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Its sad to know that saloni is being shown as such a bad example of how a women should never be .. No women in her place should shamelessly listen to what ever people like lali maasi /Tara spoke to her . Instead of patiently waiting for centuries for things to fall in right place ...and tolerating all crap and making your daily life miserable ....shud stand for your self and give them one tight slap /kick them out of the house the first time some one dares to say such things to you ..even if it is your mum in law or sis in law....
I Understand people like Lali masi still exist in society ( if not that extreme ) but I dont find anything wrong with them ...the wrong is with the girls/betis /bahus ...who tolerate all that in the name of ...nonsense so called tradition ...(which was man made at first place and not god )
Why should the girls wait for their hubbies to respond first ...and if the husbands are lovely ..then it doesnt mean the girls are lucky and should face all crap...
there are lots of girls whose husbands do not support them in their fights ...again its the fault of the girls ...because they care more about what the society thinks about their bahu image ..rather than thier own suffering which is nonsense ...every girl should be educated /self reliant ..and earn n stand for herself and her children ..instead of feeling happy n secure getting married to a lovely husband n richfamily ...and working in their kitchen all their lives ..leaving her own surname and family ....
There are lots of forums i see in various serials ..where ...the people who write the daily updates for serials make comments like the following :
1. If you see santaan (sony tv )updates ...u would frequently find comments like ..when ever niam (husband ) makes tea/cooks food for suhana (wife ) its always followed by ...so cute ...lovely ,how lucky and crap ....I seriously hate such comments .....Our society /serials ..do not show boys doing household works /taking care of babies ..only coz most of the girl viewers seemed to like all this for eternity ....its not a big deal if a man does what women kept doing for ages .....no female is born with broom n spoon in her hand .
2. When ever a female is shown as negative ...she is either working .or not working in kitchen like other bahu's ..or not serving meals or making coffee for hubbies ...what nonsense is this ...am sick n tired of alll this crap.
Doesnt matter ...if all this happens in society ..every individual is born with a brain ...and not blindly follow man convenient tradition ....stand for urself ...like men do .you do not need your husabands support for that ...if they r against your independance ..then ur life is better with out such men in ur life ....
I feel extremely shameful if i have to leave my mums house and stay permanently in my inlaws house ...just as how my husband would feel ..we have our own house ..and my inlaws and my parents are always welcome to stay with us permanently if they want to ...i never changed my surname to his ...and we live very happily in india .
Hindi TV Shows
Bindi
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
Jodha Akbar
