im not supporting toasty - Page 4

Well I do not seem to agree, yes I do agree that Toasty should have waited for some time, let the family settle down with her come back. But she doesn;t write the script. She is only doing her role.

Originally posted by: dharad

, only time you see Pashu smiling is in the sequences of his past when he is with Malti.

That is true for whole Chaturvedi family because of the irreversible damage caused by Malti and her mom.. Yes Pashu offcourse remembers Malti, so does everyone but how he remembers is important and he has clearly said there is nothing romantic in his memory..

actually i dont agree.. i dont think toasty is wrong here.. she has seen the change in malti bhabhi.. she has seen pashu bhaiya remembering her.. and that is what is making her do what she is doing.. she is just helping pashu bhaiya..

agreed in past they had to go through lots and lots because of malti and her mom.. there is no denial there nor from malti nor from family but all including dadaji understand that the win they saw in court wasnt their win.. malti let them win.. the wya she had come to stand for toasty was enough proof to see that she can take her own decisions and wouldnt be influenced by her mom any more.. she has come far way from those past days.. she now realised that if she values people they will value her too..

Forgetting what she done is past is difficult but if one cant forget or forgive life is going to be hell.. you cant go past those incidences without forgetting and forgiving.. its not like toasty is asking them to get malti bhabhi after knowing what she has done is past but its after seeing the change in her and pashu bhaiya that she wants to unite them.. i guess dadaji has already forgiven her and is ready to get her back.. Ved.. well he is one person who always gets torn and influenced by others.. we have seen that in past too.. its easy for him to feel one thing one day and other the otherday.., those feelings are valid but he needs to understand things fully and truly understand what he really feels.. i think pitaji and ved are not letting go the past.. but life is going to be hard if they cant... and in this effort they are expecting pashu too sacrifice the relationship with malti..and he is..

I agree with dhard and anotheranfan and disagree with most of you. Toasty is being to pushy I agree, she should be more delicate with this situation but her intentions are good and what she is doing is right. Chaturs will not heal until they forgive Malti and take her back. Malti was misguided by her mom. Again her mom is causing problems. But Pashu loves Malti and Malti only. Why should he suffer for everyone else? He will keep saying no no, but inside even he doesn't want Toasty to give up. He just doesn't want to hurt his dad or Ved. Ved doesn't make sense to me, I;m sorry. These last few episodes make sense, but why was he so supportive before? All of a sudden he remembers the pain?

But like someone said, only Malti can help him heal. Ved and Malti just need to talk and all will be good. Then Nikki can help him from there. Ved yelling at toasty, well that courage came from Nikki.

Dadaji understands that Pashu happiness is only with Malti. Malti isn't a bad person. Her mom is selfish. Pashu has bulit a very strong wall. To break it one must keep hitting at it again and again until it finally breaks. We shouldn't give up after one or two hits.

Dont think Ved was ever supportive of Malti coming back. Initially he thought of Chedi's remarriage and for that he was all excited. But when he found out that it was regarding Pashu and Malti, he was not shown in favour of it ever as far as I remember. If wrong please correct me.

@sweta01 I undertstand what you are saying and partially agree with you. But if it makes Pashu happy, I think they all can sacrifice cause that is what they want.

Also Ved was in favor, remember him asking Pashu if he was looking at Malti pictures. He seemed to be fine with it then. And then the promo where he was convincing Pashu. and how come he never said anything before? does he really have to wait to hear Pitaji say anything. If it bothered him he should have said it.

I think it was more of an error of the writers as Ved being against it makes more sense. but it did seem funny.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/45258356

Ved in my opinion was never pro-Malti. When he sympathized with Pashu, it was because he understood Pashu's loneliness and wanted Pashu to have a companion in life. At that time he never thought of himself, he only saw Pashu; and he agrees with the rest of the family that Pashu should now move forward in life. Forward not Backward. Bringing Malti back is a regressive step. And with the serious allegations Malti has leveled against Ved, she has already created a rift in the family. If Malti comes back, Ved will in all honesty have to leave the house and go or Pashu will have to set up a separate household of his own. Both of which are not feasible options.

Originally posted by: sweta01

For Malti to come back Chedi and Ved both should be OK with it then only Pashu will bring Malti back home. He can move out of the house if he wants to stay with Malti but dont think that will be the case here as Pashu is more attached to his family.

i am not supporting toasty in her manipulation and shovign this idea down the familys throat.

But malti and pashu deserve to live together and be with each other
it might be hard to see right now...BUT i am with tasty and she is right...er