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Anger, hardest of human emotion...one of most intense human behavior...a natural human emotion, a normal response to threats, attack, injustice and disappointment...generally anger is self destructive, its usually makes us irrational😳...& moments of anger turn out to be most regretful moments for an individual, its moments of anger which make individuals do their most irrational actions...which can prove disastrous for us...
Everyone experiences anger, and it can be healthy too if diverted in right direction...it can motivate us to stand up for ourselves and correct injustices...When we manage anger well, it prompts us to make positive changes in our lives and situations... In fact anger, in itself is a kind of positive energy and a powerful motivating force... anger can make us push on towards our goals in the face of problems and barriers...But when anger is too intense, out of control, misdirected, and overly aggressive... it can lead to poor decision making and create problems more problematic than already are...
That's what happened with Ananya, she was frustrated, angry & almost too emotional state of mind to be easily manipulated, too much happened for her back to back, she may not have been in a rational frame of mind, just one provocation, one instigation made her behave irrationally...it should have been Ananya's maturity to think about consequences, not to let Shreya's words effect her, RG's jibes at her father effect her...but she did let it effect,😕 which made every one else pay for it...be it Kabir or her mother...knowing that her mother is all alone it gave a chance to RG to come in easily in her house & threaten her...all the time Kabir had been occupied in bailing her out...it gave ample time to RG & Shreya to plan out their next moves...
It should have been Ananya's mental strength not to let anger overpower her spirit to bring justice to her father...in turn, she should have used that anger to fight back with more vengeance...she should have thought, going to jail & being there locked up will make matters worse instead of sorting out...
Its should have been Ananya using her anger as her strength, not allowing opponent to use it as her weakness... but guess her "Bad"
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I didn't tried to find any logic, neither tried to blame or support Ananya for her actions...sat down to watch this last week of Reporters with brains locked up in some unknown place...& made dimaag ke ghodes just drown in some deepest ocean...😆😆😆 as the only logic I can found in Ananya's actions & reactions just "Anger" nothing else...😆😆😆 but before Kabir bids adieu to me"I just have one simple question for Mr. Kabir Sharma...😛 Ananya ko toh answer nahi diya tha, "Why Me?" 😆😆😆 but I want to know "why her?" 😆😆😆
Jaane se, Pehle,
"please" do let me know what on earth you were thinking when you fell in love with Ananya😆😆😆...because this girl is a Trouble with capital T...🤣 & God bless you my hero, 😆 coz you gonna have a roller coaster future ahead with her...& be assured you will not get even a breathing space from sorting out mess she gonna continue creating...😆
Every passing moment I want to ask Kabir "itna serious panga kyun liya life mein"....your ex wife might be bi-polar, she might be a psycho, you might hate her..😆😆😆 .but atleast she is not hyper, she gives you enough time to act & react & most importantly give you time to think & speak.😆...Ananya gives you none 😆😆😆...atleast Shreya gives you chance to bat on a "no ball"...but Ananya makes you run out on every single run 😆Hugs to you Kabir
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On a serious note, this had been the first time I would definitely "not" like to support Ananya, as a GF, as a partner, as an ex fiance I had given up on her, long back... I am having no expectations whatsoever from Ananya in romantic perspective...😆😆😆
But now can't justify her actions as a daughter...I completely agree with her, that whatever RG said, no daughter can tolerate false accusations, or foul words about her deceased father...& its very obvious to just boil in rage when a daughter comes to know that her mother had been threatened...but still that doesn't justify Ananya's actions, RG raised a valid question "kya Ananya ko haq hai, kisi par bhi goli chala de" 😆😆😆 Irrespective of fact, Ananya was framed or manipulation game was played with her...or RG is a villain, Shreya is a bi-polar...everything doesn't change the fact that Ananya's action had been wrong,😕😕 pointing a gun to RG had been irrational... he might be a murderer, but the action is self destructive for her own self...
Even her action to rush back to RG in the middle of night in just a fit of anger...specifically when you just have come out on bail just seconds back...for once, I will also like to blame on Aunty ji too...😆😆😆 let the girl come inside, let her breathe, agreed you are mother of a senior reporter & to-be mother in law of editor in chief, but what was the need to give the "breaking news" at the door itself...😆😆😆 inspite of knowing Kabir is not around to control her 😆😆😆 ...O Kabir, Kabir! Where art thou Kabir?...
But I really hope against hopes Ananya does realize how difficult it had been for Kabir to get her out on bail...& she takes a moment to think about, what if, at this stage something happens to her what gonna happen to the whole story, her father's case & also to her family...
I am not asking her to be coward or be fearful weak character, a damsel in distress like daily soap actresses but still there is a difference b/w being "fearless" & "foolish"...being "Carefree" & "Careless"...there is a difference b/w fighting back with vengeance & Revenge...the strike back needs to be smart...our anger, our "zidd" can be self destructive & self defeating... but at same time it can work as our strength too...if use it for our advantage...😊
Getting angry at drop of hat can be accepted as a natural human behavior (even I do so, me too get angry easily too😆😆😆)...but its important for a person to use even self's anger to advantage...
Like Shreya had done it, I am not saying she is a good woman...but still Shreya knows how to use her anger, her aggression smartly so that eventually she benefits... 👏⭐️ When Kabir refused her & shunned her back...she didn't became self destructive...didn't do anything which will be a problem for herself... infact she diverted her anger & came up with this smart plan...& made the opponent suffer, she used her anger to destroy opponent...though she will get punished for her actions,😆😆😆 but for time being, she utilized her anger in smart way in planning & plotting...which is only aspect where I guess Shreya gets an upper hand from Ananya...😊😊😊 & that's the main reason why it was easy to provoke & instigate Ananya... 😊😊😊
Infact for RG that matter, he might have been angry on Kabir, for getting so close to exposing him, his plan of killing Ananya failed...but in his anger he didn't do anything foolish like harming Kabir directly or just killing him off like Sudhir...but he played the game through Ananya, threatened Mrs Kashyap...which will indirectly effect Kabir...its his revenge for that slap, its RG's answer to Kabir, who is attempting to stand up against him...😊😊😊
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I know Ananya is staying true to her character of being impulsive, & as a daughter she has full rights to be revengeful towards RG, my sympathies are with a daughter Ananya Kashyap 😊😊 ...but still, wonder if it was only me or others felt too, what surprised me was Ananya taking Kabir's efforts of helping her, bailing her out after so much hardwork "for granted"...Very frankly I was not expecting a Thank You from her, neither Kabir was expecting as he has this unconditional love .😆😆😆 no sorry-no thank you 😆😆😆..but atleast a small thankful look, fangirl wud have been appreciated.😔...
By now, she must have come to know how difficult it had been for Kabir to get bail for her, irrespective she was being framed or not but still her action was wrong...& for once, not a thought crossed her, that to deal with RG they will need a plan of action not spur of moment actions...
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Guess somewhere Ananya is just taking everything lightly, that no matter what mess she gets into, Kabir will be her knight in shining armour...he will be her "Hero" ...it has been something my Dad had pointed out, when Ananya was getting arrested...my Dad's first reaction was "Kabir bacha lega, he will get her out" 😆 ....it made me think that somewhere may be Ananya also, had same thought at her back of her mind...may be at subconscious level...though from her behavior she looked least regretful...that's something which really amuses me about Ananya, in all these 127 episodes there haven't been a single moment, where she has been regretful about any of her wrong action 😕 after doing something wrong, she never looks regretful of her actions or words...being extrovert or being fearless , living for the moment is completely different than being careless about future...🤔 there have been many instances -like during baaghi case she was all up to Madhonath "maar do hume, kahani khatam kar do"...or even when after the whole chip misplacing fiasco Kabir had commented "Kutty nahi aaya hota ...toh kya hota?" & Ananya's impulse reflex reaction was "zyada se zyada mar jati"... on many instances she ends up taking life & crisis situations too lightly, without thinking about consequences...I have never seen her dealing with situations with a plan of actions...irrespective she is caught unawares or not...
There is a huge difference in being fearless & irrational...even now she was fearless of going to jail & didn't regretted her actions, I have no issues with it, but before anything else she didn't thought about consequences...the time Kabir wasted in working on Ananya's case, getting her bail...leaving all work behind...same time cud have been utilized in planning something to expose RG ...but Ananya never thought of consequences before any of her action...that's something she will need to learn (wonder when she will)... 😆😆its too late now 😆
A humble request from fangirl, If you cant help Kabir, no problems,😊😊😃 ..but atleast dont create more problems than they already are ...already "bande ki lagi padi hai" ...already running an on air apology had been a backfoot for him..he has to deal with RG, Shreya singlehandedly my poor hero, in a mess all the time he has to control the heroine, usse fursat mile toh he will deal with the vamp & villain 😆
Mr. Sharma lag gayi aapki toh panga liya life mein, ab bhugto😵😆...ab "khuda bachaye aapko"...😛
To a certain extent I guess Kabir is just spoiling her...😆😆😆 no matter how he had been guilty of his own actions from past, of not helping Sudhir... I know Kabir doesn't have time "sirf Monday tak ka time hai humare paas"... but still, for once Kabir needs to just sit down with Ananya & make her realize the consequences, pros & cons of situations they are currently stuck up in...because I don't think she will have a self realization...for once Kabir will have to shoo away the lovesick puppy...& be her mentor to guide her, not just be protective or a shield for her...But he needs to be an "Anchor" for Ananya where he guides her...coz, as long as she will not learn herself Ananya never gonna learn anything...or any kind of maturity..."main hi manata rahunga" sounds good romantically Kabir, but don't make it a "habit" for her...😆😆😆 eventually it will become her weakness..."aadatein bigad rahe hai aap" 😛😆
Fangirl only relief that my Kabir didn't became self sacrificing hero ...jumping in middle, saying "goli maine chalayi thi" 😆😆😆taking whole blame on self wud have hated to see him in jail 😆
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As expected, gun was not loaded & I guess that's gonna be only thing that can go for Ananya's favour & may be one of the reasons she got bail easily...& its the biggest loop hole in perfect plan, may be RG should have taken the risk with a loaded gun, it was not necessary Ananya wud have got a perfect aim & killed him so easily 😆😆😆 may be goli bas chu kar nikal jati 😆 or bodyguard cud have jumped in to save him 😆😆😆
But must say RG & Shreya are batting perfectly well...they knew that breaking Kabir directly, will not be easy, as at this stage he fears nothing, not even death...So, Ananya became an easy pawn...Both knew as long as Ananya continues to be in trouble, it will keep Kabir occupied not to concentrate on Sudhir Kashyap's news story...or RG or Shreya individually...
Khalid seems working a step ahead & making coast clear & helpful for Kabir & he really deserves a Thank You for it...
Sunny paaji, great to see your Sunny deol avatar ...you are true friend of Ananya literally, dono ka gussa ek jaisa hai...
A special Thank You, to Mrs. Kashyap...thanks for being subtle, & didn't lashed out & blaming on Kabir...tumne yeh sab kaise hone diya, meri beti ko bachaya kyun nahi & going on with her long list of accusations 😆
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GoodLuck to my hero that he not only sorts this mess out "his jaan" has created...but also I can see a difficult future ahead for my Kabir...God Bless him...his life not gonna be easy...poor soul!!!
All the best!!!
Go for the kill Hero!!!
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Fangirl advice for my Kabir --after this whole Sudhir Kashyap & RG fiasco sorts out...do try to help Ananya & her temper issues, 😆😆 Ladki ka blood pressure bahut jaldi high hojata hai...so, just take extra care of her anger...😛😆 Girl really needs to attend some "Anger Management" classes...& ofcourse do make sure, never to get her angry 😆😆😆 life wud be simpler for you 👍🏼 chinti ka khoon "bahut" jaldi khaul jata hai 😆😆😆So beware😆😆😆
As for Ananya, next time aapko gussa aaye,😆😆 be on my Kabir or anyone else, just take 2-3 deep breaths... 😛😆 saans andar lo, saans bahar chodo 😛😆 Keep Calm!!
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Anybody can become Angry - that is easy,
but to be angry with the Right person and to the Right degree and at the Right time and for the Right purpose, and in the Right way
That is not within everybody's power and is not easy
- Aristotle
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Episode127
October 12, 2015
Hindi TV Shows
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
