Some questions to discuss...

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Posted: 19 years ago
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After todays episode one question thats on everyones mind is "will Bhoomi leave the heritage house" well none of us can tell for sure till next week...But 3 questions I want to ask all the viewers of Saarthi are

1) If u were in Bhoomi's place would you leave the house? (keeping in mind the precap and that Arjun told her to get out)

2) Was Bhoomi right in keeping the truth hidden from the family? (keeping in mind her intention)

3) Is Arjun right to call her a murderer? (again keeping in mind Bhoomis intention)

and my reply to these answers are as follow...

1-If I were in Bhoomis place I would surely leave the house...Bhoomi has committed herself totally to her familys happiness and can give up her life if it means bringing the family more happiness...If in return I'd b treated the way Bhoomi is with everyone blaming me, not understanding me and specially not hearing me...I would never stay...and so if in the future she does leave, it will only be the familys fault...a self respected woman like Bhoomi surely doesnt deserve to get all this in return...

2-Her hiding the truth in my eyes was totally justified! Unlike Shefali who hid the truth only to use it to blackmail Mansen, Bhoomi hid it to keep the two family's tied which came together after much trouble and drama...

3-Arjun is so not right to call her a murderer...There is no doubt that she hid the truth but she wud b a murderer if she hid it for her own selfishness...which again she didnt! U cud call shefali a murderer, u cud call someone who kept quite cus of money a murderer, but not Bhoomi who had no idea abt it n when she came to knw the whole family was coming together...and who was alone in deciding what path she had to take which wud keep everyone happy even if it meant herself having to go thru pain....

It'll b nice to know all of ur views...so come on n share😃

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Posted: 19 years ago
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1)yes bcuz she was not wrong...n wat arjun is doing is not rite....i mean she always supports him then y can't he.
2)she did wat was rite...if she had told the truth then it wudve created big problems for the family...they wudve never be nice to mansen in a bad state.
3)arjun is just being toooo unreasonable.....he is blaming bhoomi for everything wen all she did was think best for the whole family
that r my view..i hope i didn't offend anybody 😳
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hey first I want to thank you and appreciate for posting a topic like this one.

1. If I were in Bhumi's place I would certainly leave the house coz whatever she has done is for the keeping peace in the family coz it's for the first time the two families came so close.And when my husband says the word getout how I could stay with him under the same roof??

2.No if I were in Bhumi's place I would certainly tell the truth at the very beginning whenever I come to know about it to Arjun coz my first priority would be my husband,it's coz of my relationship with him brought other relationships in my life and Kakashabeb who always treated me like a servant,who did harm to my husband's career,who made a girl widow how could I forgive such a person??No she wasn't right though her intention was good.

3. No certainly Arjun is not right though Bhumi has done though with a good intention a big mistake by hiding the truth.But if he calims that he loves Bhumi blindly then he has wrongly reacted by forgetting her intention.A husband should always behave in the way which might not hurt his wife's self respect and Arjun always forgets about that.He shouldn't have called her a murderer.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: diya7000

Hey first I want to thank you and appreciate for posting a topic like this one.

1. If I were in Bhumi's place I would certainly leave the house coz whatever she has done is for the keeping peace in the family coz it's for the first time the two families came so close.And when my husband says the word getout how I could stay with him under the same roof??

2.No if I were in Bhumi's place I would certainly tell the truth at the very beginning whenever I come to know about it to Arjun coz my first priority would be my husband,it's coz of my relationship with him brought other relationships in my life and Kakashabeb who always treated me like a servant,who did harm to my husband's career,who made a girl widow how could I forgive such a person??No she wasn't right though her intention was good.

3. No certainly Arjun is not right though Bhumi has done though with a good intention a big mistake by hiding the truth.But if he calims that he loves Bhumi blindly then he has wrongly reacted by forgetting her intention.A husband should always behave in the way which might not hurt his wife's self respect and Arjun always forgets about that.He shouldn't have called her a murderer.

Nice topic and i will do the same as Diya has stated above and yeah i will also never forgive Arjun easily if a person could easily forget what i have done in the past for him and than all the pain and suffering i am gone through i never deserve the comments like murderer.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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1. well if i were in bhoomi's place i definitely leave the house.bhoomi always tries to unite the whole family & sacrifices her own happiness for others.she wasn't done anything wrong then why she stays in that house after this.any woman who has a minimum self respect leaves that house after this incident.

2.i think bhoomi did a right thing to hide this truth.she always wants to unite this two families & when there was a possibilty of this then how she ruined this hope?

3. no no arjun was totally wrong.he never trusts his wife.i know that it's a big shock for him but atleast he can give bhoomi a chance or can hear the whole thing.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Its quite diffcult for me that I'm not a girl and I can't understand deeply the feeling of a woman.

1-yes If she is a self respect woman then she want to be leave the house.

2-she took a right decision to hide the truth.


3-If I 'm a hasband and my wife hide somthing for family unity then its my responsiblity to suport her and i think its come soon in saarthi because arjun also trust and love her.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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1)yes...she should because she thought the welfare of the families but got the opposite in return.
2)yes...at that time she had no other choice because both the families had started uniting and mansen got paralized.
3)no...being a good husband he should be supporting his wife and instead of that he called him a killer and asked her to get out.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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1) If u were in Bhoomi's place would you leave the house? (keeping in mind the precap and that Arjun told her to get out)


No i dont think she should leave at least not right now. She was very well aware of Arjuns reaction and that is why she did not tell him, and we were also expecting the same. Shadi ka Bandhan hai u just cant walk out of it, husband says get out and u just pack ur bags and leave. She should give Arjun more time to come to grips with the truth

But if he keeps telling her to get out then it would become a different matter.

2) Was Bhoomi right in keeping the truth hidden from the family? (keeping in mind her intention)



Again i would say No, she was not right in keeping the truth. She was anticipating Arjuns reaction to be bad and hid the truth from him, in that she is right, but she could have confided in Keshav and / or Suraj who are more balanced and they could have taken care of Shish and she would have been saved from becoming Damini Goswami

3) Is Arjun right to call her a murderer? (again keeping in mind Bhoomis intention)


No that was not good at all, but knowing Arjuns nature every1 was expecting such a thing from him


This other thing that i noticed was when Mansen confessed Shefali looked surprised, but Shefali knew long before Bhoomi about Mansen and Khushal's involvement in the blast and Satya's death, wonder what will happen when that is know

Edited by pinkykhan - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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wow teesha wapas aate hi , u posted a gr8 topic 👏 ...but reply u tom. dear 😳 😊 ...its too late now. 😳
Edited by poonam kg - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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well i would also leave the house since so much bad things were said.

and bhoomi was right ina way to hide the truth but i think she shud hav tell it to some 1 like suraj or keshav since these two people always react very calmly and can understand her situation also.

and arjun's reaction was not at all right. it was totally unjustified to me. he shud hav understood bhoomi's situation and listen to her. he shud know that only bhoomi is the one who kept their famly united. only bhoomi is the person who always think about the whole family.

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