A Musical Topic - Page 13

Originally posted by: crossroads7

Yeah i know what you mean but this is the part I whole-heartedly disagree with. I feel these girls are intelligent. It just comes down to how you define intelligence. Intelligence for me means the ability to set goals and to achieve them. It goes beyond bookish knowledge.... Book learning is one of many ways... The goal does not have to be about money, though i dont believe that about most people, especially those who LOUDLY claim it's not about money.😉 Generally, people i can buy that about are people with old-money😊

Originally posted by: Surkilla

u r confusing two things, having a degree or not has nothing to do with ur love of books. read my prev post, u'll see what I mean.

I don't know what u mean by grooming as I sense a perception mismtach here.

Originally posted by: crossroads7

Yeah, there are other examples of insecure people. If we didnt know better, we could say that about girls repeatedly claiming that guys cant handle intelligent strong girls being insecure, which is what brought on this entire discussion in the first place. 😉Which reminds me, people throwing the first dart and then making out it's the other guy's fault could be insecure too- paranoid in fact. Or dishoing out but not eing able to take it. 😉Or people claiming they dont have the need to defend themselves when that's all they do everywhere, in public, in private, on land, by sea.😆 We could have all these additional examples if we did not know better. 😉You gotta separate fact from fiction, from what people write from what they say... cant be taking words to the bank whichever side one's on😆

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

What I know about Mallika is what she shows us. You don't think she slept her way to stardom? Guess you're right, I bet more of those nights were spent awake. 😉 Did I call her a slut? Is your dig directed at me? Anyways, either way, she is a slut, there's no other way to look at it. If stripping on TV and calling it acting isn't slutty then God knows what is.

Rakhi Sawant has quite a story to tell also, its sad what forces these women to take on such careers. But in the end it is their choice, and if they expect sympathy, they're not going to get it. Plus, what makes their careers? Perverted guys who go numerous times to watch their movies just to catch a glimpse of those sex scenes? Yeah right.

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

You know where I see the real mismatch - when people see bookishness and grooming as two mutually exclusive attributes when it comes to gals!

Why does she have to choose between either one of the two? Why can't she has both simultaneoulsy! There's no dearth of gals who are well read and well groomed throughout all these decades since people opened up to the idea of good education being as important for their daughters as it is for their sons! Still, one sees people who are hell bent on making this distinction between a studious/bookish and a well-groomed girl!

Originally posted by: bruno4

Okay buddy ..since u quoted me ..let me give u piece of my mind ..i don't know whether u noticed or not I don't come here to preach but to share my views on music and have some fun in the process ...so I have no idea who those "insecure girls" u r talking about ....yes I agree that insecurity sometimes make some girls utter some nonsense but I won't term it as insecurity I would term it as attention deficit problem ....those who continuously try to seek attention...but I don't know any such person and even if I know I don't care ....My main aim is to applaud Gauri's point about how security and self esteem go hand in hand..... I don't care what people claim themselves to be ..If u have so much time to analyse that ..be my guest ..but don't quote me..I don't have time to talk rubbish neither I think there r guys not strong and intelligent enough to handle me .......the fact is I have been surrounded by pretty nice , intelligent and strong guy friends in real and virtual lives who value my opinion a lot and I value theirs ....I know how to differentiate between facts and fiction ....I don't preach and I don't consider myself above others ..so take ur opinions somewhere else ....I don't have time to read these bull...I try to stay away from it ....but when I see somebody quoting me and going altogether in a different tangent I have to respond ...

O.kk ..I really don't have time to spend here anymore and put some sense into ur head ...and no matter how much u goad me u r not going to get any reply from me ....This topic is going out of hand and i am out of here ...

Originally posted by: Surkilla

a song for a change : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AC4WkyqHNno (Tumne mujhe dekha), gal might be a combo of beauty n brains n the guy is not the one to shy away from it😉😊,