malti alaways did try to admonish pashu, she tried to ensure that the competetion doesnt get home, but malti knows how to shut her trap while our mahan toasty is best when it comes to speaking and trying to get what others are feeling, why are they feeling and removing their hurt, awesome qualities and lovely human being, but in this scenario as a wife wrong , as her character { prachin incident : her bashan of such ka saath, seperation incident : will come if tej comes as it is becox of him have rishta with you all, nikita rajan incident : rajan doesnt support you , a relation is made if two ppl are there and respect each other , her supporting malti after finding sach that a man needs his wife, family is never just enuff} in all theses she stood for right and i loved her, but ever since the competetion started i saw a new face, where for her the family is more important, ( always was never having time for tej, running to do chores rather than sit with him , i know a v motherly person but still tej toasty interactions are a treat to watch and i always wanted more😆) but i saw a lil acidic side, her taunts ,her belief ( if the husband is on the wrong path the wife should not support him in it rather makehim see right) , her total lack of support ( malti did support both equally but in the room she did give moral encouragement to her hubby too, irrespective of belittling tej, toasty could have done the same), her actual happiness ( used to make happy face when tej upset remeber when trying to find finance, clients)
how on earth can she refuse to respect her husbands even once ?? malti respects pashu whereas for toasty its like well its just tej i will make him see my point usku mana lu gi etc tej hi galat hai, how can bare bhayyia bhi worng after all he is elder, yet she did assume him to be worng in his approach of malti and made the fisrt move , it got better but had she the sense she could have asked ved too, but running ahead she had no thought of ved intially ( nor did the famnily except pitaji👏) i find her lacknig here alot. she doesnt know that one can be a support while not backbiting others. simply to show that woh theek ha you are making an issue out of it can be hurtful ( remeber tej in sudhas home as soon as she got to know the issue she said aray to kia hua tum ego pe kyu lehere hu, she could have calmed him down shown her belief and then maybe get her way)
i will come to my final point, that even malti had pointed out that how come you decide that where the happiness lies ( prachin incident, she was wrong though but the point was right) toastys major flaw, what i see is right and good for ppl only that is true, there simply cant be any other way. yes she has been proved right many times, i guess that just went to her head, or maybe the task was too much on her, pitaji shouldnt have tested her, why couldbnt dadji do the conting or both brothers togheter with pitaji why put the wife of one husband in that position, its the continous putting toasty on pedastel that made her do this i guess, but when she always used to say bhagwan acha hi karega then why didnt she had the guts to accpet bhagwan wish and tejs win.
i would have forgiven her had she talked it with tej and shown how proud she was of him , rejoice in his happiness and then ask for pashus win ( if she really did see the good in it ) and leave it at tejs decison. i would have stood up and appluaded her. but going behind the back simply becoz she couldnt see what could happen t(here is no gurantee that pitaji would have let pashu leave)
she went behind her husband back.
so for me it is toasty n only only toasty at fault. at some level even pitaji for givng her this task and the decison to have only one shop[. bhai ppl branch out your revenvue was growing ,it could have been good too to keep two shps, or best he could have told tej will supply you money but dont open saree shop.
but then there wouldnt be any story i guess😆
Anupamaa
