Ray .....First of all thanks a lot dear for bothering to argue with me [ I needed it , Im so stressed out nowadays , bahut maja aaya really . Thanks much dear .].............but I beg to differ still .š
1]Shweta can't take shocks , u say . Do u remember the time Bhabho made a stony face when she was told that the news of Saloni's fake death may affect Shweta adversely , and commented that Well , too bad , Shweta will just have to handle it ? This gal was constantly doing Mummy Mummy in hospital ..............yet Bhabho didnt give a damn about her weak heart and didnt allow Saloni to meet her ............and later didn't hesitate to spread false news of Saloni's death when she was very much alive . Inspite of Saloni's parents being still alive this old woman does this.........why ? Her anger was predominant even above a child's health .
And Shweta survived that . Death is more hard to handle than news of a person being alive . If that she survived , news that mom is alive is perfectly bearable .
2] Why wud Shweta hate Saloni for being gone ? Her hate wud turn towards [ rightfuly ] against Bhabho for lying for so many years . Is Jiji's history unknown in the family ? What is this big ' murderer ' tag ? Saloni didnt murder an innocent ..............Jiji was a notorious criminal . Even if Saloni did really murder Jiji why wud her daughters swoon of shock ? Frankly , it was hi time that pest Jiji was eliminated .
3] U said they wud kick her out again..............only coz Saloni gives them the power to do so by choosing not to exercise her legal power . U see , once Nahar dies , the rest of the family has no legal right over Saloni's kids .............even from jail she can direct the court that keep the kids with my parents , not Bhabho and Tara ..............or with Mannobhabhi as the guardian [ a better option as Kaveri wud humiliate them .] Also the court wud take half of business assets and hold it in trust till Shweta and Sawri wud come of age , so they wudnt ever be financially deprived . So u see my dear , it is exactly the other way around ..............Saloni can toss Bhabho out of her kids life , not Bhabho ! And his fight was never shown , coz of ' love for Bhabho ' .
4] This ' love for family thing " . Family is a very big concept , and Bhabho and Tara r not the only family members . Helpless kids like Sawri Shweta too r family and in a crisis like this . Bhabho Tara cud get angry , simmer down and take care of themselves , they didnt need Saloni , but the two raw little kids ........one who was having pychological problems and the other who had been deprived of a mother since birth sure did need Saloni much more ! If Saloni's fight for the truth has been glorified in this serial , it must be noted that Truth is often bitter and when it is bitter the fight is the toughest . So telling kids ' Yes I was in jail for murder ' was gonna be toughest fight of her life , and she evaded it and hid face like , [ pardon me Saloni fans ] a coward . She took easy way out ............of hiding instead of facing problems . See how confidenly Jiji crossed the Singh family threshold hundred times although they tried to kick her out and showed them their place . Saloni cudnt do it even for a rightful cause .
4] Bhabho's anger on her is justified as Bhabho loved Nahar deeply and she lied for many years about Nahar . In this I do not support Saloni . But when children r involved , these isues become trivial . Saloni cud respectfully take the stand that Yes Bhabho u be angry with me all ur life , I wont blame u , but I am sorry , I must be with my children , I have to answer God . All said and done , dear old Bhabho , sweet or bitter , justified or unjustified , who was Saloni's favorite , had lived her life but the life of these two children was just beginning . What if Bhabho had suddenly died of heart attack [ she was old after all ] , and Tara never was fit to be a rational mom { that saloni had seen how obsessed she was with Adi ] ........how cud Saloni leave her babies just like that ?
5] Biggest crime of all was not bothering ever about sawri and expecting her to sacrifice . Honestly , nothing excuses this .
But I agree with u on only one point .............that Bhabho , inspite of the mistakes she made is not evil , just very very angry . Nevertheless , the elders in the Mahabharata war were not evil too , but it still was fought as they did a wrong thing . And hence I am disappointed with this serial ........they shud have shown that for years after fighting outside , Saloni takes up cudgels to fight within her own home too , her biggest fight , and yes , wins it too !š