Anita made me relaxed

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Posted: 9 years ago
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When Anita accepted Kabir overnight for the 1st time without asking anything about the reason of first divorce or not tried to do some background check as there were lots of rumours around. He was not at all a good choice as Son in law for a mother. But she only believed in Kabir's words that he will not allow his past to become a reason of Ananya's sorrow. He had forget his past & moved on. Both were proved wrong after Shreya's re-entry. She only wanted her daughter's happiness.
Me, as a mother of a teenager, cannot think that without some basic knowledge I can accept any person as my damad . I will positively take some time, think and will take any decision. I then feel that may be I am not so broad minded. But, when I see that for her husband's justice she did not do anything & Ananya basically was given lots of misguiding information by her. With that , she is so impractical that she is not worried that her daughter is so late at night is out of house in a city like Delhi & no one is with her. She is only want justice for her husband and not at all worried about her young daughter. She never keep her promise which she made to Kabir.

Where, Ananya kept her all promises. First day she promised Kabir that she will trust him blindly and no matter what happened in the past or what he was in the past. She did that. She also told, "yeh zaroori nehi hain ki aaj aap kya the. Yeh zaroori hain aap kya ho aur kya ho sakhte ho." Aaj ka sach yeh hain ki Kabir usse jhut bola hain aur it hurt her blind faith. So, here she is also justified.

Now ,the news hit her like a bolt from the blue, one after another. She needs some time to grab herself. For us, it is 8 yrs old story but for her the murder news of her father is a fresh news, a fresh wound which is bleeding profusely and with that a lie from the person whom she loved most & trusted most and exactly after that she saw the murderer of her father standing infront of her to join hands with Kabir. Thanks to CVs that they did not made her a understanding DEVI but a girl who is burning from inside in pain and burn the people around her with anger & insensitivity. Kabir understands her as he really loves her. I love my sherni. Time will heal her pain & she will come to her senses slowly.

Not Ananya but Anita's behaviour is wired for me.
I feel relaxed that I am not narrow minded , I am a practical mother. 😊

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hats off to you for still thinking about Anita..for me she is off my radar since she threw ring and then the way she said..karta hoga pyaar...ehsaan chuka dungi...😡
I never had problems with Anu breaking relation..being angry .
Hurt...only problem was she went to the point of almost no return with her accusations..like him selling his integrity and all
Hope we see her repenting those words
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree with you Koyel
I have aksi said the same many times

Anita is the one who is weird

I have always felt so since the beginning

There are so many weird things she has done
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I feel so bad for Anita's character. I once called her a rock star for the way she being a single mom brought up her kids to be such nice fun-loving happy people without a blemish of the past, she is supportive and gives timely advice etc. etc.. etc..

But somewhere along the way, I gave up on her. Day she thew that ring, that was it. She arranged for a puja for blessings and all, and then promptly hurled that ring at Kabir's face. What kind of a behavior is that. Call me old fashioned and all, but I am quite sentimental and could not relate to her character as a mom in that scene or ever since..

I am not sure if CVs plan to redeem her character in any way. I feel, it is beyond redemption now. There is no way they can bring back the cool mom that she was for her children...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonyjknum

Hats off to you for still thinking about Anita..for me she is off my radar since she threw ring and then the way she said..karta hoga pyaar...ehsaan chuka dungi...😡

I never had problems with Anu breaking relation..being angry .
Hurt...only problem was she went to the point of almost no return with her accusations..like him selling his integrity and all
Hope we see her repenting those words


The problem is that she cannot believe that Kabir can hide his helpless situation from her . She is too blind. She believe that only in one situation Kabir can lie her if he is guilty. Otherwise, Kabir promised her that there will be no hiding of truth in their relationship . Bolna asan hain jispe bitta hain woh janta hain.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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That 'ehsaan' wala dialogue was such a put off. I can understand she must be dejected and extremely hurt at the turn of events, but you just can't question anyone's love like that out of the blue, specially when that man has saved your daughter's life innumerable times risking his own damn life. That day Anita just died for me. Though I wasn't vocal about it before but I feel Anita's character will be very hard to redeem. And I just don't understand the way she always shuts armaan off whenever he tries to speak sense. Lol. Ridiculous!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: koyelbasu


The problem is that she cannot believe that Kabir can hide his helpless situation from her . She is too blind. She believe that only in one situation Kabir can lie her if he is guilty. Otherwise, Kabir promised her that there will be no hiding of truth in their relationship . Bolna asan hain jispe bitta hain woh janta hain.

koyel thats why I said Anu had every right to break off...i fact never ever go back to him...fine..but atleast you know him ...this much that he wont sell off himself..if he was that bad why on earth your father trusted him more than your mom even...and i didnt like that...aur chalo she was not in a position to think straight...bol diya but after Rajveer's revelation..now toh she can say sorry...and I want har to repent what she said him...its my pov...dont want to offend anyone
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Posted: 9 years ago
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And also, she believes in situations according to her own convenience. Jab mann kiya toh Kabir pe vishwaas kiya aur jab mann kiya Shreya pe bharosa karke Kabir ko bura bhala kahaa. There is no parity in her actions. If she was really reluctant for the relationship, then she should have taken her time to decide and give her nod for the relation. There too, she jumped the gun, and we thought what a rock star mom she is. Every mother is worried about her child's future, no denying that but what's with this ping pong logic. Agar bharosa kiya hai toh kayam bhi rakho na yaar.. -.-
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonyjknum

koyel thats why I said Anu had every right to break off...i fact never ever go back to him...fine..but atleast you know him ...this much that he wont sell off himself..if he was that bad why on earth your father trusted him more than your mom even...and i didnt like that...aur chalo she was not in a position to think straight...bol diya but after Rajveer's revelation..now toh she can say sorry...and I want har to repent what she said him...its my pov...dont want to offend anyone


Sony, I feel that Ananya is somehow not aware of how much Sudhir Kashyap trusted Kabir. All she knows that Kabir was the only person who had written an article in her father's defence. That's abut it. The level of trust they shared is not properly disclosed and probably that's why she is not able to understand the gravity of the situation.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: .SoHu.


Sony, I feel that Ananya is somehow not aware of how much Sudhir Kashyap trusted Kabir. All she knows that Kabir was the only person who had written an article in her father's defence. That's abut it. The level of trust they shared is not properly disclosed and probably that's why she is not able to understand the gravity of the situation.
[/QUOs agree..but thats what I am saying after Rajveer's revelation that mr kashyap gave letter to kabir and kabir was the one he wanted to see last...now she knows na...and also as to how much kabir had to suffer because of this case...he lost his family...and always had this guilt of not being able to help...
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