Why the Age Difference Is Not TOO Creepy..Right? - Page 2

Originally posted by: _SuMmEr_LoVe_

@Athene

I love how you described Adhiraj 😳 he really is the kind of guy I definitely would like to get married to one day. His husband material.

Adhiraj comes across as the kind of partner that would protect you fiercely, love you possessively and unconditionally but would never bind your wings. He'll watch you take flight and fly high with a endearing smile And with proud admiration in his eyes.

Originally posted by: _SuMmEr_LoVe_

The age gap between Anami and Adhiraj has never bothered me or has had me questioning it. I think its perfectly fine. Their 10 years apart, be deal.

I have to admit the makers have done a great job tackling this gap by characterizing AdhiRaj exactly the way you call him. Adhiraj comes across safe, subtle, playful, protector. His the kinda guy you can go clubbing with, great drunk but never have to worry about passes. Instead, his the guy that'll get you home safety. Hold your hair back while you vomit your guts out 😆

His not the macho bullsh*t type. By the way i love his physique, lean and tall ☺️ rugged looks. My kinda guy.

I have faith in the writers of this show (which is a first for me when it comes to Indian shows). I'd really like to see them start of as friends first. Create a strong bond of trust and understanding. There's no need to rush them.

BTW, Id like to see anyone try and pin Anami up a wall. She'd freaking kick them in the whooo haaa.

Originally posted by: Athene

Honestly I never really liked Ankit's acting to begin with (that's the guy playing Adhiraj), but over the past few days I've noticed that I can't actually find problems in him anymore. Yes he's wooden and doesn't seem to have any emotions, but it's not because the guy can't act, but because that's almost who Adhiraj is.

Like you said, he's someone you feel safe with, who you can trust, and who isn't really going to be all gung-ho and in your face about the fact that he's a cop and a ML. He's calm, understanding, honest, caring, and a full-out decent guy. He's not your typical male chauvinist ML or angry young man ML. Yeah he's got anger, but it's not taken out on people who don't deserve it. He takes it out on the right people.

I feel like Adhiraj has grown on me. Yes he's hot, but more than that he's the type of man I would love to get married to, to have a life with, and to grow old with. Because at the end of the day he's dependable, honest, caring, and understanding. He would know what I'm thinking or feeling before I even say it. He would hold me when I'm sad, but not in a creepy, feel-the-girl-up type of way. There's so much more he would do, but let's not go into the dream phase.

My problem isn't the age gap. That's fine. My problem is that Anami is shown as a teenager. It's been harped on again and again that she's 17. At that age you have crushes and crazy possessive type feelings. Not true, till-death-do-us-apart love. I know Anami is mature beyond her years, but still she's impulsive, childish, and rebellious like any teenager. This is not the time to show a love angle in her life. Maybe a crush, for sure a friendship, maybe even like a brother-sister relationship, but it just seems odd to see her falling in love. That's my big issue.

Originally posted by: Ayuzawa

@bold

you made me remember something very sweet.😆

as for the rest, I agree especially Anami not taking any guy pinning her to the wall. 🤣 i'd love to see someone try.🤣

Originally posted by: _SuMmEr_LoVe_

You probably remembered something almost similar to what I remembered while writing this down 😉

Please, let that someone be advhoot, pretty please 😆

Originally posted by: Ayuzawa

@bold.

this is exactly my problem too. I am not saying girls at 17 don't have romantic feelings but those feelings are pretty much hormonal and don't amount to much in the long run. I remember Mahima's previous show which my mom used to watch. there too she fell for a guy almost twice her age, her hockey coach to be precise but the relationship never saw a good end coz he gave up on her for his brother and then she did not marry either. later she grows up to be an independent working woman and marries her boss who she actually loves from the bottom of her heart.

there is also an arc where her first crush(the hockey coach) comes back but she has clearly got over her crush by then.

I just hope that if they bring love story in this show, they handle the feeling of a 17 year old maturely.