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Posted: 13 years ago
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Lashy good topic ...
I was not expecting this from sanchi . There are two sides of the story ... Fine Mock SR was arranged by him but he didnt touch her at all . Physically she was not harmed . Indu singh wanted to harm her but still in the limits .
Once again she is going ahead and putting false charges on him.
this is getting too much...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Namita.Murti


I totally get it why she did it but unfortunately, it touched a sensitive matter and something that's to taken lightly!


I completely agree it is not a light matter, when someone forces themself on someone else, they reached a point of no return, they are not redeemable! The person is not human, they are the embodiment of evil!
But messing with Sanchi and getting married to her against her will, kidnapping her father, kidnapping her these are not light matters either. Why does Sanchi have to be kind to this person, if he cannot stand the heat he needs to get out of kitchen! He started the fight, she continues it, do not cry foul, when you are loosing Indu Singh - be a man and take it on the chin.
Lots of people are willing to justify Indu Singh's actions, since he is a rich and good looking guy, they are willing to overlook the fact that he is a goon, who is forcing himself on Sanchi. He does not have the right to bother Sanchi and all his redeemable qualities do not justify his actions against Sanchi. She uses everything in her power to protect herself and she has that right in a democratic country! He believes he is above the law, because he can buy the law! There are many goons like this in India and many other parts of the world. So even if it make belief I like to see him loosing and it frustrates me no end that people support him. I am convinced that if the character were not so rich and if he was just a simple goon without money he would not have so many supporters!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: geetfan38


I completely agree it is not a light matter, when someone forces themself on someone else, they reached a point of no return, they are not redeemable! The person is not human, they are the embodiment of evil!
But messing with Sanchi and getting married to her against her will, kidnapping her father, kidnapping her these are not light matters either. Why does Sanchi have to be kind to this person, if he cannot stand the heat he needs to get out of kitchen! He started the fight, she continues it, do not cry foul, when you are loosing Indu Singh - be a man and take it on the chin.
Lots of people are willing to justify Indu Singh's actions, since he is a rich and good looking guy, they are willing to overlook the fact that he is a goon, who is forcing himself on Sanchi. He does not have the right to bother Sanchi and all his redeemable qualities do not justify his actions against Sanchi. She uses everything in her power to protect herself and she has that right in a democratic country! He believes he is above the law, because he can buy the law! There are many goons like this in India and many other parts of the world. So even if it make belief I like to see him loosing and it frustrates me no end that people support him. I am convinced that if the character were not so rich and if he was just a simple goon without money he would not have so many supporters!

Nobody is supporting Indu singh s act.. infact we want him to lose elections and let sanchi take over . Then only he will realize his mistakes .
It is just that CV's has always kept his character in grey . They didnt let us hate the character nor love him completely.😭
Edited by rashsharma40 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ geetfan... I have NEVER justified Indu's actions...always supported Sanchi's actions (if you do find anyone else point fingers at Sanchi, I guess it's because she is the 'good' lead of the show and that comes with higher expectations than Indu, who is the 'bad' lead)
its about till what extent the CVs can justify Sanchi's actions... as I mentioned, it wouldn't have been a problem if she would have been portrayed like one of us... (ready to go against the law to get back at a person who's been making her life living hell) but they showed her as a moral figure.. one above us all...and that's where this doesnt seem to gel well...plus RJN professed to carry a social message and I don't think the message should be 'go against the law or whatever, but stand for yourself and get revenge'

INDIAN (movie) also had a social message... the hero killed anyone who took bribes, he dies in the end...😕

And as I again said a girl in her right mind would she could have tried other things like recording indu's dhamkis and handing over such evidence to the Superintendent of police (or even more powerful - the media) that would have kept Indu at bay ...false FIRs and false certificates does not suit an ideal girl like sanchi..

i am not against sanchi's intentions of giving it back to Indu... its about HOW she is giving it back to him...and this false certificate idea of a martial rape seems ridiculous...
Edited by lashy - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Lashy, I would agree with you but I can understand Saanchi viewpoint as well. The fact that Sanchi did not make any case against Indu when allegations were true n justified might be a result of patience on Sanchi's behalf. This all happened in initial period and she might hv thought that now Indu would have learnt a lesson.

But that was not the case, Indu broke all limits. And the fake suhagraat was the breaking point for Sanchi. One can tolerate only so much. There's a rule that if seedhi ungli se ghee an nikle then ungli tedhi karna jaroori hota hain.

I was expecting Sanchi to file a case of marital rape n would hv been surprised if she had not taken this step. Like they say all's fair in love n war. U can't stay clean in a dirty fight, and if CVs had maintained Sanchi as a pure soul that would hv been highly unrealistic and the impossibility of her holier than thou persona would hv been a discussion instead. 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Suvj

Lashy, I would agree with you but I can understand Saanchi viewpoint as well. The fact that Sanchi did not make any case against Indu when allegations were true n justified might be a result of patience on Sanchi's behalf. This all happened in initial period and she might hv thought that now Indu would have learnt a lesson.

But that was not the case, Indu broke all limits. And the fake suhagraat was the breaking point for Sanchi. One can tolerate only so much. There's a rule that if seedhi ungli se ghee an nikle then ungli tedhi karna jaroori hota hain.

I was expecting Sanchi to file a case of marital rape n would hv been surprised if she had not taken this step. Like they say all's fair in love n war. U can't stay clean in a dirty fight, and if CVs had maintained Sanchi as a pure soul that would hv been highly unrealistic and the impossibility of her holier than thou persona would hv been a discussion instead. 😊


tedi ungli was the fake suicide and her acting in front of Indu... and using him to get property papers etc... all that was tedi ungli.. the latest track is something else... i support the tedi ungli, but not this...

then say if a hypothetical A's family member was murdered by a gunda, do you support this A going out and murdering the gunda in revenge? 😕 I don't know yaar I guess I was always taught this was NOT right so I guess I'd never be able to accept this... and I'm surprised so many are vouching FOR sanchi to go ahead and do something like this (just as surprised as i was, when a handful of girls supported Indu against Sanchi sometime ago)
Edited by lashy - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: lashy

@ geetfan... I have NEVER justified Indu's actions...always supported Sanchi's actions (if you do find anyone else point fingers at Sanchi, I guess it's because she is the 'good' lead of the show and that comes with higher expectations than Indu, who is the 'bad' lead)

its about till what extent the CVs can justify Sanchi's actions... as I mentioned, it wouldn't have been a problem if she would have been portrayed like one of us... (ready to go against the law to get back at a person who's been making her life living hell) but they showed her as a moral figure.. one above us all...and that's where this doesnt seem to gel well...plus RJN professed to carry a social message and I don't think the message should be 'go against the law or whatever, but stand for yourself and get revenge'

INDIAN (movie) also had a social message... the hero killed anyone who took bribes, he dies in the end...😕

And as I again said a girl in her right mind would she could have tried other things like recording indu's dhamkis and handing over such evidence to the Superintendent of police (or even more powerful - the media) that would have kept Indu at bay ...false FIRs and false certificates does not suit an ideal girl like sanchi..

i am not against sanchi's intentions of giving it back to Indu... its about HOW she is giving it back to him...and this false certificate idea of a martial rape seems ridiculous...



Sanchi can do that, record Indu's dhamkis and send to higher authorities but will that hv any effect on Indu? He does not even care eat the VC thinks of him, not even a bit shy. Going higher up might make no effect on him cuz maybe he can close the matter his own style.

But the fear of going to jail and courts being sympathetic to women has put the fear of God in him. And I think Sanchi has not filed it in court, she has just shown her intention that she can n might file it. So nothing wrong of she's just using it as a trump card.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Completly agree with ur every word Lashy...😊

when the show was started..the concept was about a brave girl who has a courage and intelligence to solve every problem coming her way...but now..sanchi is not at all using her intelligence...rather than she is showing stupidity in her every plan...when she has the reason to go to police and file against indu she keeps quiet...and when Indu was not wrong and innocent (in sanchi's mother's suicide issue and marital rape issue)...she has done all this...for which she paid...and got married to indu (indu marrying sanchi forcefully after sanchi's fake drama...atleast for me was not all wrong)

Now again she is going in the same way...now sanchi's character has been down to a limit that...she is not trustworthy, loyal (she has used indu for getting house papers and then did a fake drama of her mother's suicide and sent indu to jail...for which a normal person to will react harshly..so indu is not only responsible for that forcefull marraige...atleast for me...sanchi has dig her pit for herself there). i hv just lost faith in sanchi's character...she is using immoral ways just to get into elections and fight against indu...i just Hope this time INDU wins. I'm not against sanchi..but the way she follows and her mind games were not soo meaningful and even wrong...so just can't suport her. According to law also sanchi can't do anything to indu...becoz in india marital rape is not a crime...but when indu is innocent in this case..i just want him to win this time...becoz..right from the starting sanchi has been playing games with indu and fooling him everytime...now just want indu to win.

No offence to any of ur views..its just my opinion
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramya3697

Completly agree with ur every word Lashy...😊

when the show was started..the concept was about a brave girl who has a courage and intelligence to solve every problem coming her way...but now..sanchi is not at all using her intelligence...rather than she is showing stupidity in her every plan...when she has the reason to go to police and file against indu she keeps quiet...and when Indu was not wrong and innocent (in sanchi's mother's suicide issue and marital rape issue)...she has done all this...for which she paid...and got married to indu (indu marrying sanchi forcefully after sanchi's fake drama...atleast for me was not all wrong)


Now again she is going in the same way...now sanchi's character has been down to a limit that...she is not trustworthy, loyal (she has used indu for getting house papers and then did a fake drama of her mother's suicide and sent indu to jail...for which a normal person to will react harshly..so indu is not only responsible for that forcefull marraige...atleast for me...sanchi has dig her pit for herself there). i hv just lost faith in sanchi's character...she is using immoral ways just to get into elections and fight against indu...i just Hope this time INDU wins. I'm not against sanchi..but the way she follows and her mind games were not soo meaningful and even wrong...so just can't suport her. According to law also sanchi can't do anything to indu...becoz in india marital rape is not a crime...but when indu is innocent in this case..i just want him to win this time...becoz..right from the starting sanchi has been playing games with indu and fooling him everytime...now just want indu to win.

No offence to any of ur views..its just my opinion

Wow... Love u ramya
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramya3697

According to law also sanchi can't do anything to indu...becoz in india marital rape is not a crime...

Wasn't referring to your other points dear...but in India also marital rape is a crime, just like domestic abuse is... and the perpetrator can be jailed (with proper proceedings and proof).. its a different issue that in a male chauvinistic society like India, only a small percentage ever gets reported

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