Malti's view point of Toasty

I couldnt agree more with Malti when she told Toasty that her way of choosing happiness for everyone shouldnt be imposed onto everyone. i think for once Malti spoke what was very correct. Yes Toasty is very right to doubt what Prachin is doing and there should be a way she should deal with it, by talking to Tej first. Malti sees it from a completely different perspective, which is hers, which while right isnt right given what Prachin has been upto. When they portray Toasty to be so smart, how can they at the same time show her gullible enough to agree to Prachins story of his friends bhabhi in ICU? And Seriously, enough of her mahan self already! She is startign to behave like she is the owner of the house. Her gyans are beginning to sound hollow and empty given how she is implementing them. I didnt see anything wrong in what Malti suggested for Toasty, I couldnt understand why Toasty got so upset about it?

I think I'm starting to find Malti a little annoying...Yeah she is older in relation and age but so what? Is there some rule written that older age people are more intelligent and wise than younger? I personally feel wisdom comes from experiences and everybody has different experiences which helps them learn...so if someone younger than you has gone through more than somebody older, there is no shame in trying to learn... or listen...Malti suddenly seems like she cannot tolerate Toasty guiding her. Toasty is just trying to help Malti fit in the family and adjust as soon as possible...and Malti is busy with her ego.

Despite hating the character of Malti .. I liked what she said today : that is Toasty sees the world from her angle only. She thinks what is right and correct to her is universally correct and she will do anything to achieve this incuding lies, tricks, being rude to the best pal (Nikita),hiding stuff from husband and family .. whatever..

actually i will not say i hate malti because i find her character very near to reality...while toasty's character is too fictional

I think that's one thing the show is trying to teach us; you cannot change people's attitude and behaviour but you can change yours. For instance Malti feeling jealous and upset. I can totally understand her position and feelings 100% but she mustn't forget that Rome wasn't built in a day. She needs to gain back the trust, respect and love from the family and it's going to take some time for all of that to fully return. It cannot just happen magically overnight.

Originally posted by: Naina007

In the Gita it says karam karo par phal ki chinta mat karo, do your duty/work but don't worry for the reward.

You said a serial should not be teaching us. I respect your opinion. I firmly believe we learn from everything. Messages and lessons come in their various forms as blessings, in my opinion, and we can receive them from anywhere. TV may be fiction, but every fiction comes from some idea that originally stemmed from reality, even if it was 1%. Like you said why would you get gyan from Toasty, truth is gyan is gyan and it doesn't change, so if that is true it can be received from anywhere.

Toasty did share her doubt with Malti. She told her everything about what happened in college and also she shared with Malti about her being concern for and what exactly she is thinking, so she is not working on her own but Malti does not want to believe her and support her so she is has to do something herself as Prachin is on the wrong path.

As she said that Prachin will never lie but somehow she can not believe in his words regarding this which means she does trust him and fearing that her relationship will get worst if she tries and correct Prachin if she leave the matter then it would lead to worst situation so she need to stand and guide Prachin on right path weather he likes it or not. When Prachin will realise that Toasty was right he will go back to her.

I do agree and disagree with Malti. I agree that everyone should get happiness in their own way but if the way is wrong then it is wrong. After Toasty telling her all about Prachin in college bunking classes, borrowing money from other she should have noticed that there is something wrong as he is spending so much money and borrowing from people but she did not think this is problem, I mean anyone will notice that there is a problem and would support Toasty.

This is my own point of views. No one has to agree with me or I am not trying to offend anyone and If I did then I am sorry in advance.

if we get very upset and annoyed with any serial then -we do have tv remote in our hand,why don't we just use that??😉

if trp goes down then cvs certainly try to change thing.😆

Originally posted by: 100raj

if we get very upset and annoyed with any serial then -we do have tv remote in our hand,why don't we just use that??😉

if trp goes down then cvs certainly try to change thing.😆