Anita Kashyap - Sadly the most disappointing character of the show!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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So finally guys we know the truth! I am glad cvs kept it simple. A very well-etched out and quite a believable scenario. And I even don't see a family angle here. Even if Monu wasnt Kabirs nephew but any random kid, I would always want Kabir to save the kid and abandon the case. To sacrifice the life of a kid for a person who would never come back to life can be a stupid thing to do. By writing that article and getting one of the goons arrested Kabir already did his best for Mr. Kashyap. And if he would have went to do more what all he would have been left with was probably three dead people in his house or a set of parents mourning the death of their kid. How can anybody do this? That too for a stranger? No one can...not even us. Rather after knowing the truth I feel so proud of Mr. Sharma and his love! 😳 And I am sure this time he will finally get justice for Mr. Kashyap and prove to Ananya that he is still the same Kabir whom she hero-worshiped for being her father's guardian angel.

Anyways coming to my post, I know guys she is real but sadly she is the most disappointing character in this show. Yes I am talking about THE MRS ANITA KASHYAP!! In a world where we are embracing the idea of strength of womanhood Anita comes across as the biggest weak link in Ananya's life. And I have felt this not just in these days but from always, specifically from the day when Ananya had lost her job and what all Anita worried for was how the expenses of the family will be taken care of. There are a few questions I wish someone could answer about Mrs. Kashyap and hence make me understand that why she is so highly or why her opinion is so important in anything?

1) Why didn't she ever work or became independent? - I mean its not bad to depend on your daughter for meeting the expenses of the family but for a woman whose husband was missing since 8 years and who had two kids to take care of, I would have loved to see her as an independent woman who had her own share of struggles in making her kids what they are today. Only then all her taunts or this attitude would have been of any meaning.

2) Why didn't she go behind Sudhir's truth? - Afterall she was the wife! Kabir was a stranger still he did so much for Mr. Kashyap. Because of his article Sudhir was given the benefit of doubt and bailed out, basically his case got a new lease of life in his favor only because of Kabir. It was because of Kabir that one of the murderers was caught by police. But what exactly did Mrs Kashyap do to prove Sudhir innocent? What exactly did she do to find about his whereabouts? Just send her daughter to become a journo and find out the truth? That too in a city like Delhi. And she even expects Ananya would come out unscathed out of this mess WOW! 😆

3) How could she expect Ananya to chase Sudhir's murders now? - I mean we are debating over whether Kabir was right to hide the truth from Ananya or not despite the fact that he did it for Ananya's safety only but no one questions this woman's idea of encouraging her daughter to go and chase those culprits who actually murdered her father 8 years ago!! Sorry but this is not a motherly emotion...period! No explanations needed. Any mother would explain her daughter (atleast for formality sake) to not pursue such a dangerous case as what all they will get by digging up buried skeletons now? The people who had the power to kill her dad just imagine what all they can do to Ananya??? Something that can leave her battered for life. Something even worse than death!! But the woman actually had the audacity to ask her daughter that would she go against her fiancee in proving her dead father innocent. So basically at this moment Ananya's safety, her feelings, her marriage, her future, her whole life can go to hell in front of proving Mr. Kashyap innocent - The same Mr. Kashyap about whom Anita would easily believe that he is missing or dead as and when a new person informed her about this and even accept it and happily move on 😆

4) How could she not see through her daughter's pain? - I mean not even for a second did she hug Ananya and try to console her. Dude her engagement got broken? She is shattered and what all you ask is this shit?? Not even once Anita tried to explain to Ananya that atleast listen to Kabir once and hear his side of the story. It took her no time to break her daughter's alliance with a man who actually was ready to sacrifice his life for her daughter. Who saved her son from a drug case and who was the only one who actually cared to support her husband at one point. She called him a coward and threw the ring at him. Is it so easy to see your daughter's marriage getting broken? Is it so easy to endanger your daughter's life like this without yourself doing anything or taking any risk. If a kid like Armaan can understand that Kabir should be given a chance to explain himself, why cant a woman who has seen so many adversities in life???


I am sorry to say but Anita comes across as a highly selfish and delusional person to me. Apart from these in past she did many other mistakes too - She never tried to know the full truth from Kabir and allowed KaYa to carry on with their relationship without knowing why Kabir got divorced...a mom can never do this!!

She always kept her children in dark about Sudhir's suicide story. I wish she had told it to Ananya atleast when she decided to become a journo...kam se kam Ananya wont have lived in the impression that her dad is missing. Knowing about the suicide could have helped Ananya go a step closer to her dads truth. I must say Ananya needs to marry Mr. Sharma asap...she is very unsafe in the Kashyap house.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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point 4 is the most shocking. How callously, she throws the ring at him. Cv's could have toned her down.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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For todays epi i m thinking from anitas pov ... n accepting her first reaction towards kabeer... she was not in right frame of mind...
But later when she is advising ananya and labelling kabeer as 'dogla like rest of world' was too much... She had enough time to think and analyse kabeers deeds... but she chose to ignore...

i think Anita must be a working lady... Ananya started workimg 4 yrs back. .. So it was only on Anita to work n earn...
Anita has been shown as cool and understanding mother but now she also wants to knw the truth of SK case... She is not seeing broader picture... once Ananya ll fall into danger...she ll understand the gravity of situation... we ll witness anoder sobbing "i m sorry kabeer" chant from anita...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Totally disappointing behavior from Anita Aunty.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Agree with you Malika.

But, then in the current track CVs have made mince meat of Kabir and Ananya's characters, so Anita had no hope, I guess. All three are behaving contrary to what they were doing all this while.

Armaan and Shreya are the only ones who are true to their character. Armaan continues to be loyal to his jiju and Shreya continues with her Kabir ke naam ka jap.

It is only after this track ends that the characters -- hopefully!!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -sharada-



Agree with you Malika.

But, then in the current track CVs have made mince meat of Kabir and Ananya's characters, so Anita had no hope, I guess. All three are behaving contrary to what they were doing all this while.

Armaan and Shreya are the only ones who are true to their character. Armaan continues to be loyal to his jiju and Shreya continues with her Kabir ke naam ka jap.

It is only after this track ends that the characters -- hopefully!!!


once this show started I knew, some kind of problem will crop up between Kaya due to sudhir kashyap, so this is exactly what happened. i will let ananya stew in her anger and hurt, But hope she is atleast ready to listen to kabir by next week. She maybe sudhir kashyap's daugther but she loves Kabir as well.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I am also very disjointed at Anita
Ananya"s reaction was expected as she has always refused to listen when she is angry . But somehow I was expecting a bit more from Anita this time

Mallika in fact I have always found Anita emotionally fragile suffering with an escapist attitude

From the beginning her dependency on her daughter to give emotional support was very high. Financial support and emotional support are two different things and Ananya had to provide both to her mother , that is why she always refrained from revealing a sting operations to her mother

Only time when I was surprises with Anita was when she had come to know that Ananya loves Kabir , she had said some mature dialogues then . But I guess even those were part of her escapists nature . She should at that time also have told Ananya to find more about Kabir . And finding means finding from neutral people from affected party

After Shreya track started many people were sure that Anita will see through Shreya . But emotionally fragile people never see through . They always find an escape route. Going to Shreya for her version of the story was also an escape route. Because finding truth and digging at it is tough and believing a lie is easy .

Yes that's what Anita has always tried to do. Believe a lie without digging at the truth

So at that time I had not expected Anita to see Through Shreya

But yesterday I was expecting her to atleast ask Kabir why he didn't stand in witness against the murderers. After all he is only an eye witness not the miirderer for God's sake.

After the bomb blast I was expecting a little more sensibility from Anita biut no may be the writer wants to keep her emotionally fragile

I have a question even if Ananya finds out the truth they still need Kabir to stand in witness box to prosecute because he is the only witness. Otherwise what's the use of finding the truth????

Also what about that comment Kabir jaise log dunia main bhare pare hain. I mean the man was ready to die to save Ananya. If the world was full of such people it would be a better place to live

I am so disappointed in Anita

Btw Mallika by when do you think Ananya will come to know the reason why Kabir abandoned the case...???


Edited by NandiniRaizadaa - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Very true. I've posted something similar in the other thread.
Reposting the same here, since this post also echoes the same sentiment. Sorry for the repetition.

Yes, Anita's character has been portrayed like a pendulum.

First Kabir discloses his love for her daughter, she is upset. Then she calls Kabir, talks to him and swings to the other side, accepts him.

Next when Shreya tells her twisted story, she goes back to the other side. Don't know what happened, how Kabir manaoed her, suddenly she swings to the other side and accepts him.

Now she comes to know that Kabir has hidden a truth, she swings back to this side. Insults him verbally and throws the ring at his face. Absolute misbehavior.

I'm sure once she comes to now the background she will swing back to the other side. Isn't it shameless?

Understood she is a human and a mother. I don't expect her to accept Kabir instantly after knowing the fact that he has been lying.

Understood Ananya is young and implusive.

Understood that its Kabir's fault.

Understood that every character is flawed and real.

But as someone rightly said, the story is flawed here.

Given that in the first 2 instances, she was not fully convinced and she agreed only for her daughter's happiness. But in the human bomb incident, she was projected as if her eyes have opened and she was fully convinced and accepted Kabir completely. She even apologises to Ananya for doubting Kabir after human bomb incident.

Now again swinging back to the other extreme?

A matured lady who saw with her own eyes, how a man risked his own life for her daughter, isn't she atleast expected to think that there must be something serious why Kabir has behaved so? Even in the forum everyone expected her to give the benefit of doubt to Kabir and make Ananya see some reason this time.

Please don't tell me that this time it involves her husband and it's a normal reaction. If we go on justifying every act as a normal human reaction, then we are in a denial mode. We'll never learn. Life gives everyone opportunity to learn and move forward. Not move backward. There's a flaw in characterization here.

#Reporters for some reason is deviating from its course, I feel. May be the channel is not supporting their ideas. And they are forced to become mundane. If that's so, then it's a sad scenerio for Indian television. We, different audience, will never get to see what we legitimately want.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: pomegranate

point 4 is the most shocking. How callously, she throws the ring at him. Cv's could have toned her down.


Yeah And later she will just come and say mujhe maaf kar do beta and that's it

And may be not even that , she will just keep her hands on her nose and give shocked expressions

She is really a weak ling
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: rabzonedge

For todays epi i m thinking from anitas pov ... n accepting her first reaction towards kabeer... she was not in right frame of mind...
But later when she is advising ananya and labelling kabeer as 'dogla like rest of world' was too much... She had enough time to think and analyse kabeers deeds... but she chose to ignore...

i think Anita must be a working lady... Ananya started workimg 4 yrs back. .. So it was only on Anita to work n earn...
Anita has been shown as cool and understanding mother but now she also wants to knw the truth of SK case... She is not seeing broader picture... once Ananya ll fall into danger...she ll understand the gravity of situation... we ll witness anoder sobbing "i m sorry kabeer" chant from anita...



Yeah and I guess that's how it will happen

Ananya will fall into danger and then she will ask help from that same dogla insaan

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