Disappointed to the core!!! - Page 2

First of all, she never approached Nitika directly and tried even once to explain her concerns to her in a simple polite way.

Secondly, she is bringing in the gender issue and being impartial towards Nitika while ignoring similar issues with working men of the house.

Thirdly, she is jumping to conclusion without knowing the truth about this family members. She is assuming things which might happen in any other family but doesn't know the sweet and loving nature of this family, we know the history so we should know better.

Lastly, it just feels odd to me that nani ma has the veto power in the house. By relation she may be important in this family but for last 15 or so years, more than a decade, these people have gone through so many ups and down in life and proved their love and loyalty to each other in life. In my opinion, it is the love and trust, which keeps this family intact and makes it special. While no one else in the family had problem with Nitika, nani am created one and threw it on everyone's face. One bad fish can truly spoil the entire pond so I say take nani am out of this family!!!

Lastly, nani am was called specifically to take care of Malti, no one ever told her that oh! We are having problem in our family because Bahus don't know a thing so please come and show them the right way!!!! Since the time she came she is being a CID, no Bahu feels comfortable with her not even Malti. Except nani am, who else is having fun in the family?

To sum it all up, nani am better take up some responsibilities herself in the house, instead of just analyzing and criticizing everyone. An idle mind is devil's workshop!!!!

If there is no love, respect and understanding between people (Bahus) no nani am can bring peace in the house by forcing her rules on them.

Toasty handled it well with Malti and I have faith that she can handle it with Nitika as well.

i know she is not evil but her ways of handling things sure are. thats like pitaji and chedi all over again when the show first started, my way or the high way.

nani ma is a woman, she is a nani and elder to them and she has all the rights to say how she feels but come on.. she claims that she is old school... then how can you come to your daughter's sasural and argue with the head of the house.. pitaji and dadaji. ok pitaji is younger than her but dadaji, he should be the boss.

i thought she will be strict yet loving. i think even chedi and pashu were not as bad, they yelled at her but as soon as they realize they would make peace with her. she can be strict but there are better ways to do that. she just has to tell them, and they will do it. wheres the reason to be a bully here. all the bahus listen to her and respect her so much. i love toasty-malti and dadajis relationship. they are so close and comfortable with him.

i strongly disagree about the maryada part for gyan and prachin... they think of their bhabhis as moms and there was no reason to bring out that word and create awkwardness. we have lived in joint family, and my cousin bhabhi and my younger brother has 10 year difference and he treats her just the way he treats us. there is no such thing as maryada just cuz she is a bhabhi. that doesnt bring closure or comfort. she looks at him as a kid too...