originally posted by: set_raj

Mamis welcome back...good morning...its 1015am here in bombay now.

Good Morning Raj,

its 11:20pm here in USA.

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Posted: 18 years ago
Ok guys, i'm off for tonite! Its 11:46!! đŸ„±

Good Night! 😃
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Posted: 18 years ago
Anyone here..I think jiji loved brijesh but cos of age difference..and her parents married tara with him..tht grudge she is carrying and she made the life of rajshekhar hell...now she has got the chance so she is playing the game..by pretending to give the waaris and gain the sympathy n love of brijesh..once she gets she will throw tara out of the house.. 😡

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