Member Of The Week:-uknaik99 - Page 69

Originally posted by: jayc1234

Execllent answers Anu.... 👏

Pround of you, sis 🤗 🤗 🤗

Thank you so much didi... 🤗🤗🤗

I really hope things change in for us 😛 and no one comes and blast me here for these answers... 😆😆

I really hope my bro's and other frnds here dont mind all this written here...
I luv u all 🤗

Cool answers Anu 👏 but on some points my views are different

I don't agree with all that Anu said, when it comes to us then it's motherhood, then where it goes when you have to sacrifice your career for that. No we want everything according to our convenience. yes if it's needed for necessity to lilve I have no problem but just for you ambitions leaving child with babysitters how mothery is that.

There may be some things where things need to be improved, but the day we cried for equality that's where we lost everything. I wish we should have cried to improve things which needed to be improved instead of equality. God has made men & women differently you agree emotionally & physically so they have different platform to work, that's all I can say.

Anu's statements are completely biased with her personal experience, that's my opinion and like I don't agree with you no one has to agree with me either.

Arre yaar, im not the MOTW here 😆 😆 😆

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So, when we grow up, they expect that we must follow what they say.. Now, coming to your point - Who said that girls are allowed to study what they want, and study how much ever they want? Its actually not the case... Do you know how many girl children in Rural parts of India are deprived of their educational rights... They dont send the girl children to school and get them married in their young age.. In most of the orthodox family, "The girl is not allowed to study in abroad or go to abroad for her work, unless and untill she gets married to a person" A girl is not allowed to go out of the house after a particular time limit etc.. Now, where is the girl given all the rights to study what she wants and how much ever she wants?


I agree with you for this one 100%.

My example:
I did M. Sc. in Math from Mumbai with 73% (It was a lot those days) My professor wanted me to do Phd, my father was against it according to him in Gujju society(THose days) it is difficult to find a boy highly educated. My professor came to my hose tried to convince him, it didn't work. I joined teaching in college and did M.Phil (as it was a requirement). Now I am in USA my husband wants me to Phd as it is a requirement here to teach in the university and I don't feel like studying any more.

I am sorry if it has hurt anyone here 😭 😭

pallavi ji ek baat bataiye, ky ahum nahin chate bahut see baatein from our husband & make them do what we want. But then our argument is we were right. It's like when two peoppe living together we do need to adjust and I am not saying things are 100% right for women, are they 100% right for men or anyoe in this whole world?

Life is not fair to startwith no matter who it is, we see all the time, so....

we want to stay home they should let us, if we want to work they should allow us, what if tomorrow men says I don't want to work you go ahead & earn, that should be fair according to equality right?

Originally posted by: paljay

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So, when we grow up, they expect that we must follow what they say.. Now, coming to your point - Who said that girls are allowed to study what they want, and study how much ever they want? Its actually not the case... Do you know how many girl children in Rural parts of India are deprived of their educational rights... They dont send the girl children to school and get them married in their young age.. In most of the orthodox family, "The girl is not allowed to study in abroad or go to abroad for her work, unless and untill she gets married to a person" A girl is not allowed to go out of the house after a particular time limit etc.. Now, where is the girl given all the rights to study what she wants and how much ever she wants?

I agree with you for this one 100%.

My example:
I did M. Sc. in Math from Mumbai with 73% (It was a lot those days) My professor wanted me to do Phd, my father was against it according to him in Gujju society(THose days) it is difficult to find a boy highly educated. My professor came to my hose tried to convince him, it didn't work. I joined teaching in college and did M.Phil (as it was a requirement). Now I am in USA my husband wants me to Phd as it is a requirement here to teach in the university and I don't feel like studying any more.

Originally posted by: ans24us1

I am sorry if it has hurt anyone here 😭 😭

Anu sweety i don't think anyone should get hurt just coz opinions don't match.You answered what you feel is right and the ways you have seen or experienced .If i had to answer them i will answer acoording to what i feel or my experience or the way i percieve society.

So we can always disagree on an agreement but i really liked your answers

Well i think we should include the above topic in Deep's debate idea 😆

Originally posted by: manjujain

pallavi ji ek baat bataiye, ky ahum nahin chate bahut see baatein from our husband & make them do what we want. But then our argument is we were right. It's like when two peoppe living together we do need to adjust and I am not saying things are 100% right for women, are they 100% right for men or anyoe in this whole world?

Life is not fair to startwith no matter who it is, we see all the time, so....

we want to stay home they should let us, if we want to work they should allow us, what if tomorrow men says I don't want to work you go ahead & earn, that should be fair according to equality right?

yes di - it should be perfectly fair - who in this world has said that its man's duty to run the household and he has to earn for it... if the woman can do the same thing and is more adept at that, let her do it.. if the man wants to do something else sitting at home, he can do that - whats the harm there..

it is a man made society - we grew up there and we always saw and were always made to believe that women cant do certain things and so men should take care... some of us believe in this disparity and the inequality and that is where we lose out...

if you ask me, other than the physical strength, the woman is lot more matured to handle everything else... and they are stronger in all other fronts too.. we never got the opportunity to prove it and hence it has become an unequal podium to start with now... but if we continue to think that way for ever, things will only go on like this for ever....