The hands you take and the hands you leave Part 63-Updated page 149 - Page 25

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Posted: 7 years ago
23/10/2017

What an episode. It completely belonged to Durga. Durga that destroys the evil, durga that destroys the ego and unites the family. Durga that carry the weight of a family's pride on her shoulders and walks on fire. Every form of Durga was dealt with today. I loved the way they showed Anami and Harry fight with the song of Durga as BGM. It was fire. It was simply fire. If the woman who dragged out Harry was fire. The woman who Maa Durga on her head had empathy in her eyes. I loved when Baldev and Satrupa together supported her and Vikku removed the obstacles in her path. Yes the family will together for her, when she takes their pride on herself. Her parents will unite for her. Her grandpa will remove the obstacle in her path once she steps on fire. Yes on their own they will do it. And how will it happen. When she hears the voice of those who needs help. First it was Poonam whom she protected. Then she turned to check on the man who had a thorn in his leg. She removed the thorn and it was then she saw Durga Maa falling. She will not allow the pride of LM to fall. She will not, she will hold it.

So Pujan has failed big time and Anami has made a big enemy in Kamini who feels insulted after what Satrupa said. I loved when Satrupa said, Poonam was wrong because what Anami did Poonam had to do. So she will also become a player now. The happiness of the family is in good swing. For once Satrupa and Anami are in agreement. But this whole funda will be disrupted once Sudha makes the entry.
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Posted: 7 years ago
No worries Simran. Even I was busy over weekend and actually didnt login to IF 😆😆. Yaa Tanya like their mother reflects something for Tanya for sure.
Today it is clear saving Poonam and standing up for her had brought the wrath of Kamini for Anami. So it will get complex, with the entry of Sudha completely muddled.

@visa do watch a very good episode
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Posted: 7 years ago
Absolute delight of an episode it was... but I am dreading this Sudha's entry in LM part & more so because Anami will be responsible for it *uff* so this happiness of Satrupa, Baldev and Anami getting Durga ma's idol is short lived 😭
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Posted: 7 years ago
What a brilliant and godly episode it was today ! Yep rightly said, Durga ma shone all way through !

Anami comes searching for her Poonam, and she finds the bracelet right outside. A token of apnapan given to her closest confidant and it lay there snatched from where it belong. I loved the way Mahima expresses that utter anguish and anger in her eyes, as she saw Poonam being flung carelessly onto the Snooker table. I hate to imagine what wd have imagines if she hadn't come on time. And he has the audacity to say sir "Touch" hi tho kiya tha ?! 😡 Isko choone ki kya, dekhne ki bhi aukaat nahin hai tum mein. Pardon the language. 😳

And I love , love the way she thrashed him right and forth. The subtle nod PooNami exchanged . Yep I created a ship name.😆
. That yes, go ahead I'll close the door - do the honours.

Satrupa won it with that dialogue. Yes 👏⭐️ - and Anami should be proud of her mother, a bit atleast.
Poonam, poor thing she is so naive and bholi, I wonder if she knew the true extent of her helplessness and trauma she would face to be truly shaken. Hence the fact, she was just crying and safe in Anami's arms. Poonam and Anami haaye in donon ko kisi ki nazar na lage ! ❤️

And can I just say, no matter how much we like Pujan and his co as villains - today was downright disappointing. I know it is expected from them, but no matter what Kamini today, was so disheartening. No bashing please.😳 I completely understand, they are villains - it's in their nature to be evil, whatsoever. But atleast she could've remained silent. For a moment, when she removed her hand from Harry's shoulder I thought good, that's how a woman should react. But baazi palat di usne. She supported him. If women themselves support men like him - and blame it on the victim, a girl like the former ; how should we expect men to support as advocate feminism (equal rights ) and respect woman ?

And truly, when all is seemingly lost - she will arise. When the evil rejoices temporarily, they will be unaware of the setback they are going to receive. Coz Anami will rise from the ashes - like a Phoenix. She took away the thorn and bore the pain from the blistering coal upon herself. She walked right across, and her loved ones were there to protect her. This shows right no matter what, half of them haven't even accepted her properly as of now - but she matters. And will, no matter what.

And of course, the Shakti Idol. It's like she wished for Devi to give her strength and the idol fell from it's platform - showing Anami , she has the strength to carry god's will. Nothing can harm her path. And even if she stutters, her family is right there beside her. I am so happy that I was right - and Baldev stepped forward today. The slight happiness and pride in Vikram's eyes was a sight to be seen. All the disapproval from him towards Anami, made today more victorious in all sense. 😉

I wonder ow the Sudha fiasco is going to turn out to be. Hopefully, we don't lose all the progress Anami made. Anami has to realise no matter what ; her mother is a strong woman. Like with poonam, she is very righteous. She has done mistakes, but would never mete out injustice, if in her will. If she dislikes Sudha and Narottam so much - it is not just b'coz they are the past. It is beyond that - something haunting. If it was just the 'ex' factor - they would have flung away Narottam too - Kisi ko bhi pata nahin chalta. They left you - for a reason; you are yet to find out.

The slap is necessary - now whether it will harden Anami like most teens or throw light on her matlabi mataji's genuine fear is another matter altogether. If you want justice, then search first. Do not jump the gun - you are not knowledgeable to do that right now. Abhi tho picture baaki hai mere dost. There is a reason why they keep a son, and not his mother. If you ask the thief, will he ever confess to stealing ?

If you ask the murderer, will he ever confess to killing ?

A victim and accused's POV differ a lot .They both do not see the wrong in their lights. But if you adjust the lights, sometimes the accused turns out the one to be chased. Tumne nahin dekha. Tum wahan the hi nahin. Dekha kaise ek pal mein Kamini ne andekhi palon ka isthamal kiya ? Is baar tho tum paida hi nahin te.

Our symbol of justice is not the scale for no reason. The black can be white or vice versa. Everything is grey. What matters is whether the grey tips towards the black or white. Which outweighs the other ?

Today was such an empowering episode in all ways possible !
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Posted: 7 years ago
Jai Mata Di!

What an episode! Like you said. Truly an episode for Durga Maa.

First Anami finding that bracelet. A stroke of good luck some may say, but I consider it a sign of true friendship. It was a small gift from Anami, but an important one. And like you said Ammu, the expressions were just the highlight of the episode. Anami immediately understands what's going on when she sees the bracelet carelessly disregarded like that. It isn't Poonam's doing. That much is evident. And the moment she opens the door and sees what's going on, the anguish on her face was deadly. It gave way to anger and then absolute rage. Even Avdhoot's friends knew that they were going to get killed if they waited around, so they ran. The background score, Jai Maa Kali, the anger, the rage, everything was on point. I also noticed Poonam's expressions. They went from despair to a relief to a despair with a proud look, almost as if reacting to what was happening to Harry was right. But the highlight of this scene was the way Anami looked at Poonam and she knew that she had to leave.

In contrast, Gayatri is busy praising Anami for being so sweet, caring, understanding, blah blah blah. It was a nice contrast because it represents 2 roops of Durga Maa. One is the all encompassing, loving, caring Durga Maa, but the other is her angry and rage-filled Kaali Maa. One moment she can be giving you a blessing, the next she can kill you for your immoral acts. And that's exactly what was highlighted here.

Like I mentioned above, this was an episode of expressions and one person to highlight here is Satrupa. The moment Harry lands on the ground and Satrupa sees Anami you can see this "not-again" disbelieving look on her face. She thinks Anami is just creating a scene, but the moment she hears what Anami has to say and then Harry accepting that "it-was-just-a-touch", her expression changes to one of pure anger. To top it off, when Kamini supports Harry and blames Poonam, her expression changes to one of utter loathing. But I loved how she confronted Kamini and agreed that it was Poonam's fault for not taking action herself. It was a nice slap on the face for both. Because Poonam also needs to understand (and through her every female) that she needs to take a step for herself. Anami may not always be there, even if she wants to be. Poonam needs to own up and take control in her hands. At the same time, Kamini got told off and put down in front of spectators. She was proven wrong, thus setting her image up for the rest of her life.

Ammu on your comment about what Kamini did being truly disheartening, I didn't expect any better from her. See Kamini is a character who wants power, money, and status at any cost. She's willing to use Tanya to bring Adhiraj under her control. She's willing to get Avdhoot married to Tanya for her gain and ruin Tanya's life. She's willing to see Anami die. She's the true bitch in the connotation of that word. Why wouldn't she support Harry? In her eyes Harry was just doing what any boy in his position would do. She's that typical mother of the rapist who would say that the girl was at fault and her son is innocent. Honestly I'm not disheartened. I expected this of her and I'm glad the CVs stayed true to her character even here. Though I must say another nice twist would have been if Kamini had slapped Harry in front of everyone and pretended that she couldn't believe Harry would do something like that and then taken revenge later. It is because of women like her though, that our society gives women a secondary class treatment even today. Women like her want male heirs, treat the male as god, and always blame the women for everything.

Moving back to the episode, the final scene was a feather in the hat of a brilliant episode. Pujan went to the extent of even using god for his means, but with Anami around nothing will ever happen to Durga Maa. The way she rose, like you said Ammu, it was like a phoenix rising out of ashes. When everyone thought Durga Maa was gone, she rose and proved them wrong. For the first time you saw Baldev and Vikram melting towards Anami. As Anami walked forward, Vikram watched her with this expression as if seeing the true Anami for the first time. And as she stepped on a burning coal and still didn't give up, he stepped forward to clear her path. Symbolically it represented that in the future Vikram would be the one to clear Anami's path to help her reach her goal more easily.

On the other side we have Baldev. The man who stayed away from his own daughter, treated her like crap, and considered her illegitimate, suddenly took the first step to help her carry Mata's idol. Not Satrupa. She came after Baldev. He came first. I saw symbolism in that as well. This is the same man who once was left in disbelief over having a daughter and I have long since maintained that when he finally came to her side he would be her strongest support. And today proved it. He took the first step to help her. Even before Satrupa or Vikram, he reached out and helped her carry the weight. Supported her and carried her forward. He'll be there beside her every step of the way and I look forward to seeing that in the future.

On the precap I would like to make one mention. When Vikram announces that Anami will get a chance as well and the most deserving will get the pagdi, the juxtaposition behind him was noteworthy. On Vikram's left was Pujan looking all sour, angry, and frustrated. On Vikram's right were Satrupa and Baldev. While Baldev was cut off in the frame, the little bit that you could see he did not appear angry. In fact he was almost neutral, which is nice to see because at least he's moved from the extreme hate to the middle. But Satrupa's expression of triumph and victory were beautiful to see. After fighting for Anami, she finally got a chance to prove that Anami is truly worthy of being heir.
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Posted: 7 years ago
There is the divine and the diabolic within it is a choice we make which to feed and which to suppress. The avatars or Roops even gods and goddesses assume is to destroy the monster and ensuring peace prevails.
The weak and helpless need protection at any cost. The way in which the Harry matter was dealt by all is an indication of the force they reign in and what they unleash.
The way Baldev exchange a look as the scene unfolds, the ease with which Anami makes Harry confess, the stance of KAMINEE protecting the wrongdoer and shifting the blame onto a helpless victim was realistic and perfect to the T.
Satrupa spoke of Anami being like her and we got a glimpse when she lashed out and Kamini had to drag Harry and leave. Pujans two faces emerged again saying the right thing in public and showing his evil side in private. He spoke of one move by Anami that will be enough to isolate her...seems to refer to bringing Sudha ,though he thinks the apshagun he had planned.
The charged, celebratory mood returns and the two girls are handling fire. By responding to the pain of the load bearer, by removing the hinderance she is witness to what is to be. She rises to the ovation and demonstrates her willingness to handle the responsibilities of carrying Shakthi on her head.
She prooves yet again that the power within will emerge and tower high.
Once the Chandi Roop is donned she is unstoppable. Be it in dessimating the wrong doer or ensuring that the divine is not dedicated.
It was symbolic that till the Harry matter only Gayathri was singing her praises . When crisis strikes the rest of the family rallies in.
Anami did not need validation that what she did was right from the past(her grandparents).The present...Satrupa raises her voice to condemn the act.

The Deepa Arthi...happens on the snooker table. She throws Harry to the ground,the toppling of power she averts is watchful of the needs and pains of others, does not hesitate to act. Pujans plans whether it is in taking her space by bringing in forces to follow his tunes or siding injustice or upholding tradition as he claimed are all thwarted.
It was the emergence of the power the responsibility the pride the compassion the ability to think and act in ensuring peace prevails, change is brought about inside Lal Mahal and out in public...


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Posted: 7 years ago
@Athene
Yes ! No matter how much harm she causes to herself and those around her, her loved ones will support her when she needs it the most. They may fear, perhaps lose hope or even stay away from her path - but if required will bear and encourage her path to victory, when SHE loses grip. Victory will be theirs. Yes, beautiful analysis of the precap !

Yes, it is indeed women like Kamini, totally encouraging the already soaked in masochism and patriarchal society . I know , it is expected from them but still. 😳

Can we just we had two tiny DevRupa moments as well ?
1) When Satrupa supported Kamini, he was surprised to say the least by the upturn of her ideals and nature - followed by the strength of raise in her voice as she vocalized that Poonam herself, in the first time should have slapped, right acros the face ; Baldev's subtle release of breath - as if, ok I mistook, this is indeed my wife.😆😉


2) When they were all dancing, bringing Durga ma's idol home, that moment when Satrupa was excited and in glee like a child, and was about to shout in up-roar when she noticed Baldev and turned sheepishly silent.😆 And continued the chants, in a lowered tone.😆 Baldev's hint of a smile and that I'm-not-affected-by it and This-is-usual was so hilarious. 😃

@Vidya Yes, word ! So true ! They didn't do anything - to restrict Harry, to punish him- just cast him aside. Lal Mahal is yet to realize, that the cruelty of the Lal Rang, comes from within. It has aided in creating the chakravyuh for itself. Against itself. Not for enemies. They have pushed themselves into a quicksand, which is reigning them further in. They failed to recognize their true own and the obvious evil, they left behind it's totem in unjust. Someone needs to clean up the mess and she can't do it alone. And the mess stems from the root.

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: ammu3

@Athene
Yes ! No matter how much harm she causes to herself and those around her, her loved ones will support her when she needs it the most. They may fear, perhaps lose hope or even stay away from her path - but if required will bear and encourage her path to victory, when SHE loses grip. Victory will be theirs. Yes, beautiful analysis of the precap !

Yes, it is indeed women like Kamini, totally encouraging the already soaked in masochism and patriarchal society . I know , it is expected from them but still. 😳

Can we just we had two tiny DevRupa moments as well ?
1) When Satrupa supported Kamini, he was surprised to say the least by the upturn of her ideals and nature - followed by the strength of raise in her voice as she vocalized that Poonam herself, in the first time should have slapped, right acros the face ; Baldev's subtle release of breath - as if, ok I mistook, this is indeed my wife.😆😉


2) When they were all dancing, bringing Durga ma's idol home, that moment when Satrupa was excited and in glee like a child, and was about to shout in up-roar when she noticed Baldev and turned sheepishly silent.😆 And continued the chants, in a lowered tone.😆 Baldev's hint of a smile and that I'm-not-affected-by it and This-is-usual was so hilarious. 😃

@Vidya Yes, word ! So true ! They didn't do anything - to restrict Harry, to punish him- just cast him aside. Lal Mahal is yet to realize, that the cruelty of the Lal Rang, comes from within. It has aided in creating the chakravyuh for itself. Against itself. Not for enemies. They have pushed themselves into a quicksand, which is reigning them further in. They failed to recognize their true own and the obvious evil, they left behind it's totem in unjust. Someone needs to clean up the mess and she can't do it alone. And the mess stems from the root.

your two devrupa moment are on point i even felt the same
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Posted: 7 years ago
@athene, ammu the worst curse of a woman is woman like Kamini only. The patriarchy survives because of women like her, who cannot condemn the bad done by a man. Yes Satrupa too preferred a son as per the norm. But we need to understand the difference. If her son had behaved the way Harry behaved Satrupa would have been Kali for him or would have disciplined him. But anyways it was not needed. Vatsalya was a disciplined boy, who respected his mom and that extended to all women. Women like Kamini doesnt teach their sons to respect them and use women as a property as they feel that is right.
Patriarchy, its double standard rules can be broken only by women themselves. Satrupa and Gayatri has taken a step and soon others will follow.

Yes I am also looking forward to Baldev-Anami. It will be a good relation.
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Posted: 7 years ago
Lovely discussion Ammu,Athene,Vidhya& Shruthi.

More than the character,story,twist etc I was bowled over by Mahima's acting yesterday.👏

Yesterday, Anami walked her talk of "great power coming with great responsibility" and her will power in fulfilling the responsibility she had assumed.
And she'll walk on burning coals ,carrying heavy load alone ,till her family come to aid. .

Yes, she antagonized Kamini then she also impressed Vikku, the key figure in power struggle by just being herself.

Kudos to the Cvs for skipping the cliche of the hero saving the day, I was very sure AR will emerge carrying the idol when the platform started raising again.
Was a good way to bring the Singhs together.

@Ammu- yes, it was nice to see the tiny interaction between DevRupa and i feel, like Vatsalya their daughter might bring them close again.

Agree with @Athene, Kamini was in character, a rich bitch. She has been sharpening her claws and I guess she might be more successful in her plans than her endearing husband.

Talking of hands, imo, Anami has taken the hands of Durga and soon her family will follow in her path of light and justice.
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