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Posted: 19 years ago

Originally posted by: charades

I think these kind of issues are those which needs to be behind the scenes...as you have valid reason to ban a member...



Thanks Vijay for appreciating it.

Warning a member, banning a member, and so many other countless things are there which we are routinely doing as a part of our day to day thing.

These cannot be kept out in open forum.

Say on a particular day, you make a stray comment which is totally out of character. Going by the book, we ought to warn you or ban you. But we know you. So we send you a PM, we talk to you and we sort out matters.

Often we dont even warn the member, but just talk to them and the matters are sorted out.

Tomorrow someone comes, takes out that post and displays it in the open forum for all eyes to see and point fingers and accuse, what do you want us to do? Sit and give explanation for every act of yours, when we know you were not completely at fault.

Do you know Vijay that in this beautiful section, there are really very few problem makers. Majority are wonderful people, bound together by the love of music. But in any group of this size, there is bound to be differences, which is what we face today.

At times like this, when someone comes and points fingers, it is unfortunate.


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Posted: 19 years ago

Originally posted by: kabhi_21

Ok so main issue is rested........ I want my name to be removed from Appa's post.......... can anyone help me with that

Abhi, you want your name from his post,there are so many posts floating around the forum with my name in it or very clearly cited as the "favoured member" .Do you think I am enjoying it? My names being dragged along in discussions, then why do I have to go with it.

Vijay bhai, if it was between members and MODs, why were a few members singled out in the first place as case study? Did anyone member ask before doing that.Wht was that alienation?

Sorry Priya, i beg to differ. What problems you all have sort it out.But as a member I do not wish to have my name dragged to and fro in posts. I am no case study here and neither am I seeking the spotlight.

Before anyone else jumps..I am talking for me.

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Posted: 19 years ago
well spoken Adi. appreciate all the restraint u have shown. 👏 👏 👏
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Posted: 19 years ago

Originally posted by: adi_0112

Abhi, you want your name from his post,there are so many posts floating around the forum with my name in it or very clearly cited as the "favoured member" .Do you think I am enjoying it? My names being dragged along in discussions, then why do I have to go with it.

Vijay bhai, if it was between members and MODs, why were a few members singled out in the first place as case study? Did anyone member ask before doing that.Wht was that alienation?

Sorry Priya, i beg to differ. What problems you all have sort it out.But as a member I do not wish to have my name dragged to and fro in posts. I am no case study here and neither am I seeking the spotlight.

Before anyone else jumps..I am talking for me.

For ur info when u wr not in the bright tomorrow thread even my name was dragged over this transperancy issue as I favoured mods there....... i dont have any personal grudges against u or Jaya......

I just posted u and Jaya because the situation would have been out of control........I told people to wait for Bhaskar bros reply........

After he gave reply I have also clapped for ur responses......

I have my own views which may differ from urs but where does our relation come here.........

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Posted: 19 years ago
Now Again can I expect my name to be removed from his post........... as I have already clarified that it was not me who said those things
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Posted: 19 years ago

Originally posted by: kabhi_21

Yes I did comment but not without reason I had every right to ask about the comment I mentioned to you.......


You think as a member, you have every right to question my integrity!!!

Abhi if you had any doubts on my integrity, you could not avoided telling me the answer.

You choose to malign my name in open forum. Have you thought of that?

What had I done to make you believe that I have squealed behind your back.


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Posted: 19 years ago

WHO THE HELL DO YOU PEOPLE THINK YOU ARE , REPEATEDLY IGNORING MY POSTS LIKE THIS ????

OK , TELL YOU WHAT .. I HAVE HAD IT WITH THIS GOD DAMNED FORUM , THIS SHOW AND YOU PEOPLE ( MOST ) .. I AM OUT OF HERE .....
H AND BY THE WAY ..........
THIS FORUM xxxxxx....BIG TIME

Moderator's Note:
please do not attack members in this fasion.

Edited by s.priya - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago

Originally posted by: charades

That's right especially any derogatory statements against Women .....If it is upto me I would for sure keep it behind the scenes... no matter what...chaahen mujhen log gaali hi kyon na de

I think not many of us (us meaning here all forum members) had an idea, what kind of things go behind the scene on PMs before this PM came out... Now, some atleast have an idea... I would say that this PM exposure was a boon in diguise, now that people know, they will not ask for exposing PMs for the sake of transparency.. Certain things better remain behind the covers.. lets keep the open forum clean.. remember we also have twelve year olds visiting this place... We definitely need to be more responsible...

I also think a lot of times our names have been singled out and dragged into conversations.. And yes, none of us liked it.. But we have kept quiet, only to maintain peace... A reaction will only attract and equal and opposite reaction... But yes, as I keep saying, we all need to understand that there can be a perspective different from others and that is not necessarily wrong..... We dont need to agree to it, but that does not give any of us a right to personally judge anyone...

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Posted: 19 years ago

Edited on the request of Barnalidi

Edited by kabhi_21 - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago

Originally posted by: vinnie-thepooh

Adi ,

Sorry ,but i have something to say.these charges started days back,and it was been asked since so many days.Why was this not posted then,Y'day when everything went against ,then only this PM came out.Isn't it just being used to get public sympathy

Vinnie,

You want my views? fine let me give you. Appada never wanted anyone else to know about it, becuase he knew they would not want to see their names in the Pm or this identity of the person.

He kept quite.Members here, time and again,for the last couple of days constantly went making digs at him, shredding him to pieces, insinuating things, and instigating with sarcasm to react. He still kept quite.Do you know why? because he wanted it to fizzle out.Have the persistent members given up? no.Another slander,another dig. another newbie another allegation.This is a thread opened seeking justice for members.this is a thread that is asking for replies for favouritism or biasness.This is a thread still seeking replies on transparency.

Isn't it about time he came out and atleast cleared the dirt that has been constantly thrown at him.

A few quotes highlighted and posted on saw such violent reaction from matured members (page 1).was that for public sympathy?

'If not then definitely not this case. Not every one thrives on the public sympathy angle.

Edited by adi_0112 - 19 years ago

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