There were assigned duties to each brother abt cleaning, washing, and cooking, Hence all perfect but during Wedding Day, they were out of water supply and late too hence house was not clean, utensils were not washed, etc. as in the morning, tej came with all utensils to wash, but didnt wash cuz of no water....
If Pitaji had told any of the bro to clean Toasty's footprint and collect rice then they might have made big hovoc as mess was made for Toasty so I think he was trying to avoid it...
During Toasty's Grahpravesh, Dadaji mentioned abt how they have forgetting all the Rituals as there is no woman around