Didn't she understood it too early?

Diya is in love with Ratan. Nothing new is about it. But isn't quite unfamiliar than as usual? Falling in love is easy but understanding it very very hard. Look at Ratan ! either he is not in love or he doesn't understand. Or worst case, both.

Originally posted by: nancy505

Diya is in love with Ratan. Nothing new is about it. But isn't quite unfamiliar than as usual? Falling in love is easy but understanding it very very hard. Look at Ratan ! either he is not in love or he doesn't understand. Or worst case, both.

But why Diya is in love? Ratan is saying the same old thing again and again. "I am not perfect enough for you". And Diya repeating again and again, "I am in love with you, madly and deeply". But how she actually understood it? Why it was too easy for Diya?

P.S. Though it approves hindi serial's same old theory stuff but still I want to know what you all think.

Nancy, what a brilliant question!👏

i dont think he sees her as a goddess but he respects her .his problem is he is realising HE IS IN LOVE

a small correctin in my first line ..HIS PROBLEM IS HE IS NOT REALISING HE IS IN LOVE

Originally posted by: Doc.love

Nancy, what a brilliant question!👏

Pyar ko samajhne k liye kabhi tou aik lamha kafi hota hai, aur kabhi poori zindagy guzar jaty hai pyar ko samajhte samajhte... 😊

In Diya's case, it was simple and easily acceptable because she is generally a very intelligent, mature and flexible person. She accepts facts easily. The age she is in, uss mien waise bhi aisi confusions usually hoty hai nahi. Balki it is said that a woman in her 30s becomes actually very intelligent! 😎 Diya ko yeh shadi accept kerne mien bhi buht deir nahi lagy thy. She felt it, understood it and said it out. Koi shilly shallying nahi ki usne.

About Ratan, its difficult for him to understand his inner most feelings because of his age and him being a boy. Boys are usually less receptive and less perceptive in these matters. Unko waise bhi physical love ziada acchay se samajh aata hai naa ki this kind of actual wala love. ( I am talking generally. There are exceptions anyway) Besides our Ratan sa tou physical love ki bhi bass baatein hi kerte thay.. Kia karaya tou kuch hai nahi abh tak! 😕 But even that is because he respects Diya so much that he actually takes her as a sacred Goddess.. jiski pooja ki jaty hai, jis se pyar kiya jata hai... magher jisko buht dhiyaan se chhoote hain.. Devi ke sath Romantically involve nahi hote.. Lekin uss se buht ziada pyar ker sakte hain...So for him to shift from one kind of extreme love to the other kind of extreme love is very difficult.

Diya was born and brought up in India where most of the girl have arranged marriage and most of them have their husband as first love of their life...here diya was given a big responsibility of looking after ratan's empire at an age of 18 years which she managed very well but during these 12 years she never ever though about her personal life leave aside getting attracted or falling in love with a man...so when Dira got married forcefully Ratan was the first man to come in her life (had diya got married to Abhay she would have loved Abhay with same intensity because of her upbringing that "aapka pati hi aapka sab kuch hota hai"

Diya gave her best to make this marriage work by firstly accepting the fact that even if she is elder to ratan such unusual marriages do work and she has to make it work for which she tried to change herself as much as she could...so first step was she accepted with full heart that Ratan is her husband

when Ratan stood besides her in bad times she knew that her husband is the one who will stand by her in her thick and thin whereas Ratan has that mental blockage that Diya is elder to her.

Originally posted by: 111192

Diya was born and brought up in India where most of the girl have arranged marriage and most of them have their husband as first love of their life...here diya was given a big responsibility of looking after ratan's empire at an age of 18 years which she managed very well but during these 12 years she never ever though about her personal life leave aside getting attracted or falling in love with a man...so when Dira got married forcefully Ratan was the first man to come in her life (had diya got married to Abhay she would have loved Abhay with same intensity because of her upbringing that "aapka pati hi aapka sab kuch hota hai"

Diya gave her best to make this marriage work by firstly accepting the fact that even if she is elder to ratan such unusual marriages do work and she has to make it work for which she tried to change herself as much as she could...so first step was she accepted with full heart that Ratan is her husband

when Ratan stood besides her in bad times she knew that her husband is the one who will stand by her in her thick and thin whereas Ratan has that mental blockage that Diya is elder to her.

Originally posted by: 111192

Diya was born and brought up in India where most of the girl have arranged marriage and most of them have their husband as first love of their life...here diya was given a big responsibility of looking after ratan's empire at an age of 18 years which she managed very well but during these 12 years she never ever though about her personal life leave aside getting attracted or falling in love with a man...so when Dira got married forcefully Ratan was the first man to come in her life (had diya got married to Abhay she would have loved Abhay with same intensity because of her upbringing that "aapka pati hi aapka sab kuch hota hai"

Diya gave her best to make this marriage work by firstly accepting the fact that even if she is elder to ratan such unusual marriages do work and she has to make it work for which she tried to change herself as much as she could...so first step was she accepted with full heart that Ratan is her husband

when Ratan stood besides her in bad times she knew that her husband is the one who will stand by her in her thick and thin whereas Ratan has that mental blockage that Diya is elder to her.

Originally posted by: nancy505

Do you really think that Ratan thinks about that extent about her age?

Yes and i think he found a easy way out by saying main aapke laayak nahin hoon...when one person says this then the other person is left with no option🥱