I think Shubra is a bad spot on womanhood. A woman is supposed to be nice, friendly, outgoing, thankfull, respectfull, sober, patient, & a human being who is internally powerfull, even in bad times.
If someone would have arranged a party for my victory, I would have thanked him. Thanking him doesnot mean that I would date him, or marry him or anything. I would have thanked him just because he cared for me. I would have made friends with him possibly.