Supporting sanchi not her ideas----- - Page 2

Originally posted by: Namita.Murti

Rashmi, when is the day going to come when he picks Sanchi up gently in his arms? :(
I really wanna see how Sanchi will love!

O my God, you have actually dedicated the whole thread to me, thanks for that, I Have written few more points to support my post in other thread, i'm posting the same thing here.

Not having read all the opinions, I will still stick my neck out and say this. I like how the serial is being handled. Of course Indu is acting according to his character and I think Sanchi is also doing the same. Her character or at least what I understand of her character is that she cannot be stopped. She follows what she believes is right not what is popular opinion.We still seem to have archaic views on the equality. The fact that she is legally married is the problem, when she divorces him, she is considered to be a divorcee, regardless of whether the marriage was consummated or not... He has made her life hell - so what is wrong with giving him hell?

Any guy can decide he likes a girl and the girl has to accept and marry him or run out of town? I love how she gives it to him! So he makes it sound like they consummated the marriage so what? Why is that a mark against her? This is an age old problem where guys have ruined the reputation of girls without the girls doing anything. This is not a problem in India alone it happens everywhere. For once there is a character who stands up to the goon... I love it.

The more astonishing thing here is that the character Indu Singh thinks the University is his personal property that he can convert that into a bedroom for his convenience? Why are people not surprised by that? Is it any wonder that politicians, their kids/relatives and friends behave the way they do? This show is allowing every young person in India to think that they can and must try to stand up to the system. The largest part of the Indian population is young - between 19-40. If we don't change our views on what is right and wrong with the society, the society will never change, since we happen to be the society and we propagate our views. People like Anna Hazare fasting will be of no use if we continue to force ourselves, and other women into this expected norm . Only when people learn to stand up to goons and their stupidity can we progress. I love the way the show is moving forward. It is one up-manship all the way. Go Sanchi! I hope you used your phone and recorded what he said in the night about not doing anything, but making it sound like he did!

I love AD's acting and he is definitely eye candy... but the character he is playing is a goon, and until she brings him to his knees, I think there should be no romance.
No one wants a bashan, I agree, but I also do not like to hear someone tell me this is how a girl must behave!

@geetfan First of all let me clear,Iam not telling any girl how to behave in such situations but yes IAm bound to give some advice bcoz iam going through a similar situation...

A girl who is living in India KNOWS this thing that no one is going to help her in her crisis.
Here when a rape case is registered or a girl is molested our POLICE COMMISSIONER SAYS-------------Its Girl's fault to wear such revealing clothes and then going out late at night to clubs,discotheques,and bars.

Thats why IAm saying that our police and government is of no use and we are completely helpless in such situations...
Thats why we girls have to help and stand for each other...

Originally posted by: seriallover_OMG

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A girl who is living in India KNOWS this thing that no one is going to help her in her crisis.
Here when a rape case is registered or a girl is molested our POLICE COMMISSIONER SAYS-------------Its Girl's fault to wear such revealing clothes and then going out late at night to clubs,discotheques,and bars.
Thats why we girls have to help and stand for each other...

I know and I agree that is what happens in India, but at some point everyone has to say enough is enough! At least on TV if not real life we need to make sure that a NO is honored!
Not that you are asking but if you are in the same situation say "NO" and move on. Let everyone you know that you said "NO" especially your near and dear. A NO is a NO period! Take care!

Sakhi awesome post.. mmuuaah... agree with you..

Originally posted by: Namita.Murti

Rashmi, when is the day going to come when he picks Sanchi up gently in his arms? :(
I really wanna see how Sanchi will love!

@fragrance

Crime ---How do u define crime?
Crime is something illegal being done by a human...can be major or minor

Right!!!!!!!

Here! our indu has defined it like this------Crime is something that a girl commits by standing against a guy...

We know what crime is but indu doesnt...He has his own definition of crime and yes it is reality...

Now if u wish to stand against a guy in such situation then there can be deadly consequences and be real girl-Serial is showing us that how sanchi stood against indu and how is she facing all the difficulties thereafter.Police,justice everyone is at indu's side...

Everything is fair in love in love and war but that everything should be practical enough to implement against a guy like indu.

Sanchi is allowed to play tricks but those tricks should be more safe and carefully played...This is all what I want to say...

Why to play with fire and then say"I was just testing if this fire is good enough to burn my hands"And this applies to everyone human being not only girls.

Time for a reality check Dear!

ITS NOT EASY for a girl to face a GOON and we are avoiding them not because we are scared,we are avoiding them bcoz we are scared for everyone around us...We dont want anyone to get hurt or embarrassed bcoz of us.Thats why we avoid these bad elements.

And if IAm not wrong,,,the setup is of U.P and let me tell u U.P is one of the most politically influenced states in india...

Highest crime rate,highest rape cases,Highest murder rate...U.p is everywhere
My Pa usually say this to me which I want to share"ladki kabhi bhi U.P ya rajasthan me mat dena and agar ladki lani ho to sirf U.P ya rajasthan se."

Means"never give ur daughter in U.P or rajasthan,but indeed get a daughter-in-law from there."

now ur query:-----
WE ARE NOT SUPPORTING THE WAY SANCHI EXECUTE HER PLANS DEAR...her ideas are supercool and yes she has rights to stand against anyone she wants to but there is a limit...
When a person is threatening someone,,that person is responsible for his life only but when that person is becoming a danger for each and every family member then ultimately we have to surrender,,,,,RIGHT
Be practical and think about it...Supporting her but not the way she is implementing her plans..
Indu is becoming a big danger for every person sanchi is close to.
For ex-Indu hit mehek yesterday saying that if she will come in between then they will kidnap mehek too.So,sanchi has to think of something REALLY SOLID to get rid of indu and gang...

See Indu has nothing to loose,he cares for no one but sanchi has got her everything at stake..her family,her pride,her happiness,her career,and most importantly her life...
Sanchi cant kidnap indu,sanchi cant hit indu's friends,sanchi cant misbehave with indu's family members,,,,Then what can she do?
She can use her brains,think of a good plan and then execute it.
If she wants to live peacefully,she has to get rid of him,by fighting him every now and then will lead to a disastrous result.

If u got my point then its fine bcoz I know what sanchi is feeling right now...

P.S---I repect everyone's opinions and I wish others to respect my opinion too and Plz think about it...
BE PRACTICAL!!!!!
And dont be sorry fragrance dear ,,,,,I know ur right but what to do?WE ARE COMPELLED TO AVOID NOT TO FIGHT...Neither do we have a right here nor we are given a choice...

SAKHI- totally right...👍🏼 agree with you completely... you got to think practically..

@ SAKHI

Thanks a lot darling!!!!!! muahhh

I really wish u were here with me...

I will take care