Member Of The Week - Jaya (Jayc1234) - Page 7

Jaya,

Cool answers...well not that I agree to all, but you are the MOTW, so its your perspective here that counts more.😉😆

OK..still continuining wih the warm up session :

1. Tell me 8 things that I should never know about you at all.(you cannot say,its a secret or something meaning that)

2. If you were to live your life as someone else for a day and you would be the following people, what would you do :

a.Mahatma Gandhi

b.Uma Bharati

c.Mallika Sherawat

d.Aamna Sharif

e. Jaya Bhaduri

f. Winston Churchill

g Albert Einstein

h. Indira Gandhi

i. George Bush

j. Lata Mangeshkar

3.Imagine we need new IF user ID's, something that is not very comeprehensible for public, but yet it should make sense to the ID holder so that he/she remembers the ID to type in correctly...😉😆😆 what ID would you suggest for :

a. Jayc1234

b.Apparaohoare

c.S.Priya

d.Bhaskar.T

e.Barnali

f. ans24us1

g.chatbuster

h.adi_0112

i. punjini

j.Qwest

4. Who have you fought with most at IF? How many of those times were you right, and please no loops this time....😆

5. Between Suny's Osama, Ravan , and Bush, who do you like more and why?

Originally posted by: ans24us1

Thanks for answering my first.. 😊
My thoughts were mostly the same as yours.. 😛

Now, for my next set.. Now I am going to put you on the other side of the hotseat.. That is - you are going to be as the host... 😳

.....

This will take some thinking and writing, so will take it up later.. Have bookmarked the page though 😛

Jayaji,
Congratulations....
Wow....I thought I came in early and will catch the next MOTW early...What do I see?....9 pages of history written already...
Great going.....

CONGRATULATIONS

again....

Which part of Calcutta do uyou live in. I have spent 2 years in Jodhpur Park. You don't have to answer it if you don;t feel comfortable.

Do you expect questions from me? Would you love to have questions from me? If yes, what kind?

Originally posted by: ChameliKaYaar

Jayaji,
Congratulations....
Wow....I thought I came in early and will catch the next MOTW early...What do I see?....9 pages of history written already...
Great going.....

CONGRATULATIONS

Thanks Manish 😳

again....

Which part of Calcutta do uyou live in. I have spent 2 years in Jodhpur Park. You don't have to answer it if you don;t feel comfortable.

Well my mom's place is in Salt Lake and that is where I gew up as a girl since the time we settled in Kolkata.. Now ofcourse I stay with my husband and in-laws in New Alipore😊

Do you expect questions from me? Would you love to have questions from me? If yes, what kind?

Of course, I am looking fwd to questions from you😊.. Would love the very 'Manish' kind of questions 😳 But dont know if I can do justice to them as Adi and Abhi did 😕

Originally posted by: jayc1234

Well I don;t expect the same answers as Adi and Abhi... I would like Jayaji style answers....I would like to explore your brain in getting me out of "sticky" (or shall we say Ran-Deery) situations😆😆😆

By the way, I am very familiar with New Alipore (probably one os the poshest localities in Kolkatta and also Salt Lake City (I used to visit friends and also watch football games)...😛

Once again....welcome....it is a real trewat to have you on the heels of 2 great ones.👏👏👏

Originally posted by: jayc1234

This will take some thinking and writing, so will take it up later.. Have bookmarked the page though 😛

Originally posted by: ans24us1

Set - 3

I feel you are the right person to ask these questions 😳 I am just too curious to know the answers for these 😆

Welcome to the 'Relationship Counseling' office of Jaya 😆 She promises, you will get answers to your questions here for sure.. 😳 Yes, her perspective can be different - so the choice of going with it still lies with you 👍🏼

1. What do you think of the concept of Love at first sight

I think its something that only happens in Yash Chopra and Karan Johar movies. The human mind is tooo logical and apprehensive to fall for anything like that 😛

2. Is Cyber Love and Real Time Love the same?? What do you think is more advantageous and why?? Is Cyber Love really Love or just an attraction??

I think Love is a beautiful feeling that can grow between two individuals anyhow.. and with the growing presence of internet in our lives now, Cyber love is all but a reality. I also believe that when you love a person, its more of his/her thoughts, beliefs and actions than what the person really looks like - and the cyber space does provide you enough scope for sharing your thoughts. But, and there is a big but here - there are a lot of things that you can realise only by spending more time with a person face to face; as to how he/she reacts instantly to certain things; what is his/her body language on something - in the cyber space, the other person has sufficient time to articulate and present the thoughts in a way that he/she may want the other person to like it - so there is a lot more scope of seeing onky what the other person wants you to see; and unfortunately that may not be the reality always.

To me, I will be too sceptical for it; and even if something gets triggered off in this medium - I would want to have considerable real-time and face to face interaction with person before going ahead with any commitments 😊

3. How do you differentiate an infactuation, crush and Love

Infatuation - 'Bade achhe lagte hai, yeh nadiya, yeh raina, yeh dharti aur tum' 😳

Crush - 'Jaane kya baat hai, jaane kya baat hai.. neend nahi aati, badi lambi raat hai' 😳

Love - 'Kuchh na kaho, kuchh bhi na kaho.. kya kehna hai.. kya sunna hai...mujhko pataa hai.. tumko pataa hai.. samaye ka yeh pal, tham sa gaya hai..' 😳

4. Justify this statement - Marriage is all same, may it be love marriage or arranged - Ultimately its how you live with the relationship

Agree - marriage is eventually the understanding that the 2 individuals build up and work on each others strengths to strengthen the relationship. Yes, the approach to the same is different for a love or an arranged marriage; while in a love marriage, you start with a relatively better understanding of ur partner, but at the same time the expectations are also sky-high. Ultimately its upto the couple how they perform the balacing act😊

5. What do you think is preferred in today's world - Love Marriage or Arranged

I think partly answered in previous question. Both have their advantages and disadvantages. But, I would anyday prefer an arranged love marriage. I do need to know the person I am agreeing for a life time commitment; and I know that the way my parents have brought me up, they will be pretty sure of my decision and will bless us for a future life together👍🏼

6. Do you agree with the extra marital affairs?? Is it best to part away and marry someone else if you feel that the relationship is not going??

Extra marital affiairs! No way Hmmm KANK ka kuchh zyada hi asar pada hai tumpar 😆 I think any problem between a couple needs to be given a sincere hard try to resolve.. If they have committed and really want to make it happen, I think they can😊 But, yes even after your repeated sincere efforts.. it still does not seem to go anywhere.. may be you should let it go, rather than choking it to death... Just like is expressed in this beautiful song😊...

taarruf rog ho jaaye, to usako bhoolanaa achchhaa
taallook boz ban jaaye to use todanaa achchhaa
wo afasaanaa jise anjaam tak laanaa naa, n ho mumakeen
use yek khubasoorat mod de kar bhoolanaa achchhaa

But I dont think getting into another relationship after that is really a solution.. If your current partner was not good enough for you, there is no gaurantee that someone else will be😕

7. A Hypothetical situation - Something like a situation in KANK.. There is a girl who is married and loves another guy and the same situation is for the guy too.. But the guy whom the girl is married to, still loves her.. What is best advice you would give that girl and the guy? Is it better to part from their better half and marry the person they love? Do you justify the climax of KANK?? If you have not watched the movie, i will tell you the climax..

I personally do not agree to the movie at all.. Rani was never in love with SRK in the movie when she got married... She was all plain confused! And if she was so confused, she should have never married AB.. Now, she has a loving husband in AB, who takes care of all her tantrums - why on earth would she look for a relationship outside marriage.. Same for SRK; here is a man who is egoistic and cannot appreciate his wife's success, or may be is more unhappy with his failure than the former.. and here is a wife, yes who is busy with her career, but that is something she loves as well as it is something that keeps the family going.. Where did she go so wrong! The whole saga of Rani and SRK looking for a relationship outside marriage was stupid, without even trying a bit to find happiness in the current one! And the climax was equally illogical.. If Rani cud not stay with such a loving husband, would she ever be happy with such an insecured guy! I wonder

8. A girl's parents do not agree for the marriage, but the guy's parents do.. What is the advice you would give for the girl

Hmmm - a tough one! May be talk over again and again with her parents.. But if they absolutely still do not agree, just go ahead and tell the guy that her parents mean a world to her, and she would not hurt them.. At the same time, take this decision that she will not go ahead marrying another guy just because her parents ask her to.. Inspite of refusing the marriage, she still continues to love that guy, and may be that should be good for her to go ahead.. Marriage is not always the one-stop solution.

9. Justify the statement - When there is love all the 365 days, there no need to be one day called the Valentines Day.. Its only the opportunity for the card companies to grab money..

Agree 200%... Love is a great feeling that is experienced and shared in tiny little passing moments of life... Its not an imposition that will find an expression only on one assigned day... Valentine's Day is just a commercialization drive by all the stake-holders involved in it.. And love is anything but commercial😊

10. Lastly - What is the gift you would get for Jiju as a token of love 😊

Moments and Memories 😳

Congratulations Jaya👏👏...hope you have an awesome week. This is a perfect opportunity for me to get to know you since we havent had the pleasure of meeting or interacting with each other.

Originally posted by: wite_rainbow

Congratulations Jaya👏👏...hope you have an awesome week. This is a perfect opportunity for me to get to know you since we havent had the pleasure of meeting or interacting with each other.

i second that.. and guess what am already enjoying your witty replies.. way to go gal👏