Scriptwriters killing the story

this show is becoming ridiculous due to some really poor scriptwriting 😕

things are just not making sense anymore... a lot of things have happened that have contradicted things that have been shown before... and others are just too unfeasible... examples:

1) when kakisa first came into the serial it showed her colliding with ishaan and she said "yeh toofan kaun hai?"... and now it's showing that she had seen him a few years ago (looking exactly the same may i add) and was living with the family... so y the hell did she not know who ishaan was??? 😕😆

2) also when kakisa first arrived, she asked whether nahar was married... surely if she's that close to the family and used to live with them, they would have informed her about the wedding 😕😆

3) when it showed the purani dodi before, it showed that the door had a padlock on it from the outside but showed an eye looking out of the room... now who on earth was that??? 😕

4) it's not like they hid chandni away after marriage... they were shown to frequently go out in public... so how comes no one else apart from the family knew of the wedding???... it can't have been very long ago since ishaan is shown to be quite old 😕

and i'm sure there are a lot more...

are there any others that u guys have noticed that u can add?