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๐ Loved it .. awesomeOriginally posted by: -purnima-
Destiny is the choices we Make...
Karma--action that has consequences++++++
Destiny, a fixed timeline of events that is inevitable and unchangeable but Karma is negotiable, in the sense that you can make up for things...its upto you as a individual kind of deeds you do, good or bad, positive-negative...its your deeds define you, & the universal law of Karma-- "What goes round, comes round" ...it doesn't matter what you do to other people, good or harm, whether intentionally or unwittingly, directly or indirectly, by action or by omission, is what you will receive in the future...& Destiny will just act as that medium, that opportunity which enable us to learn lessons, acquire new abilities, develop our consciousness...
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Destiny is opportunity and fate is karma. We are in control of our destiny but have no control over our fate. Destiny cannot be forced on us; if we are forced then it is our fate. Destiny gives us an opportunity to turn a situation to our advantage and accomplish something great through our own efforts. It is designed to give us the opportunities, but it is only an outline - not an exact script. It doesn't detract from our free-will in any way, because we decide exactly how we want to act in any situation...
** 8 years back for Kabir, his decision how to act in that particular situation ...his "deeds" of choosing one path over other, choosing family, relations, over helping Sudhir...choosing not to stand up for truth, defined his Karma now 8 years later...& back then he cudn't do anything to save Sudhir, he succumbed under pressure...& it had been Sudhir's debt on him...but same time it also acted his as a learning process, to be manipulative in this manipulative world...to change himself as a person...
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** on personal level too, if years back he gave Shreya a chance to break him, emotionally, mentally...allowed her to break him down into pieces...& changed his life, now, by bringing him face to face with her, its destiny giving him a chance again to make her pay for what all wrong she did to him.
Now, Destiny gave him another chance to rectify his mistakes.. both professionally & personally ...its his chance to make up for what he cudn't do back then...& once again his "karma" will decide destiny of his future, his love, his relationship with Ananya...Now he is more wiser, stronger to modify opportunity given to him...it will depend on him, how exactly he utilises this situation to his advantage.I agree
All good deeds he did now, over these years made him gain support & strength he will require to face his past all over again & change his future for better.
There is no other destiny than the consequences of our actions, but we do have freedom to act, which enables us to modify our destiny if we are wise enough. We do not need to pay by suffering; we can pay by doing good, if we can recognise what is right and just do it.๐we just need to wise enough to do right actions at right time.
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A literally emotional episode as a fangirl, just hated to see my poor Kabir, getting publically lashed out... irrespective how justified Ananya's every word was, how understanding I am of her current frame of mind...still felt sorry for Kabir... ๐ญ
What really surprises me, that in all these days working with Kabir, & more importantly she had been a reporter all these years Ananya didn't learnt the important fact, she should have learnt by now, "har kahani ke do pehlu hote hai"...๐๐ .I don't mind how rude she behaves with Kabir personally, or she ever reunites with Kabir or not...that gonna be her personal decision as a individual...๐ค but I guess Ananya is getting too emotional while working on the case...& all her rational thinking of right-wrong, friend-foe has gone out of the window๐๐...๐๐
Somewhere down the line she is letting "heart over rule her head" be it in love for her father & hate for Kabir, agreed she is angry on Kabir & she has full right to be, but while working on story of "Sudhir Kashyap Murder" she should also try to work professionally as a reporter, I know its easier said than done ...but it will be beneficial for her, if she analyses the whole case as "Ananya Kashyap" the Reporter & sees it as any other story...& importantly tries to see it from every perspective...taking out her anger & frustration on Kabir will not help her solve the mystery...infact she should concentrate more on gathering more proofs, that too solid proofs...with or without Kabir's help that's immaterial...but she will have to overcome her personal feelings be it love or hate whatever & start dealing with case rationally...
Instead of just accusing Kabir & investigating the case with mindset of Kabir as "main culprit"...or person involved, she should go deeper in the case beyond Kabir...& find out the culprits...eventually while progressing the case, if at any stage she feels Kabir should be punished...she should definitely go ahead with charging Kabir with every accusation...but not before investigating the whole case unbiasedly.Right now she is muddled with emotions .. will be back soon once any other jhatka hits her
To a certain extent, I guess Kabir is doing same, irrespective how his current emotional state of mind is, he might be broken as a lover, as a fiance...but he is making sure that it doesn't effect on what he is planning...at this stage only silver lining for Kabir is, that he is getting much needed support from Khalid, & Ananya's friends... Its officially now Team Kabir + Ananya (alone) v/s Maya + RG...atleast, he can sigh in relief in this one context that apart from Ananya, he has people he can fall back upon for support in KKN...& he can plan out things keeping all these people in loop...
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Inspite of being biased fangirl, I have always supported Ananya & have understood her current frame of mind...
** As a daughter she might somewhere feel guilty of falling in love with a person who has been witness to her dad's murder...& indirectly Kabir can be considered as murderer as Ananya pointed him to be...
**She might regret falling in love with a person who didn't do anything to save an innocent man, Sudhir Kashyap...
** Most importantly as an ex girlfriend, ex fianc she feels broken & betrayed that Kabir hid such an important truth from her specifically when he knew all along, a daughter, a girl was keeping all hopes from "The Kabir Sharma" only to be crushed by same man...
**As a friend she feels more cheated as Kabir had lied to her about Sudhir's sucide & in a way demotivated a daughter from search of truth about her father
**As a woman she regrets blindly trusting a partner...only to get her trust to be shattered by that same person.No matter, I can justify Ananya's every action & will accept even if Ananya decides to leave Kabir forever & CVs don't give a happy end to KaYa as a love story...I hardly care about it, coz for a daughter it wud be really a toughest decision to continue being in a relationship with a person whom she considers as a murderer...Neither i expect her to continue relationship...as a fangirl, as audience I am prepared for an incomplete end to their love story too...
AWWW aisa na bolo puri .. fans a dil tooth jayega aur us toote hue dil ko kaun jodega?๐ฅฑ
But Ananya publically humiliating Kabir is something I cannot justify & accept, agreed at current stage I cannot expect Ananya to act rationally, but that doesn't explain calling Kabir being involved in murder publically & last time when whole chip misplacing fiasco happened, Ananya herself had objected to Kabir scolding her publically inspite of the fact, Kabir as a boss had full rights to do so...
The only "Sakaratmakta" I can find in whole situation is, this whole Ananya's anti speech against Kabir, her public humiliation can actually work in Kabir's favour...๐ณ๐ณ as it can be part of whole Kabir's mind game, what he called in his jaane se pehle "kismet mauka deti hai, aur humare karam mauke pe chauka maarte hai" ๐๐๐
So, it was Kabir's mauke pe chauka, as somewhere he wanted this public drama to happen, though he didn't planned it out with Ananya literally ...but if I know Kabir & his mind game, & the way he wants to play it, I guess through his actions, Kabir instigated Ananya to shout on him, Kabir himself wanted this public spectacle to happen...๐๐ Else why wud Kabir had stopped Ananya in middle of office inspite of knowing she wud confront him...to know, what she will do money he cud have always followed her, or cud found out from his sources. But Kabir practically allowed her to lash him out publically, he cud have easily just walked back to his cabin without letting Ananya complete anything...Somewhere Kabir wants Shreya to get confident that her plan of breaking Kabir, his relation with Ananya is getting successful...it will solve her double purpose...--Seeing her plan already successful, she wud not play any more mind games with "his Ananya"...she will play directly with him.๐๐ & then he will show it to her ๐๐๐who plays better ๐ณ๐
--Shreya in her over confidence,will definitely do some mistake...& Kabir gonna make herself confess her actions... he will get a perfect opportunity to expose her alongwith RG & if by any chance years back too if Shreya was involved in Sudhir Kashyap case, that will also be exposed.
Really hope the chance destiny has given to Kabir, to rectify his "past karam", really changes his future for better...๐๐
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But all sakaratmakta aside, it doesn't reduce fangirl's hurt & pain seeing hero getting publically humiliated... since Ananya ke life mein "dokhebaaz ki jagah nahi hai"...I don't care about Kabir getting Ananya back in his life or not...& personally neither I want to see KaYa coming back together, specially very soon & very easily...when one has such serious trust issues on the partner...it can be really disastrous for any relation...& I see no point in a relationship where at every stage person needs to prove his/her innocence, love for other one... today it has happened coz Kabir hid the truth, tomorrow he wud need to prove for some other reason ๐๐๐...life gonna be tough for him...my poor hero, ๐ค
Still for his love for Ananya she will need to come back in his life๐๐ ...but I don't want to see Kabir accepting Ananya back easily... for sure, Ananya is required to apologise Kabir for her behavior, fangirl demands a full length apology๐ till that happens fangirl officially "Katti" with Ananya๐๐๐...all the best to girl, that she finds out everything related to her father's murder & murderers...๐๐๐
Waise free advice to Ananya, ๐๐๐ if she genuinely feels Kabir is truly responsible for her father's death & she holds him guilty to be one of murderers ๐๐๐...& she really wants Kabir to get punished for crime he did--of hiding the truth from her...I wud suggest she should file an FIR against him & let police arrest him, ๐๐๐considering Ananya has a "email" as solid proof against Kabir, she should fight a legal battle against him,๐๐๐ let a trial go on "Sudhir Kashyap's murder" most importantly in court of Law, Kabir will get atleast one single chance to defend himself, to prove himself innocent...๐๐ dats the easiest way I see of making Ananya see things beyond the actual "murder" ๐๐ & she getting know the "reason" behind Kabir's succumbing under pressure years back...& eventually Ananya will also get to know the real person behind "email fiasco".๐+++++++++
Khalid you are a gem๐๐ , wish you would have been girl I wud have loved to see you falling in love with Kabir...& wud have been happy to see Kabir getting an understanding & matured girlfriend...๐๐& smart one too ๐๐๐
Seriously, its such a delight to see Kabir finding his confidante in Khalid...these two together gonna be just be terrific as team...โญ๏ธ just love their coordination & understanding...wud just love to see two of them taking MaYa heads on & having a face off...& specifically would love to see Khalid's manicured nails on Shreya "nakhoon dekhne mein hume bhi maza aata hai"... & boy, just loved to have Khalid's tanz after so long was missing since Malvika left, it wud be more fun to see Khalid's tanz on Shreya...๐๐๐& how bang on "apne past karma, ko present se milate huye ek mixed sa kal banana ki koshish kar rahi ho"...I love khalid .. he is teh best kaya shippper.. ๐
Glad to see Ananya's friends atleast could see Kabir's good "karma" more๐๐, *fingers crossed* at this stage Richa doesn't have a "hriday parivartan" ๐๐๐& she gets back on her anti Kabir mode... Uske like Ananya maate kaafi hai...๐ By the way congratulations Richa ji, your tubelight is on..."Shreya mam kaisi nikli" ...๐
Shreya, for once I felt like she understands Kabir better than Ananya๐๐๐...even after so many years Shreya very well knows when & which buttons to push for Kabir, to break him...to make him react like she wants...๐๐.If she had genuinely loved Kabir, or even now, eventually if Shreya gets a change of heart I am ready to ship her Jodi with Kabir...she will be better partner as she is consistent with her feelings for Kabir, unlike Ananya... whose feelings change according to situations... & fails to understand Kabir's point of view depending on her mood... ๐๐๐
As for MaYa, congratulations on first win, ๐๐ till now your moves are going perfect...every teer, going bulls eye...๐๐๐ only problem is you are playing against "ghaag" Kabir...๐๐ so, just sit down & watch when "Karma" strikes you back...& alongwith RG, just wait, who gets first in firing line...& who gets to meet & experience my "Ghaag" Kabir first๐๐ ...considering Shreya loves to be no.1...so Kabir can start with her๐also, feminism ka zamana hai & Kabir is gentleman with womans so, it should be "ladies first"๐๐๐
As for maya zoor ka jhatka haye zorroon se laga hone waala hai.. soon๐
So, Goodluck to Kabir, that he gets successful in whatever he is planning, & hope he makes best out of even these worst emotional situations ...& like I always say, be strong...& at no stage, wudnot like to see you breaking down...& I know I will never see Kabir breaking irrespective at this stage literally "zindagi mein tsunami aayi hai" ....& I believe Kabir will fulfill what he said "bikharkar apne tukde khud uthaunga..."
Sorry for Shreya, she will miss out this time to join broken Kabir ๐๐So, All the best Hero...๐ณ๐ณ
Go for the kill...+++++++
p.s."Waiting for my "Ghaag" Kabir to back with a bang...& fangirl humble request to Kabir, Please shoo away the lover Kabir for a while...๐๐๐atleast till the final day when Sudhir Kashyap mystery is solved completely...lock Lover Kabir somewhere...๐๐๐or better I should take him along somewhere with me ๐
p.p.s"Wud love to see Kabir not melting like ice, whenever (IF) Ananya apologizes or regrets her actions...I know girl will never do that but still if anything like an apology happens...wud like to see Ananya putting in every effort to apologize to Kabir.๐๐
Let the players play,
Let the haters hate, and
Let karma handle their fate=============
Episode 112
September 21,2015