I pity Malti

Has Pashupati Nath Chaturvedi ever been loving towards his wife? Has he ever openly expressed his love even once? Toasty survived in that male household ONLY because Tej supported her through thick and thin. They might have had their differences and disagreements, but he is generally affectionate, supportive and respectful. Toasty had it easy because of such a wonderful husband.

Unlike Malti who is stuck with Mr Pashu Bhaiya. He has NEVER stood up for his wife. On the contrary, he doesn't leave any stones unturned to insult her. I felt like slapping him when he said, "Tumne Banayi Hai? Is liye Toasty jaisa swad nahin!" JACKASS!!!!!

Malti doesn't want him to make melodramatic proclamations of his love. But is it too much to expect some consideration from your life partner?

Tej didn't always support her...it was Toasty's nature that kept her going to be honest. Many many times some one or another was against her and it took her a very long time to win everybody's trust and love.

I agree Pashu shouldn't have said that about the food, because that's just setting a seed in for rivalry

Pashu is useless

I would blame Pashu in two circumstances. One, during dinner when he critises her dish and second when she made special tea for him in the morning and he still drank the tea made by Toasty. What an Idiot ! Atleast he could have told her in private not to make anything special instead of snubbing her like that in front of everybody.

Probably Toasty has to make the men understand that they need to appreciate Malti a bit more.

I believe that it is very important for a spouse to openly confess his love for his wife, to let her know that he respects her. At the very least, be considerate towards her. Pashu GIVES NOTHING, but expects Malti's obedience and subservience forever!

Instead of insulting her at the dining table, why not encourage her efforts to do something for the family? Perhaps her food is not as delicious as Toasty's, but how can spouse snub his wife so openly and SERIOUSLY? Why can;t he just drink the tea she made for him, then take her aside and explain that while he appreciates her gesture, it is also rude to brew a cup of 'special' tea just for him. Such little steps would resonate much better with Malti...right now, I don't blame her for those evil thoughts against Toasty! Pashu is the catalyst for all that negativity!

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