What Shreya doesn't understand.. - Page 2

Originally posted by: NandiniRaizadaa

Geetha quite an interesting question towards the end

I feel that Shreya is an obsessed psychopath with an abnormal mind

any evil person with a sound mind would want to desteoy Ananya and paint Ananya in a bad light to Kabit

but she wants to brak him down

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She wants a yes man , a trphy , a man who is sucessful but cant think fpor himself

She wont get him though even if she breaks them apart he will never come back to her. The hate is too deep

Originally posted by: rabzonedge

Shreya has 'zidd' for kabeer and nuthing more...the day she gets kabeer she ll loose interest in him...(which ll never happen)

Originally posted by: BedouinMe

Oh, she feels she can take over an adhesive manufacturing company and join Kabir's "tutey dil ke tukre" and make him hers ! Thats what she said yesterday ! People have rightly said, Ego makes even the most intelligent turn blind and dumb !

Originally posted by: sonyjknum

I think when she came to kkn she had thought that she would again be able to play games with kabir like the last time.praise him..make him fall in love Such audacious thinking in the first place but little she knew about the depth of kaya relatin but knowing now she just wants him at any way..I doubt if kabir isunaware regarding her affairs and all..she just didn't mean to him anymore way backFor Shreya kabir is a trophy..now even more with his status..she is alone ad she wants him.but this is not the way relations are made..I think she will break him professionally because personally Anu can never hurt Kabir and for Kabir other than Anu no one matters

Originally posted by: Malika

Geetha quite an interesting post. Though I never doubted what Kabir said about the bet...you see the hero can never be wrong specially if he says something about the vamp. That's the thumb rule 😆 I was pretty sure about the bet specially how Shreya herself said on day one how no emotion matters for her when it comes to her ambitions. Also somewhere I even thought if Shreya too ever broke the sanctity of marriage and Kabir doesnt know it but for me that doesnt matter coz it in no way can serve to be a white-washing mechanism for Kabirs mistake for me atleast. Knowing his circumstances, I have accepted him with his mistake like Ananya, 😳

Malika, I can't really fathom any woman wasting years of her life for a stupid bet. I am convinced that she started dating him for a h bet, but I still feel, over a period of time, she realised the young & dashing journalist Kabir sharma would do very well as a trophy husband and that's when she convinced herself that she had fallen in love with him. Hahhaha, I agree with the thumb rule, but as the writer was keep insisting that Shreya isn't your typical vamp, I was looking for justifications for her behaviour..

I agree, Shreya's affair doesn't whitewash Kabir's ONS, and I too have accepted him with his flaws. In a way his flaws makes him more endearing ;). Am I making any sense?

But what you said is totally right and I didnt think about it. Why would Shreya ever want a guy who was dumped by Ananya? He will again be week then.

But then I also think shreya has done this before. She wants him even despite of that ONS...means somewhere she knows that ONS happened because of her (directly or indirectly we dont know). So she has given him benefit of doubt there.

And similarly if Ananya will leave him, I feel for her he wont be a dumped man, but rather she will take it as an achievement that it was due to her manipulations that Ananya dumped him. The dumping things is not a shame but a trophy for her. Because her brain doesnt function like normal ppl.

Shreya did dump him at that time (after the ONS) because the alchocolic, broken Kabir didn't hold any appeal for her, now she wants him back for what he is now, the confident, successful man. The ONS as such didn't have any meaning for her, as Kabir and Manav said, it is was just an excuse to dump him. Kabir hold more appeal to her now not just because of his success, also because she thinks he is beyond her reach as he had moved on with Ananya, Shreya like a ziddi kid wants what the other kid Ananya is playing with ;).

I think Shreya might have a high taste but very low self-respect specially when it comes to her "needs/desires".

Originally posted by: idonkno

Welcome back Geetha! Interesting post like always!

Thank you and Good to see your detailed reply 😊

I made a post on Shreya's personality flaw while you were away and since this topic is dedicated to Shreya I think I should start with talking about her main flaw first. She is an adaptive narcissist'. She belonged to a very affluent family and rich are apparently more self-absorbed. They don't see selfishness and narcissism as negative traits. Rather they make no secret of the fact that they want to make themselves happy before considering anyone else. So, in whole it is her upbringing that misguided her self-esteem and thinking about self thus turning her into what she is today (which is now so crystallized into her personality that it is nearly irreplaceable). Yes, Shreya married him for a bet because she had to prove that she can get whatever she wants (I again blame her upbringing her) and in no means she could have afforded to be proved wrong. Thus, she began her act of making Kabir believe that she loved him and finally married him to prove her point but once the reality struck her she felt it was too low of her to be with that man who was nowhere near her and the life-style that she was used to. She was used to life with all perks and she gave up on those perks for a man she did not even love (he was a bet to her after all) and thus as Kabir said she changed completely (and her so called love vanished). Now those things which used to appreciate about him in order to impress him were the things she hated the most about him. She constantly kept nagging him and calling him a failure because that marriage was suffocating her and no one else other than her could be blamed for that but she did not want to accept the fact that she ruined her life on her own.

Now Kabir said that she was waiting for him to commit a mistake so that she could use it as an excuse to end the marriage but now I feel that the frustration level would have almost reached a saturation level when he saw that Kabir was getting back to his normal self in Tarini's company and how could she let him be happy when she was feeling so suffocated. And hence she concocted the entire Kabir-Tarini issue. There's definitely more to Shreya-Tarini that we know and Tarini also seems to be guilt"ridden and this explains she always so badly wants Kabir to be happy and KaYa to be together (plus why she hold no grudges against Shreya because she was responsible for her actions irrespective of Shreya's involvement or not).

So that is Shreya in the past and these 8 years must have brought some changes in her too. So, what is Shreya presently? IMO Shreya is an empty void now but she is masking that from everyone by creating a persona of confidence, charm and empowerment. She might have had numerous flings after separation but nothing worked out for her and when she got to know that Kabir Sharma is a catch now she did not even waste a second to re-enter his life to fulfill her own needs (umm...as in validation that she is someone highly valued??). At the moment she terribly needs to feel that she is emotionally existent and it was going all smooth for her when Kabir was affected in her presence or until she felt that there are chances that he has not got over her yet. Even hate is a strong emotion and thus Kabir's hatred towards her was also satiating her in some way. But now she can clearly see that Kabir is being liberated from the shackles of their past and has become completely indifferent to her (as she said Kabir has gained a new rhythm with Ananya thus indicating that he is no longer stuck on to his past). The woman cannot accept this at all and the 'engagement' just triggered into Shreya's ego being rendered insignificant and meaningless. I probably feel the emotions that she is currently experiencing are 'abandoned' and 'worthless'. Thus, she talks about forcing Ananya to give pain to Kabir and then helping him come out of this because it is like a medium of feeding her false self in order to protect herself from collapsing on an inner-level. She did not ever love him or can love him...everything is just about her 'emotional survival' and satiating her fragile ego'.

I hope I made sense (though I doubt 😛)

Originally posted by: NandiniRaizadaa

Geetha quite an interesting question towards the end

I feel that Shreya is an obsessed psychopath with an abnormal mind

any evil person with a sound mind would want to desteoy Ananya and paint Ananya in a bad light to Kabit

but she wants to brak him down

\

She wants a yes man , a trphy , a man who is sucessful but cant think fpor himself

She wont get him though even if she breaks them apart he will never come back to her. The hate is too deep

Originally posted by: sridhsc

Good post, 1 thing is that do u really think that she will be able to drift these 2 apart, as we have seen Ananya has accepted him with all his flaws and promised to be with him no matter what, will she get influenced with Shreya to break his heart.