Member of the Week:Shadytown (Shady Bhai) - Page 18

Originally posted by: Iron

KABHI Congratulations 👏

thanx😊

Originally posted by: kabhi_21

Here is the question that is never asked to male MOTWs.... I m giving you as you are perfect person to give the point of view on this😈

1. Since any man can't probably ever get past the BIG E, G and O when it comes to his own life, do you think its okay for the woman in his life to pamper the same and act accordingly to maintain peace in the family? Why or why not?

Absolutely - if the man can be expected to pamper the woman and shower her with gifts and praises to keep her happy, she should also be expected to pamper him if necessary. We all have our flaws - but our loved ones need to overlook them.

2. If EGO is the main issue / weakness of a man, what is it for a woman and why?

Someone mentioned this before - jealousy. Also, inquisitiveness. Women don't know when to let something be.

3. What are the biggest strengths of a man and a woman? How can they work on their strengths to overcome their weaknesses?

Men are practical, women are sensitive. Men tend to have a positive outlook to life and look to overcome issues instead of crying about them, while women are good at dressing the wounds and providing comfort when things don't go right.

4. Is there anything called an ideal marriage? If yes, define it. If no, why do you think it does not exist?

A marriage that has lasted for a significant amount of time without breaking is ideal. It doesn't have to be perfect to be ideal, it just has to be durable.

5. Which one would you prefer - marry someone you love, or marry someone who loves you (assuming that both ways option is ruled out). Why?

Someone who loves me. At least I'll be cared for. I doubt I can love a stranger unless they're a part of my life.

6. Is it okay to have a relationship that does not culminate in marriage? Can one maintain a friendly relationship with a person after knowing that they can never be married (for some reason)? Is it justified? Why or Why not?

As long as both individuals are aware of the fact that this may not culminate in marriage. False promises are a no-no. Be frank and be honest. If we're frank from the beginning, then we can part amicably and also remain friends afterwards.

7. What would you want your first child to be - a boy or a girl? Why?

Haven't thought about this - I would love both. But if you ask my subconscious mind, I would imagine it's a boy. And maybe that's a better idea. The eldest should be a boy so he can relieve me and take care of his younger siblings. Also - the mistakes that we'll commit with him, we can learn from them and not commit the same mistakes with the kids that come after him. I'd rather make mistakes with the boy than the girl.

8. Why is baby pink a color for baby girls and sky blue a color for baby boys? Dont you think that by choosing colors for a kid based on gender, the parents start to distinguish from day one?

What's wrong with distinguishing. The kids should know that they're not the same. That way, they'll better conduct themselves in society. Honestly, there are some private and public things girls can't and shouldn't do and boys can't and shouldn't do, and the earlier we make them aware of that, the better.

9. Why do you think that most of the woman who want to make it big remain alone or have broken relationships? Is there a realistic solution possible to this issue?

Many reasons. Whatever women do, they do it with full passion. And they're so obsessed with it that many they can't see past it. Marriage is considered to be a speed-breaker and it goes onto the backburner. Also, men are probably not comfortable with such career-driven women. It may be the E G O issue mentioned earlier, or it may just be that they want a more family-oriented person. I think women need to step down a bit, and men need to rise above their fears. That's the only solution.

10. Why do you think your life is your greatest possession? Wouldn't others call it a self-centered point of view? Why do you think the others are wrong?

Life has been given to us by God - and we should respect any gift given by Him and treasure it as our most precious possession. And the people close to us also have a stake in our life. So it's our responsibility to protect it and not misuse it. Others are probably too depressed with their lives, or they're so kind-hearted that they don't care for their life over others'.

😆 Chalo Helmet dal ke maidan me utar jao😆

Originally posted by: coollama

Hey I am so happy to see ur answes. All the answers were just awesome. Specially the last one.. oh I loved all of them, witt and humorous.

Thanks 😳

Here goes some more specially for you.


1. What do you look for in a friend?

A sounding board. Someone with similar interests like mine that I can discuss with them.

2. Do you prefer to have friends of the same sex or opposite sex? and Why?

Preferably same sex - like I said earlier, similar interests. There are many things you can't talk about with members of the opposite sex.

3. If you had to live your life over again, what would you change?

My complexes - hindsight is a great thing, and I would do a lot of things differently now that I know how they could turn out.

4. Do you feel more comfortable in small gatherings or large parties?

Small gatherings - a handful of friends that you can talk with and be yourself.

5. Everybody worries about something. What do you worry about?

Being misunderstood

Originally posted by: desisrule

Hi Shady,
Desi Anu here. My question is regarding your quote:

"One of the most difficult things in the world is to convince a woman that even a bargain costs money."

How many times have you tried and failed at this and how much money have you lost in such "bargains" ?

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Never - altho my Dad's failed quite a few times

Originally posted by: shadyhtown

nice answers Shady👏

Originally posted by: shadyhtown

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Never - altho my Dad's failed quite a few times

sorry can't stop

Solid replies to the questions Abhi asked you... 👍🏼

You know I dont agree to all of that, but liked the way you replied and will respect the opinion... 😊😊😊

There is lot going on as such here, so may be this is not a time to start discussing these answers for sure.. 😳😛

Great responses to the other questions... 👍🏼

Originally posted by: shadyhtown

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Never - altho my Dad's failed quite a few times

So that should be your Dad's quote, not yours. Bina personal experience ke Nari Jaati ko badnaam karna theek nahin. 😉