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Originally posted by: snowflake0555

I did take my parents permission before joining this forum...if u all feel that i havent and i m lying about my age and all, and that i shouldnt be the MOTW due to my age, then if u want i will leave this forum

but please believe me, i did take their permission before and they let me join this...if i am too young to be MOTW then y was i asked anyways? i wanted to be it so i said yes....

Krishna yu need not feel bad. yu hav said tht yu hav taken yur parents permission and we all believe yu. go and enjoy yur motw. 😊

Originally posted by: SHUBHA99

Recently you can see Sameer supporters flurting on every post without any hasitation and this is a bad trend. Hope you all look into...

Lady, you should talk about "Flirting" with an Avatar of yours that says "HOTTIE"!!!

Since I am a Sameer fan and we do joke on this site, I would like you to be specific who you are referring to please?? We are not kids here.... we are responsible people and some of us are in the medical field and even do some counselling. Having a little bit of a giggle and laugh and joke should not be taken as "flirting". I am strongly urging the IF Dev. Team to ask this person what is meant by Sameer team flirting??? We are not that stupid and we do have personal mail accts. if we want to do that.

Come on people. I have seen India on TV and even India is marched forward! Why is Military Regime being imposed here? This kind of accusation has really brought Sameer fan morals down, rest assured. Every time Sameer gang is being hit. Why? Because we enjoy having a few chuckles?

I wish to refrain from a kid being on MOTW right now......... thanks.

I TRUST the IF Dev. Team to do their job which they are!!

Kusum,

Please do not be disheartened or let your morales sag. She may have had a point in what she said, so lets not jump to conclusions.

And yes, as you said, having a few laughs, exchanging a few cracks is not flirting.

And being an MOTW is sometimes by choice of that member and of other members too. If anyone does not wish to sit on the MOTW seat, they can always let the IF dev team know and we will keep a note of it. It is not a compulsary thing on the forum.

Originally posted by: s.priya

Kusum,

Please do not be disheartened or let your morales sag. She may have had a point in what she said, so lets not jump to conclusions.

And yes, as you said, having a few laughs, exchanging a few cracks is not flirting.

And being an MOTW is sometimes by choice of that member and of other members too. If anyone does not wish to sit on the MOTW seat, they can always let the IF dev team know and we will keep a note of it. It is not a compulsary thing on the forum.

Thanks Priyadi. This person's Avatar says 'HOTTIE" and then they talk about Sameer supporters flirting! I know how hard some of the supporters work so it pained me. I will close the chapter now but I had to vent at least for the sake of my fellow friends. They are a decent bunch of guys and gals. Tks. again.

My first and last post...So a child can come over here...just say that he is taken permission and all you guys will be ok...

So you should change your rules to ..if you are less than 13 years of age, pls pm the DEV team that I have taken the permission of my parents and We will be fine..

You guys really have a nice sense of responsibility.. 😕

Originally posted by: JAHANNUMI

My first and last post...So a child can come over here...just say that he is taken permission and all you guys will be ok...

So you should change your rules to ..if you are less than 13 years of age, pls pm the DEV team that I have taken the permission of my parents and We will be fine..

You guys really have a nice sense of responsibility.. 😕

excuse me but... we know snowy for a long time to trust and believe her...

and there's nothing that happens in this forum that a 12 yr old or kids under 13 can't handle... we're just discussing our thoughts and playing games...that's it...

other than that... I think the Dev team are handling this forum perfectly...

so next time u decide to write ur 1st and final post... at least get to know us.. b4 coming to that conclusion... tnx for stopping by... do come again 😊

Originally posted by: Awww

The bolded red part on Priya's post is something that I had a concern too. I totally hated the constant lecturing by members of what is right and what is wrong and lecture about morals and values. My husband is a member too on IF and I have his permission to joke around with other members 😉

Zee and Priya I agree with you that One should not give lecture on moral values or force thier views on others, one should be stay within thier limits

But can I ask you something we consider IF as our second home right.. My question is as seniors here can't we suggest or guide our junior members with in limits, is it only duty of parents n MODS???

If a senior member says a 12 year old member to goto bed at 11.30 night is she breaking a rule??? why does her suggestion gets sacrcstic replys...

I remember during SDK's MoW few seniors members were giving him valuble tips to him about his future education and ironically another senior member found the whole converstaion BORING.... do you want members like him....

Ystday I found one member was asking MOW a question like - If one boy come to u and purpose u what will u say yes or no ?.. Do you think this is a proper question to ask 12 year old... and should I sit quite and watch all this just because I am just member???


Please answer me....

If a senior member is concerned about the well being of another junior member of IF and wants to tell the person to go to sleep, that member can use PM service of IF. Private Messages are meant for this purpose.

And where has that senior member got ANY SARCASTIC REPLIES???

What is Member of the Week?? It is a know your member thing, where we ask one member some questions about them, to allow us to know them better. Conducting ONLINE tutorials is not what IF is all about. This is an entertainment forum and this section is meant for "SRGMP" show. If someone wants to give tips on future education, or life, we have PM service or the members can take it out on IM. Forum posts are not meant for this. We have been relaxed about this rule, but sometimes, things do go out of hand. I dont remember which incident you refer to during Suny's MOTW, but whatever it is, the kind of chatting and spamming which was prevelant then, we are glad to say, is now much reduced.

We have asked every MOTW to answer only those questions which they feel comfortable with. Anything which is inappropriate for them, we leave them to decide.

To you the member may be a child, to us the member is a member and we are not going to make qualitative discrimination on age.

If you have any further questions on this issue, please feel free to pm us. We have more than sufficiently answered all your doubts and there is nothing left to ambiguity any more.

Thanks.

P.S. Request to zee, unless you got something different than what I have said above, please do not reply as more replies lead to more exchanges and this topic is not really up for discussion any more.

So it is ok if a kid signs up even if he/she is under 13 as he /she accepted the terms, then why a age limit is set on registration? Why is it not just open for all. Priya seems you are saying, "follow what I am saying, do not quote me, just agree to it and if donot agree then shutup and just use PM"

i know exactly what zee means and whom she is referring too Priya di people here have a lot of intelligence and think they are oversmart and can say anything and everything to anybody and everybody they want.

Itni baat kis liye sirf isliye ki kids are coming on this forum.

People tell me one single way we can stop kids from coming in is it the responsibility of If people to see who is joining there are thousands of members a few mods cant look into everything pls tell me one way we can stop kids from coming in.

Can we do anything?No
Is it not the responsibility of the parents to see what their child is doing we are not their parents.