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dolly

@tiny15

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Posted: 7 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: ANNA90ALEX

Okay i accept that she is not doing it to get even with Satrupa. But would she do the same thing if she had the same upbringing like Vatsalya at Lalmahal. I mean if she born and brought up there with vatsalya..?? No.. she would never do it. She would first think about her mom. Her feelings to taken care of. Here in this case, she has no mom - daughter feelings towards Satrupa and that made it easy for her to bring other women to a place where her mom resides. If Vatsalya and Anami shared the same womb and both of them are very similar in thought process, dont you think that Vatsalya would have done something to get justice for Narottam and Sudha..??

vatsalaya hasn't given any rite 2 narottam nor he cud'd given.he has difft in approach 2wards difft situn while anami is raised difftly so she reacts & thinks difftly abt situtn.

and here u din't ask wat if she was brought up in LM or not.u said that she did it 2 get even wid satrupa.i just said that she din't do that 2 get even wid starupa. she did that bcoz she felt sudha was wronged.

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nikki.171

@nikki.171

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Posted: 7 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: ANNA90ALEX

But what the irritating thing is that, even though you mentioned that she is naive and all, but she is not ready to accept even if it is a mistake. She is like what ever satrupa said, she wont even hear it before she reject it. All that she is doing is just because Satrupa is her mom. She is just overconfident about everything. Adhiraj warned her about Narottam but what she did. Insulted him. He tried to make her undestand about that good for nothing narottam(i wonder when sudha will use him as a scapegoat). So she has got enough warnings about Narottam. And Vatsalya also mentioned that some thing is not right about Narottam. Even dadi warned her. But inspite of all these warnings she went ahead a brought Sudha home. That just shows her arrogance not her innocence or naivety. Being in the same place with her husband's mistress is the worst kind of punishment a women can have in her life. And all those teachings from panditayin and shrad pandit did nothing to her arrogance. Being confident is good. but overconfident is not. She is like she knows everything. Giving gyan to every single person. But thats just stupid. because a person is not doing anything wrong by accepting his/her mistakes or taking advice from others.
She doesnt have to consider Satrupa as her mom. Keep aside that fact and just think it from a women's point of view, she is just commiting a big mistake by doing that. She always says she is just a guest at lal mahal for one year so does she have any right to bring another person to there.??? Moreover Dadi did mentioned that Sudha and her brother framed Baldev and Anami didnt even questioned about it to sudha. She should have gathered enough proof before doing this. She just knows one side story.

Btw Now i really wonder if Narottam is really Baldev's son..??

Nono see. I feel she is NOT naive but she is young and has taken Narottam at the value he has shown her. I do not agree with what Anami is doing either and it is frustating that despite literally all the people warning her against Sudha-Narottam, she continues to support them. I would say she had this slight inkling of something being wrong the day she confronted Narottam about his nightly outings and the sporadic signs of his rough side. But he covered up his tracks pretty well and gave a very believable story. It did bother me that she fell for it so easily but she is Anami. When something shows signs of being wronged, everything else becomes secondary. Remember when the show first started. Narottam was shown to be on the receiving end of the ill treatment from the people in LM and has effeminate behavior. Keeping aside his reasons to be the villian, it did look like he was a victim. Anami is in the same poisition right now.

However, like a lot of people have mentioned it in the forum, what she thinks she will achieve by bringing Sudha to LM is beyond me too.

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savebookworm

@savebookworm

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Posted: 7 years ago

#13

Anami behaves like she knows everything and she is always right.She doesn't even realise that it is insulting to her adoptive mother to call herl pagli panditayin.If she has any decency she won't insult Satrupa before everyone.Pujans family is having a good laugh over all this

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zooni

@zooni.blue

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Posted: 7 years ago

#14

Anami hasn't done this out of hate for satrupa but she shud have thought what impact it will have on her mom...

But Sudha was going to commit suicide so I don't think anami had much time to process information... This is all very well planned by sudha

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gaushiv13

@gaushiv13

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: savebookworm
Anami behaves like she knows everything and she is always right.She doesn't even realise that it is insulting to her adoptive mother to call herl pagli panditayin.If she has any decency she won't insult Satrupa before everyone.Pujans family is having a good laugh over all this

Exactly my thought I am never satisfied with her answer why she call her PAGLI PANDITAYIN or shradh pandit
And as shown in first episode PAGLI PANDITAYIN herself asked her to not call her by this
Then why can't she call her by what she want
That's why I have never pitied with anami
She has always got everything easily be it in Banaras now even in LAL Mahal
What shudha has did with norottam and LAL Mahal even or what his brother has to face she has not faced even a single percent
I find her character similar to sanjh of behyadh who always want everything and crib for what is not with her in the process she is ok with someone getting killed or anything

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Komal

@teribts7

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Posted: 7 years ago

#16

In my opinion, Anami has only heard one side of the story which Nattoram and Sudha have manipulated her to ensure that Sudha gets an entry in LM. She feels bad that the entire Singh family have accepted Nattoram and the way they treat him badly. Anami doesn't know that the mother-son duo is playing games with her.

I believe Anami had no intention to hurt Satrupa or the entire family however she should have asked permission instead of her always assuming she is right. Anami doesn't know the history of what actually happened Baldev could have cheated on Satrupa since they had two twin boys before that flashback was shown.

That slap in tomorrows episode is totally justified as Anami always gets away with being a brat. Anami bringing her fathers ex-flame is totally wrong to bring Sudha to stay with Satrupa and Baldev. What she did is totally unforgivable since she's trying to break her own parents up with this so-called "haq". But, her intentions were never wrong she just went the wrong way of helping Sudha. What hacks me off when she asked her mother aap kaun hoti tum (something along those lines) im assuming she believes her own mother is the homewreaker and the other woman. Goes to show her foster parents upbringing. Anami is in the middle of puberty where teens will act like this 😆

Edited by _KOMAL - 7 years ago

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dey.bh

@dey.bh

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Posted: 7 years ago

#17

Anami is one annoying bratty teenager and nothing more than that.

Of course she really wanted to help Narottam and Sudha but she would have thought twice if she had any love or respect for her biological mother or other members of LM. She did it because she doesn't care about them. So lets face it. She is jut another hypocrite in this family of hypocrites.

I felt so sorry not for Satrupa or Baldev. Not for Narottam and Sudha and not even for Vikram and Gayatri. I felt bad for Murari pathak. He is such a genuine humam being who respectfullu welcomed Satrupa despite of knowing she was Anamis real mother. He gave her the option to talk to her daughter, to tell her side of the story. Anami just killed his upbringing in one go.

At the end of the day she is 17 and its not her duty to resolve marital affairs of her parents. Common, we dont allow that in our lives, why accept this becauae it comes from the female lead of a show?. I understand Sudha manipulated her by faking her suicide but what was the basis of her promise to Sudha? Whom did she consult there after? None. She could have said I will do whatever I can do about it.

The LM which she promised to Sudha doesnt belong to her by her own logic and then she asks her mother with audacity ," Aap hoti kaun hai"

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kavmuks

@kavmuks

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 7 years ago

#18

Her I-Know-It-All attitude is her biggest negative. She is not humble .. and not willing to take advice and also she si not as sharp as she is portrayed at times.. I would have liked to see here as sharp person who can really judge right and wrong of people and deduce from clues .. .

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manali roy

@Jhinka_Roy

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Posted: 7 years ago

#19

When we are asked questions about making ethical or moral decisions, our answers on paper can be very idealistic bordering on utopia. And unless someone is very cynical from an early age, most of us believe what we say about what we would have done. Anami is at that stage. 😊

But with age, we realize that our decisions are often made not only for own own benefit, but also for own family- because such decisions impact every one. What Anami decided to do in the spur of the moment (to stop Sudha from jumping), she believed that way Sudha will get justice. Anami has to realize now that such a decision cannot be made that promptly. Her actions too will have repercussions, just like Satrupa's did. 😔

Though as a viewer I'm not exactly thrilled about having to watch more scenes involving Sudha's part-normal, part-mad, part-sinister behaviour inside LM, her entry scene was visually gorgeous! But the moment she opened her mouth, I was desperately waiting for any other character to speak. 🤢

The only plus point of bringing Sudha inside LM is now this story can start the next chapter. Sudha's monologues and Anami's asylum visits have been dragged long enough. 🥱

Edited by Jhinka_Roy - 7 years ago

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manali roy

@Jhinka_Roy

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Posted: 7 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: dey.bh
He gave her the option to talk to her daughter, to tell her side of the story. Anami just killed his upbringing in one go.

I thought even Anami had given Satrupa a chance to defend herself in the beginning? 😲 Satrupa didn't give any acceptable excuse, and forced her to come in LM by threatening to frame her adoptive parents for kidnapping and to send them to jail. Satrupa never gave any reason not to believe Narottam or Sudha, she just ordered Anami to avoid them, why Anami has to follow her orders without any explanation given?
Even after all these, Satrupa definitely did not deserve this humiliation and the slap Anami received was rightly deserved. Still, Anami needs answers which the LM wasis are not exactly enthusiastic to give.

Originally posted by: dey.bh
At the end of the day she is 17 and its not her duty to resolve marital affairs of her parents. Common, we dont allow that in our lives, why accept this becauae it comes from the female lead of a show?.

There have been incidents, even reported by media, where the child/children has/have opposed or criticized the decision of the older widowed/divorced parents' decision to marry some other person- to the point of harassing them though it is within the parents' rights to do so. But here her biological parents are married, and what Anami did is nothing but compete audacity. 🤢

No one is really accepting her deed, far from praising it. But no one has given her the full picture either, what she knows to be the full picture is a half truth-ridden account but she does not know that. I do not want a humble or silently suffering all-perfect female lead (seen too many of them in the past), but a lead character that has the courage to own up the mistakes and clean up the self-made mess will be better. Which Anami has yet to become.

Originally posted by: dey.bh
The LM which she promised to Sudha doesnt belong to her by her own logic and then she asks her mother with audacity ," Aap hoti kaun hai"

That was said in sheer bad taste. Did not expect that from Anami. Which is why I agree the slap was rightly deserved.

Edited by Jhinka_Roy - 7 years ago