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Posted: 7 years ago
#21
Just want to put my words here though joining you now...
I think Anami talks more than her age, then again how can she decides herself to to take Sudah directly to LM.
She keeps saying that "It is a promise" but does she herself understand completely all the meaning of her words she pronounces. I think anami is a girl who does not think twice before talking she should have as she talks lots of heavy words.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: dey.bh

Anami is one annoying bratty teenager and nothing more than that.

Of course she really wanted to help Narottam and Sudha but she would have thought twice if she had any love or respect for her biological mother or other members of LM. She did it because she doesn't care about them. So lets face it. She is jut another hypocrite in this family of hypocrites.

I felt so sorry not for Satrupa or Baldev. Not for Narottam and Sudha and not even for Vikram and Gayatri. I felt bad for Murari pathak. He is such a genuine humam being who respectfullu welcomed Satrupa despite of knowing she was Anamis real mother. He gave her the option to talk to her daughter, to tell her side of the story. Anami just killed his upbringing in one go.


At the end of the day she is 17 and its not her duty to resolve marital affairs of her parents. Common, we dont allow that in our lives, why accept this becauae it comes from the female lead of a show?. I understand Sudha manipulated her by faking her suicide but what was the basis of her promise to Sudha? Whom did she consult there after? None. She could have said I will do whatever I can do about it.

The LM which she promised to Sudha doesnt belong to her by her own logic and then she asks her mother with audacity ," Aap hoti kaun hai"

AGREE!!! Completely with you I said the same in few words why she's resolving marital affair or extramarital at 17 what does she really understand of life...She's at a young age and needs to enjoy life but she acts as if she's controlling LM.
I think they shouldn't have shown her as a 17 yrs old girl but as a 25th because her action is really unacceptable.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#23
Chiming in here, I found anami's behaviour abhorrent and reprehensible. Period!
I am no fan of her blah blah I am this, I am that, pagli panditayan and aap Hoti kaun character..

That she is a hypocrite is proven beyond doubt when there was all the halla for laddu to get into English medium school but when it came to herself she gave a lecture on the merits of knowledge sans medium of instruction. Humbug!

Ok ok I get it that Madame has been wronged and that her mother abandoned her which makes her worthy of sympathy and that all her actions are coloured by that. But hey wait! All Lal mahalites did admit that they had no clue of her existence.. it was all the mother's doing.. then why this hatred directed against all of Lal Mahal, well except dadi.. Anami knows that Baldev had no clue of her existence. While we all debate about Baldev's indifference to her, I haven't seen Anami make any effort to know her biological dad.. she knows he wasn't at fault.. then why

Finally, muddhe pe aate Hain
This whole Sudha kaand was audacious! Forget getting her justice, which is to be fair, fair but getting her to Lal Mahal where her parents are present and inflicting that kinda wound on her mother, howsoever she is, is completely unacceptable!
Does she know the full truth?! Two drops of tears and anami is in their clutches! Foolish foolish behaviour.. by this logic, why is Anami not sympathetic to Pujan. Coz I distinctly remember vatsalya s diary entry which gave a perspective on Pujan too and why he is like that.
But Pujan counters her na, so how can Anami be kind to him

My reading is, in short, anyone who sucks up to her or acts victimised and let her have the decision making hand, Anami is willing to be their savior. But nah, god forbid, if anyone stands to question her beliefs or opinions, she is gonna be on the other side!

Ok enough of my rant!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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@ Jhinka No, she didn't give her a chance in the beginning. As a matter of fact, she had been very clear that some woman had abandoned her even when her lineage was unknown to everyone including her foster parents. I dont know why she always knew it was her mother and not her father who has abandoned her. She had asked if Satrupa would come to take her home if Vatsalta, the heir was alive. Satrupa could not answer that.
However, Anami did give a chance later during that jug scene. Satrupa missed that moment. I agree she should give her a proper explanation. Yet that doesn't explain why she should have done this. Also, she didn't really ask anyone about N atottam except dadi. She didnt get the details from LM people and absolutely relied upon Sudha and Narottam to make tht decision.

Its not Satrupa alone but both Gayatri and Adhiraj had also warned her against Narottam. She conveniently misses those points that goes against her pre conceived notions.I would say even Anami ia not enthusiastic about knowing anything. When people here are calling Sudha kaal and dimak she doesnt ask them anything. She didn't have any questions. I think she never introspects at all.For example, why is a 20 year old not living with his mother or has no plans whatsoever to do it in future? Did she try ask him if he would like to live with his mother away from LM ? Why was Satrupa Vatsalya's best mother? What history of Narottam was satrupa referring to ? She should have the questions first to expect people to answer her. I dont know why we should expect LM people to discuss Baldev's extra marital affairs with her in detail and if they dont she should go ahead with her ridiculous plans .







Edited by dey.bh - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Here everyone is saying that Anami is immature and Naive and she doesn't know the full story. But i doubt even if someone tell her the whole story, she will not listen it. I distinctly remeber how Adhiraj warned her about Narottam but what she did. She insulted him. Even dadi tried to make her undestand. Okay even if she finds something fishy about what dadi said, she should have got some proper proof like who is right or who is wrong. But she didnt acted upon in it. Instead went ahead and brought her home when she promised herself that she is doing 1 year Vanvaas at LM. This girl is a brat no doubt in that.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ANNA90ALEX

Here everyone is saying that Anami is immature and Naive and she doesn't know the full story. But i doubt even if someone tell her the whole story, she will not listen it. I distinctly remeber how Adhiraj warned her about Narottam but what she did. She insulted him. Even dadi tried to make her undestand. Okay even if she finds something fishy about what dadi said, she should have got some proper proof like who is right or who is wrong. But she didnt acted upon in it. Instead went ahead and brought her home when she promised herself that she is doing 1 year Vanvaas at LM. This girl is a brat no doubt in that.

Sudha was trying to commit suicide. What else could she do? Not help and let her die? Yes, she is very spontaneous, and may not possess Vatsalya's calm, but nobody is perfect. Yes, it is upsetting of how Satrupa has to live with her own sautan, because of her own daughter, but Anami is not doing this to irritate Satrupa, she just feels that she is doing the right. And as for Adhiraj warning Anami about Narottam, we should not forget about how Adhiraj to sympathised with Narottam's condition and let him loose, after coming to know about the counselling thing(though it was a lie).
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Anami is not doing wrong intentionally..she is just standing up for what she feels right...everyone is blaming Anami like how can she take action just by hearing one side of the story..but she wanted to know the other side of the story as well n asked her dadi.If only Gayatri had given a clear picture she wouldn't have taken this drastic step..see on one side you are getting feeded by the painful story of a mother-son and the opposite team has no defense to the victims accusation n they are just trying to shun ur questions then probably we will tend to believe the victim story na..?and esp a teen like Anami...so I would say both Gayatri n Satrupa could have avoided it since they already knew Narottam is pulling Anami towards him.
N whatever she did was on the spur of the moment.. she didn't had the time to think.. her Brother cum friend's mother(who according to her is an innocent victim) was trying to commit suicide N what was she supposed to do.. let her die?..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: reema.ghosh

Sudha was trying to commit suicide. What else could she do? Not help and let her die? Yes, she is very spontaneous, and may not possess Vatsalya's calm, but nobody is perfect. Yes, it is upsetting of how Satrupa has to live with her own sautan, because of her own daughter, but Anami is not doing this to irritate Satrupa, she just feels that she is doing the right. And as for Adhiraj warning Anami about Narottam, we should not forget about how Adhiraj to sympathised with Narottam's condition and let him loose, after coming to know about the counselling thing(though it was a lie).


But Anami had already promised Sudha before this to bring her to Lal Mahal. Why promise something when she doesnt know the whole story? Why meddle in a family's affair when she doesnt even consider them her own family? Before today, Anami's all outbursts were understandable, whatever she did was justified. She crossed limits today. Bringing Saut of a woman in her house is just vile.

As for Adhiraj, he did not believe Narottam fully, he just didnt have an answer then, We know that now he knows Sudha/Naro are using Anami.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ANNA90ALEX

For someone who is overconfident about everything and knowing people by just looking over their face.. and all those irritating self praises from Anami just gone to waste.


^ This!!!! 👏👏👏
Edited by emmaringo2 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
#30
Little Knowledge is a dangerous thing...It perfectly fits Anami...She is ignorant, inexperienced, immature and yet has the gall to claim she knows it all. I think Madhu and Murari having raised her since she was a child could keep her foolishness and stupidity in control and could guide her well. Anami, the one we liked who was mature for her years, was confidant but compassionate yet grounded, Madhu and Murari were the ones who helped her be that way, to be that very best of what she could be. Without them, she has completely embraced the annoying, foolish traits of her personality and considers them her strength. She is not rising high up above, she is in free fall. I can't wait when she finally hits the ground and realizes the extent of her hurtful actions. The final nail in the coffin will be Vatsalya. I hope she figures out how much Sudha rejoices in her dear elder brother's death. Then she'll realize that she didn't just cross the line but invited a ghoul in her home.

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