Is rohan the right guy of Isha??

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Muna Mahmood

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Posted: 15 years ago

Although they both hv very easy manners towards each other, natural bonding , cute presence n everything v can ask for in a to-be couple , BUT do u guys think Rohan is right match for Esha? i mean with all his fliritngs n one night stand, Esha is not tht type of girl, she deserves someone better... isnt ?? ok put aside the show would u let a guy like ROhan to enter in ur life?? girls

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Anamika

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Posted: 15 years ago

Personally, I wouldn't want a guy like Rohan. He's very sweet but I don't think he's looking for anything but ahem-ahem in a relationship. But with Isha, it's different. The fact that he respects her and never really flirts with her and gives her space kinda indicates that he knows Isha's not that type of a girl. I think once he realized the emptiness in his life, he realize the importance of Isha, whether it is as a friend or maybe more than that. But the way he cares for (like today's episode he gave up his date to go with her) and talks to her (he tells her "I know you love me, just face it!" You have to be really good friends with someone and really know somebody to say things like that!) I think Rohan is perfect for Isha and he would never treat her badly. He does care for her.

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rrk401

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Posted: 15 years ago

i think he is the perfect man for her :)
cuz even if rohan is slepping around wih a bunch of girls, the only one he truly respects and has a remote possibility of getting committed to is isha :) he treats her differently and umm i think its ove he has nt realized as yet :)

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deviyani

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Posted: 15 years ago

ok firstly i didn't like rohan 's attitude of sleeping around with diffrent girls and thoght he is not right for esha but the posts above me made see positive aspect of rohan as in his behaviour towarda esha....

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kabeeraspeaking

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: .Anamika.
He's very sweet but I don't think he's looking for anything but ahem-ahem in a relationship.

I think there's a reason behind that. As we saw from the scene with Dhruv, their parents do not have a good relationship, and Rohan is found thinking why they just don't get a divorce. He's seen his parents fighting all the time, and so the 'most committed' of relationships around him was unsuccessful. He's grown up witnessing that, and it's the reason, IMO, that he himself has commitment problems, maybe with the subconscious or even conscious belief that serious relationships don't last, or that commitment only ties you down into something you don't want. He's very cynical about romantic relationships, as was obvious from a few other matchmaking scenes in this episode too, where Isha is trying to find just the perfect guy for Gunjan but Rohan tells her it's only prom, and that it's not as if they're going to be together forever. Even in the present day episodes, many times when the clients are having their happy reunions, he is totally unaffected and often rolling his eyes 😆

Later, we saw that he did get in a committed relationship with Avantika, but she left him stranded. If anything, it would've solidified his views on getting committed or serious about someone. So he looks only for a fling because he probably doesn't want to expose himself to the vulnerability that comes with genuinely liking someone and wanting something more than that, because he knows it'll only disappoint him in the end.

The other thing is that I think he has very low self-esteem, which was seen through the incident where he lets Sukrit go because he doesn't think he's worth it himself. Outwardly, it may seem like he is very secure with that display of bravado, but he doesn't even think well enough about himself to take a chance with a girl like Sukrit, who he really liked. So, put together the commitment phobia and low self-esteem, and I think you get the reason why Rohan isn't looking for anything in a relationship except just a good time.

These two factors of his personality could make for such a great track when he begins to develop feelings for Isha, because he definitely thinks she's much better than him and knows that she only has serious relationships.

Edited by make-believe - 15 years ago

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Pepperu

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Posted: 15 years ago

i agree with all dat has been said bout rohan n Isha and would like to add that usually the factor that bonds couples together first is comman morals. Rohan on the outward appears to be confident, secure and therefore a bit carefree bout life. However, inside like mentioned before, he is insecure but kind-hearted and craving for love. The reason i say he is craving for love is because he displaces that emptiness in his life with something that comforts him like one-nigh stands and focourse the insecurity for being dumped that would in-tern meddle with his elf-esteem and confidence, which he is popular for. Bascially, falling in love is a risk that he does not want to take is it will disclose aspects about him that he is insecure with or that may dwindle with the appearance he has successfully kept up for so many years. However, he lets his worse-side out to Isha once in a while as he notices she is unaffected by either of his appearances. This comforts him but the other insecuirty is realising his feelings for her that he merely evades it by maintaining close friendship. Anyways, back to my point. Under all these insecurities is a heart as pure is that of Isha's, which can empthasize with nerds in his school, cause him to help people bond in matrimony, a heart very much like Isha's! this basic common factor also sets the grounds for their friendship.
And it is because of his loving nature that he respects Isha for the principles and values she believes and so he never crosses the line as he respects her. Respect is an other key factor in forming a close relaitonship. And both of them hav it for one-another.

In the end, both are made for one another. the episode are going to get more intense, so its only a matter of time that they may disclose their love for one-another. i think that astrologer who has jus joined the company, will play a major role in the forthcoming episodes!

dats all for now :)
ciao
xxx

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Pari

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Posted: 15 years ago

i believe that rohan and esha are perfect together. im sure ever guy that sleeps arond woth many girls wouldnt want to hav a wife/get commited with such a girl. every guy would want a nice and well mannered girl to spend the life wid- and so goes for Rohan

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anitahass

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Posted: 15 years ago

I don't know, Rohan and Esha are two ends of a rope, they are two different individuals but they're tied up from a rope called long lasting friendship....

Edited by anitahass - 15 years ago

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Meera

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Posted: 15 years ago

Rohan and Isha in my mind I call em fire and ice 😛 Two things that are extremes from either side but only together can they calm down (it sounded a lot better in my head)

Alright so Rohan Mehra, cassanova, one night stand, charming, flirty, all of that is associated with him.

Isha Mirchandani, simple, sweet, practical.

Can they come together? Of course, opposites do attract. I have one really huge concern here though 😛 When you're SUCH close friends, and are partners in a business, would you really be willing to put all that in jeopardy in the off chance that the relation doesn't last? You'd lose the friendship firstly, and that would cause the business to be a lot more tense and awkward.

I'm honestly not thinking pessimistically, but I just feel that is a huge part of why Rohan and Isha aren't RoSha yet. The comfort level they share and the easy banter between them can't go to that next level, I don't think.

Rohan understands Isha perfectly, maybe the only person who truly does. And Isha knows each one of Rohan's 'moves' and so she's well prepared to face them, and you can tell that Isha holds a great importance in Rohan's life and that friends is something he values. It has reminded his constant throughout his life, and while he went from the various relationships, his friends all stayed constant, hopefully showing him that not every relationship in the world is doomed. A different side of Rohan Mehra is seen when he's with Isha and I think that is what truly shows his personality, that when he's in the club on the prowl for a new girl, he is a completely different person than he is when he knows Isha's hurting or in trouble or something like that.

You also asked if I'd want a guy like Rohan or if just I'd want someone like that in my life? Quite honestly, I don't think I could have someone like that in my life, only because I'm always plagued with insecurities and so I'd probably be insanely jealous whenever we went out with all the prettier girls staring at him and him flirting and all that *ahem*

(wow long ramble😆) sorry 😳

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AreYaar

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: indiandoll89
Rohan and Isha in my mind I call em fire and ice 😛 Two things that are extremes from either side but only together can they calm down (it sounded a lot better in my head)

Alright so Rohan Mehra, cassanova, one night stand, charming, flirty, all of that is associated with him.

Isha Mirchandani, simple, sweet, practical.

Can they come together? Of course, opposites do attract. I have one really huge concern here though 😛 When you're SUCH close friends, and are partners in a business, would you really be willing to put all that in jeopardy in the off chance that the relation doesn't last? You'd lose the friendship firstly, and that would cause the business to be a lot more tense and awkward.

I'm honestly not thinking pessimistically, but I just feel that is a huge part of why Rohan and Isha aren't RoSha yet. The comfort level they share and the easy banter between them can't go to that next level, I don't think.

@bold: Very valid point....but then isn't love about taking a leap of faith in some ways? If you don't even take that chance in life for fear of losing what you have currently, you might lose out on something bigger than you might realize..... Maybe I'm sounding like a naive romantic here....lol....For Rohan, Isha would never be one of his 'flings'....she means much more to him....like you said....we just see a different side of Rohan when he's around her....when he sees her hurt or upset....I adore the dynamic b/w these two....maybe it's not meant to be given an easy label....maybe it's more than friendship...maybe it's not...maybe it's love....who knows😆😆....maybe they'll just leave it vague in the last epi....but what these two have together is super adorable! After watching the flashback epi, I just feel more inclined towards wanting to see them together by the last epi😳😆.....

Edited by nureat01 - 15 years ago

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