--Kal-- Yesterday & Tomorrow--

Don't let your past steal your Future!!!!

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Our "Kal""Past makes our present...& our present somewhere decides our "Kal," our future...Past is something with which we can never run from ...& it always comes as a learning experience where we might have our share of mistakes but what is important to learn from them & make sure that we don't repeat them in future...
Kabir shared his Kal, with Ananya...so that he has a much better & guilt free aane wala Kal...In past, he may have given in to feeling of Love without much of thought...& he paid a big amount for it...& he doesn't want Ananya to repeat same mistake, to just give in to feeling of Love & then later on regret anything...
Kabir really deserves a big wala Hug...for what all he gone through...I don't think whatever he shared with Ananya he wud have shared with anyone uptil now...An advance hug for the moment he comes to know Aunty ji is opposing this relation...
Since this "Kal" is about two people so obviously we have two versions, like Kabir always says "har kahani ke do pehlu hote hai" & two individuals have their versions & since two different people are listening they too have their own reactions...

Firstly an applause for CVs how subtly & smartly they brought out the truth dat too simaltaneously...they literally nailed it...by giving both versions, as a audience it has been good so as to leaving it to our discretion, to support & believe whose version...

I am glad they didn't used any flashback scenes or made it melodramatic but focused on narrative format, which gave Kabir Shreya to narrate their versions & also as our audience to insight in their characters... bestest part they made revelation happen outside...& not in greenroom...since yday I was apprehensive of them getting interrupted...


The difference in narrative was easily noticeable...For one person, past has been hurtful & painful...& for other, a perfect opportunity to once again show it how "Good" & innocent she is...& how "Bad" Kabir is & once again make him responsible for everything...
Its not about judging who was being more convincing, or comparing who being less truthful ...or rating who is wrong who is right... Its all about how either of them has presented his/her version...who had been balanced in their narration...who has accepted own mistakes for failures too instead of just blaming the other one...& hold other one more responsible & guilty...
It has been the case with Shreya's narration...she projected herself to b most innocent & responsible lady...oops girl...back then she wud have been girl...& make Kabir look wrong in front of Mrs. Kashyap...& made him look as one & only reason of failure of relationship... I really doubt if Shreya shared how Kabir exposed her company back then ...
Personally I am not expecting her to reveal the "bet" part, & also ready to give her a benefit of doubt that Kabir might have misunderstood her...may b it was all a lie from her friend, can't be authentic...but still, when she raises question of being "commitment phobic" will she share the fact with mrs. Kashyap what she said yday..."Kabir me nahi...Maine use divorce diya tha". ...it clearly shows inspire of every wrong she did to her, he didn't initiated separation... & if he wud have been commitment phobic...he didn't have married her in her first place ...no matter how much she wud have forced him...If he wud have been commitment phobic he wud have initiated divorce at very first opportunity...but every time he wud have given a chance to marriage to work...

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Kabir had more of a balanced version ...he had no qualms in accepting that he fell in love with Shreya, he gave in to her confessions...& felt good when she made him feel loved "koi mere hone ki wajah se pyaar karta hai" ...
He also accepted that he changed to bad, he went weak & resolved to alcohol...constant taunts & failures lowered his confidence as a person...
Could really feel for Kabir, for once as a husband can tolerate anything, give in to any demand of wife...but getting to know that everything they shared ...the whole relationship has nothing been but just a "bet" ...& own wife making a husband feel weak, &made felt as a looser... It doesn't get more hurtful & harmful than it...

Now it all make sense, why Kabir hates Shreya so much, that he cant work with her...as he fears once again she will make him doubt his own abilities & own confidence...

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No matter how hurtful & painful it might have been for Ananya, but she can see the "sakaratmak" side & feel happy & proud...

** She had been Kabir's first & last love ...irrespective they have been married...or Shreya may have accused him of infidelity...

** Kabir didn't proposed or confessed Shreya...it had been only just her whom Kabir has confessed his love & poured out his heart...

** If marriage happens, she gonna get a loving & responsible Husband...

** oh & yes Kabir had not been womaniser...his social life was only he & his career

Lucky girl...got a wonderful partner...of course with a baggage of past but as a person he is worth having a partner...

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As for Shreya, hats off to her...what a smooth manipulator she is...how conveniently she manages the other person to listen out & beleive in her...for once any one can get convinced until & unless someone doesn't knows her like Kabir...
In past she had been able to manipulate Kabir, made him believe she loves her...made him marry her & now she is doing same with mrs. kashyap...by convincing her that Kabir married just for status...
For once i too wud have supported Shreya over Kabir, if she wud have been balanced in her narration...& not gone self praising that its only "i have been Good" & kabir all wrong & guilty in the relationship...


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Mrs. Kashyap, no doubts can understand her worries, her apprehensions as she being a single mother she fears her daughters future...like Kabir said "ek beti ki maa ke dimaag mein kya chal raha hai samajh sakte hai..." I personally have no issues if she went to Shreya to ask about the past & divorce ...as a mother she has full right to think about her daughters future but overall she surprised me, how exactly & how easily she is trusting Shreya to be 200% truthful to her...in a broader context she is trusting an unknown person, comparatively to Kabir...Shreya is unknown to her...
Before reaching to any decision I think Mrs. Kashyap needs to just sit back & analyse what all Shreya has said to her...& think about the whole situation from every persepective...it gonna be really unfair to be judgemental about Kabir on just what Shreya said...agreed she was his wife at one point of time but if Mrs. Kashyap is giving consideration to Shreya's version she should give a chance to Kabir to say his side too...since as of now, Kabir doesn't know Mrs. Kashyap has known his past she can just go upto him & ask same questions to Kabir & then compare Kabir & Shreya's version of past.
Richa ji, mann mein toh ladoo phoot rahe honge, what she cudn't manage to do, Mrs. Kashyap is doing...the only thing I sighed in relief that Richa ji kept her mouth shut & didn't fueled Mrs. Kashyap's brains further like "you are right aunty...or maine toh pehle kaha tha etc...
Ronnie is a gem, he tried his best to handle the situation & to stop aunty ji from worrying but poor him was in a fix...after a certain level he cannot stop a concerned mother...
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I would say what Kabir had said a week back "jo beete huye kal mein likha hai usse nahi badal sakta...par jo aaj likha jaega, who kal padha jaega"...So good luck to both of KabirAnanya, one extra good luck to Ananya as she will have to work hard on Mrs. Kashyap...she will have to handle her love story as a GF & as a daughter too...
Best of luck to both love birds hope, two together mananage to write a b'ful Today, so that their "Kal" becomes more b'ful...

Good luck to both love birds!!!



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The Past is your Lesson...
Present is your Gift
Future is your Motivation ...


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Episode 91
August 21,2015

Originally posted by: yawfeh

<font color="#990000" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">Hey puri, as usual wonderfulll analysis..😛 loved it to the core.😳. you just penned it perfectly...😊 asusual pl explain the JSP in detail with context.😊 and your take on next week regarding anita's statement and anu's decision... well, the posts of JSP's and the post for each episode you made.. how to keep it / download it in a folder. i just want to keep them as some good memories along with the episodes of reporters. coz i dont think once this serial gets over this posts woulbe there... pl ease help me out??😉</font>

Thanx for liking & commenting
I'm not aware about spoilers...I usually stay away from them...so no idea...
As for JSP --it was basically about struggling b/w past & future...& end result is a person's present suffers...
Like for Kabir he is in a fix as he has to deal with past & future on daily basis ...accepting the fact is only solution for him instead of confronting past or worrying abt future...

Lolz u'll always find post here only you can always come read anytime ...still you can follow index here Review index

Nice analysis Purnima for a heart wrenching episode atleast for me...I was feeling so bad for the man...and how much he had to go through...what she made of such a bright positive human being and still has the audacity tonface him..blame him and what not...now my only wish is that someday Anu gives Shreya back all and more

Lovely analysis, as usual, isme nyi baat kya hai ? U r right writers deserve a big round of applaus 👏 first time ever i seen this kind of revelation. bingoo !!!!!
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Let see how they handle situation and how they both make to shereya payable for what she done in past, i don 't think this time she can escape easily, this time she has to pay., as Ananya saying he is her hero and she cant let her hero loose this war, never .. So picture abhi baki hai mere dost.

Originally posted by: sonyjknum

Nice analysis Purnima for a heart wrenching episode atleast for me...I was feeling so bad for the man...and how much he had to go through...what she made of such a bright positive human being and still has the audacity tonface him..blame him and what not...now my only wish is that someday Anu gives Shreya back all and more

Anita..well what do I say...she is being manipulated just like Kabir was

For Shreya Kabir was a challenge then and is a challenge now...only this time Kabir is not the same...he too has learnt the tricks

And yes the moment they stepped out of green room i remembered you

Thanx for liking & commenting
Indeed Kabir deserves a hug...for what he went through...
As I said Shreya needs a "ghaag Kabir dose" ...taking too much advantage...she is thinking she is winning!!!!!
Rofl as soon as Kabir suggested Chalein... I cracked up laughing !!!

Lovely post, Purnima. You deserve a hug for this post. 🤗